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ArtistInNeed
April 16th, 2008, 10:50 PM
i cheated on my boyfriend, and i just told him tonight. it was awful, i made him cry. im the lowest of the low, im a monster. i mean wat i did wasnt that extreme but i still cheated. :( he already forgives me too, i dont understand how he can, i hate myself. im a mess, and i kno he is too, he said hes not going to leave me or anything, itll just take awhile for him to trust me again but, i dont kno wat to do to prove to him that he can trust me

myskias
April 16th, 2008, 11:19 PM
also i think you should just be willing to stay with him and tell him how much you love him and tell him you really really regret it (if you truly mean it). try your hardest to make him feel good around you and make sure that you gain his trust back. the last thing you want in a relationship is trust issues... if he is willing to forgive you make him not regret that choice.

Techno Monster
April 17th, 2008, 09:39 AM
Trust will take time. Congrats for choosing a boy that loves you so much and it faithful. Don`t cheat again, and move on.

Rutherford The Brave
April 17th, 2008, 02:29 PM
The reason was stated above, he didnt leave because he loves you. But be gentle with him, I wouldnt go hugging and touchy on friends. Not trying to be mean but he could take it the wrong way.

Mzor203
April 17th, 2008, 02:41 PM
The best thing you can do is express your love for him whenever you can, and don't cheat again, because a second time would really blow things apart. Just be a good girlfriend and in time things will heal.

NTSJoker
April 18th, 2008, 07:18 AM
I've cheated on several girlfriends. I never minded until my current girlfriend now. The best thing you can do is be honest and try rebuilding trust. It takes time and in some cases your relationship just can't go on.

Rutherford The Brave
April 18th, 2008, 02:17 PM
Believe me there will probably be times where he isn't going to let you hang out with other people. Seeing that you did cheat on him (sorry not trying to sound mean) just go along with it because I' fairly certain he's going to keep you attached at the hip.

ArtistInNeed
April 18th, 2008, 06:14 PM
thank you, he already trusts me again, y does he have to be so nice? :( i dont understand y he loves me so much

Gumleaf
April 18th, 2008, 06:23 PM
thank you, he already trusts me again, y does he have to be so nice? :( i dont understand y he loves me so much

well he obviously loves you because you give off a great vibe and finds things about you very attractive to the point where he has fallen in love with those things.

ScotsGirl
April 19th, 2008, 05:47 AM
I dont mean to put a..."dampener" on everything but...

You really need to think about why you cheated. :?
He clearly thinks a lot of you, do you think the same of him?

If you both really want this then I agree with what the others have said. :-) But be really careful because he seems to be able to trust you really easily (which is a good thing!), just make sure you don't abuse that trust again...

You sound pretty unsure about why he does trust you though, maybe its more a case of trusting yourself, as opposed to him trusting you?
xxx