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Waleedbt
August 5th, 2015, 10:57 AM
Hello beautiful VT people! I missed you been a long summer!

So im back with a new case :(
Nothing goes right as i want it , don't really know why.
So been talking to this girl online for a bit, we live in the same area, love the same things, heck come from the same background too! (As someone who lives in Canada its pretty huge lol)
So all good, she talks first, i talk first soo we are pretty closee! But she is a pretty busy person, that never was a barrier so far though. Anyways.... Recently when i was out of the country .. She stopped replying to me.. Last thing she said which she texted first too was that she missed me.
Now im trying to talk, (we use whatsapp) and well it goes through but not seen.

Sure i get it, she might have started talking to someone else, but im pretty posititve we had a real connection, i swer! We even have nicknames of some sort.
Well.. Im thinking she is over me, and i have to move on.. But i still see her liking my stuff on instagram, thats whats confusing mee -.-

So lost on what to do anymore, and here i am! Asking for help :(

Plus im going back home to Canada this month, and weve been making plans on going on our first date a while now and super happy about it.
Hudor
August 5th, 2015, 11:36 AM
Might be she's been genuinely busy. How long has it been that she's not seen your messages?
Waleedbt
August 5th, 2015, 11:48 AM
Might be she's been genuinely busy. How long has it been that she's not seen your messages?

Last time she even said anything 27th.
Other than that.. Nothing more.
Hudor
August 5th, 2015, 11:57 AM
Well I think once you get back you could try calling her and asking about it and try to meet up as well.
Waleedbt
August 5th, 2015, 12:12 PM
Well I think once you get back you could try calling her and asking about it and try to meet up as well.

I had that planned on the back of my head for a while hehe.
But yeah most likely thats what ill do, should i just stop texting every couple of days i guess? Ill prollu end up going at it as being desperate, but i dont know
Hudor
August 5th, 2015, 12:23 PM
I had that planned on the back of my head for a while hehe.
But yeah most likely thats what ill do, should i just stop texting every couple of days i guess? Ill prollu end up going at it as being desperate, but i dont know

Yeah I guess you should wait a bit for her to see your messages before you do anything. Have you met before or were you planning to meet for the first time?
Waleedbt
August 5th, 2015, 12:25 PM
Yeah I guess you should wait a bit for her to see your messages before you do anything. Have you met before or were you planning to meet for the first time?

First lol
Hudor
August 5th, 2015, 09:56 PM
First lol

Then don't go. I would suggest you wait till she responds to your message before you decide to meet up.
Waleedbt
August 5th, 2015, 11:00 PM
Then don't go. I would suggest you wait till she responds to your message before you decide to meet up.

I think i knew the reason.

Can someone be that mad over a snapchat capture?
Ive never done it, just this one time and it seemed like it went downhill from there.
DoodleSnap
August 9th, 2015, 03:24 AM
You need to speak to her about it. Communication is one of the most important parts of any relationship, so ask her what is going on. Listen to her, and be honest. You need to sort this out, because if left alone, she will end up, sitting on her own, wondering why you're not a mind reader.

Talk it out.

Maybe you can reach her on Instagram?
Hudor
August 16th, 2015, 02:20 AM
I think i knew the reason.

Can someone be that mad over a snapchat capture?
Ive never done it, just this one time and it seemed like it went downhill from there.

Any updates? Did you get through to her yet?
Waleedbt
August 16th, 2015, 02:36 AM
Any updates? Did you get through to her yet?

Yeah xD shes fine, phone sim card problems.
Hudor
August 16th, 2015, 04:52 AM
Yeah xD shes fine, phone sim card problems.

Oh hahaha. Well that's good news. Must be a great relief for you XD
Waleedbt
August 16th, 2015, 06:57 AM
Oh hahaha. Well that's good news. Must be a great relief for you XD

haha yeah :p
Now days are just going by without being able to talk (unless instagram) but its being normal. I feel its a good thing in the long run.
Hudor
August 16th, 2015, 08:06 AM
haha yeah :p
Now days are just going by without being able to talk (unless instagram) but its being normal. I feel its a good thing in the long run.

Yeah I guess as long as you're in healthy contact, things are good in the long run. Hope things keep going well :)