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Sandybeaches
August 4th, 2015, 05:24 AM
I've been talking to this girl from my school for a while over text and messengers, she always makes me happy when i talk to her and i think i've liked her for a while now.
Well I asked her if she had seen that Inside Out film yet and she said no, then she said why don't we go and see it. So obviously I said yes and asked who else would go? (lol idiot i know) and she said we could just go together. So i guess it is officially a date.
But I don't know what to do from here, I've never done this before. Is anything expected of me? Do we just go watch a film and that's it? Do we get food? Should I kiss her and when?
Please help...its not for a week yet atleast though so i have time to plan.

fidder
August 4th, 2015, 02:13 PM
Honestly i think its better if you dont plan it, just go with the flow you'll enjoy it a lot more

simplired
August 4th, 2015, 04:11 PM
Honestly i think its better if you dont plan it, just go with the flow you'll enjoy it a lot more

I agree. Bring money for food as a backup if you guys do wanna eat, but other than that just wing it. Also, though you labeled it as a date, there is still a chance that she thinks it's just friends getting together. I would use this opportunity to see how you guys click while hanging out together, rather than using it as a time to confess your feelings. That way, there's no pressure on you or her.

DoodleSnap
August 9th, 2015, 03:37 AM
As simplired says, just let it happen. Work out how you guys get on, and see what you want to do after the movie. Don't feel pressured into thinking it is a date because it is just you guys, you can call it whatever you want. You don't have to kiss her, tell her you love her, or even make a move. Just do whatever feels good to you.
Good luck.

mikielikesit
August 16th, 2015, 12:35 PM
Go see a movie and let things happen that happen, if you try to plan it out things will go wrong and you will get nervous about it not going right

THJKIGB
August 16th, 2015, 12:50 PM
I think the other posters have hit it on the spot. Go with the flow. Of course bring money for snacks and sodas as for kissing her don't worry about it. It will happen when it is suppose to happen. Just be comfortable and have fun, this is your first date.

wolf g
August 16th, 2015, 01:24 PM
sorry but for it's po shut