Can't get her out of my head

[Tesserax]

Okay to begin with, this is just a crush, not even a real relationship.

I'm not going to go into the hard details, but basically, over the time that I got to know her, I felt a deeper connection to her than I did with any other girl, and when I told her about my feelings, I think I did it too early and got denied; politely, but it still was a rejection, and it hurt.

I think it's 3 months on, and I can't forget about it. I just keep thinking about her, everything I do, every ideal fantasy involves her. Of course, in class and stuff I forget, but in my idle time, maybe 80% of my thoughts lead back to her and I feel this terrible pang in my chest.

I just want to be friends with her, I just want it to be, but my heart refuses to let go. I want to just move on but I can't. If anybody could help that would be nice

[Eperty123]

You can be friends with her but if you get too close with her in a "friendly" manner she'll just see you as a friend and that way you won't be able to make her your girlfriend as you get yourself friendzoned.

My advice is to try your best to move on even if it hurts like hell. It's gonna take time but that's how it is.