Girl of my Dreams?

[Solvez18]

Hey guys, this is gonna sound nuts to some of you. But here goes.

I met this girl around a month ago and we have been talking nearly everyday since. We get along really well and we're into the same Music, Movies, Hobbies and Games. We have the same likes and dislikes and very similar lifestyles. Over this time I've grown a huge attraction towards her, I've never felt so strongly for another person. She's a truly amazing person and I want to be more than a friend to her. Here's the problem though, we met over the internet and are in completely different countries. I know we've only been speaking for a month and that it's extremely short notice to begin some form of a relationship with her. Especially since we're not physically close to each other. I know it's a bad idea to mention my feelings for her so soon after meeting. With the situation we're in, I cannot guess whether she has grown an attrction to me either. I would like to get to know her better over the year before I truly decide if worth it's trying to begin a relationship.

I'm well aware it may not turn out the way I hope it will. I completely understand she may reject me, especially because we haven't truly met. I'm also aware that if a relationship were to form between us that it would be a Long Distance Relationship for a majority of the time. I'm willing to put a good amount of money aside from my job to go overseas and meet with her. I don't care of the cost, or the risks. All I want to do is TRY to begin a relationship with this girl We're both of appropriate age to make decisions for ourselves and nothing can limit me from going to meet her. I honestly have never felt so strongly for someone and am truly dedicated to her.

I understand some of you may try to put me off of this or complicate things for me. I'm here for opinions and am willing to take it. No matter what I hear from this post nothing will change my mindset for this person. But I would like to hear everyone's opinion on this. Thanks.

25/09/
UPDATE Below

[Abhorrence]

The thing with long distance relationships is that they take a lot of work and you need to have a formidable amount of trust for them to survive. Also, communication is key. With close distance relationships, you can have days off speaking to your partner but when you're far apart I'd say it's important to communicate at least once per day.

I think you should go for it, there's no way that we are all going to find the perfect partners in the same city or same country and I don't see why you shouldn't go for it, as long as you truly know who she is and there's no deception on her part. There's been too many catfish stories out there that you really need to know who you're speaking to.

[Solvez18]

The thing with long distance relationships is that they take a lot of work and you need to have a formidable amount of trust for them to survive. Also, communication is key. With close distance relationships, you can have days off speaking to your partner but when you're far apart I'd say it's important to communicate at least once per day.

I think you should go for it, there's no way that we are all going to find the perfect partners in the same city or same country and I don't see why you shouldn't go for it, as long as you truly know who she is and there's no deception on her part. There's been too many catfish stories out there that you really need to know who you're speaking to.

Thanks for the support, I do appreciate it. I have thought about the whole catfishing situation, and I know for a fact this is not at all my case. I've spoken to her and most of her family. I've also added her on social media and can confidently say that nothing about her is suspiscous at all. To double check I also reverse image searched alot of the pictures shes sent to me.

[Leprous]

Hey guys, this is gonna sound nuts to some of you. But here goes.

I met this girl around a month ago and we have been talking nearly everyday since. We get along really well and we're into the same Music, Movies, Hobbies and Games. We have the same likes and dislikes and very similar lifestyles. Over this time I've grown a huge attraction towards her, I've never felt so strongly for another person. She's a truly amazing person and I want to be more than a friend to her. Here's the problem though, we met over the internet and are in completely different countries. I know we've only been speaking for a month and that it's extremely short notice to begin some form of a relationship with her. Especially since we're not physically close to each other. I know it's a bad idea to mention my feelings for her so soon after meeting. With the situation we're in, I cannot guess whether she has grown an attrction to me either. I would like to get to know her better over the year before I truly decide if worth it's trying to begin a relationship.

I'm well aware it may not turn out the way I hope it will. I completely understand she may reject me, especially because we haven't truly met. I'm also aware that if a relationship were to form between us that it would be a Long Distance Relationship for a majority of the time. I'm willing to put a good amount of money aside from my job to go overseas and meet with her. I don't care of the cost, or the risks. All I want to do is TRY to begin a relationship with this girl We're both of appropriate age to make decisions for ourselves and nothing can limit me from going to meet her. I honestly have never felt so strongly for someone and am truly dedicated to her.

I understand some of you may try to put me off of this or complicate things for me. I'm here for opinions and am willing to take it. No matter what I hear from this post nothing will change my mindset for this person. But I would like to hear everyone's opinion on this. Thanks.

Alright, as someone who has been in 2 long distance relationships I can only warn you. Only go for it if you are sure the person you love is the right one. You don't really know if they are themselves on the internet or not. But this doesn't mean you shouldn't go for it at all.

Long distance relationships can work out and be really good. Do know that if the girl suddenly dissapears, there's not much you can do.

As Abhorrence said, they take allot of work. Not talking to her for a long time may not be very good for your relationship.

Well, that's everything I had to say, I wish you the best of luck man, and go for it :)!

[Solvez18]

Alright, as someone who has been in 2 long distance relationships I can only warn you. Only go for it if you are sure the person you love is the right one. You don't really know if they are themselves on the internet or not. But this doesn't mean you shouldn't go for it at all.

Long distance relationships can work out and be really good. Do know that if the girl suddenly dissapears, there's not much you can do.

As Abhorrence said, they take allot of work. Not talking to her for a long time may not be very good for your relationship.

Well, that's everything I had to say, I wish you the best of luck man, and go for it :)!

Thanks. I really am sure about this girl. I absoloutely adore her and have never been so confident in my life. I understand she may not be showing her true colours. Believe me, I've had one occassion of that already. But I've cleared that up. It's good to see you've been in a long distance relationship too, so I do value your word for it. I am without a doubt 100% sure I want to go ahead with it. I mean, if she lived down the road from me rather than across the world I'd go over there right now and ask her out. But I cant. Thanks for the support.

[Leprous]

Thanks. I really am sure about this girl. I absoloutely adore her and have never been so confident in my life. I understand she may not be showing her true colours. Believe me, I've had one occassion of that already. But I've cleared that up. It's good to see you've been in a long distance relationship too, so I do value your word for it. I am without a doubt 100% sure I want to go ahead with it. I mean, if she lived down the road from me rather than across the world I'd go over there right now and ask her out. But I cant. Thanks for the support.

Well my friend, all I can say is go for it! I really hope it works out for you!

[Solvez18]

Hey guys, got an update for ya'. I spoke to the girl and told her how I felt about her. I mentioned visiting her and well.. it didn't go exactly as planned. I tried to keep it straight forward and keep it off the awkward side. She basically ended up ignoring what I told her. She knows how I feel and she knows I want to visit. Directly after changing topic after I explained to her how I felt she went back to giving me a really positive attitude and she's been alot nicer and open towards me. I feel much better for explaining to her how I felt even though it hasn't really gone anywhere. Ever since I feel like we've been slightly closer, talking more, and it's more flirty. But she hasn't told me what she thinks of it. Should I ask her? Thanks.