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Thaliacea
August 1st, 2015, 03:47 PM
Hello , i am back here for help :) Long time no see :D So to start...

I am in a relationship for 6 months. I feel like being loved and everything is great. We will go now on vacation and so on. But after vacation we will have a long period (month and a half) without seeing eachother.

That is the period we need to survive... So i need help with surviving. When we dont see each other for few days i dont know why but i have urge to talk with him (skype , wa ) not because i am clingy but because i am afraid he will feel like i am ignoring him. On the other hand i dont want to be boring and controlling and so. So what is your advice? Should i just let pass 2 days without worrying about that?

simplired
August 1st, 2015, 08:48 PM
Hmmm, the way I take it, you don't want to talk to him because you're wondering what he's doing 24/7 omg why didn't he call you back, but rather you want to reassure him that yes, you're still there for him and in this relationship. And that's totally fine.

But you also have a life, that may well be separate from your relationship. There will be times when you call him and he doesn't respond and vice versa because you both SHOULD HAVE LIVES. This is normal. Don't stress about it. You contact him when you feel like you need to/want to. If he seems like he needs more assurance, then sure, do it a bit more frequently. But don't stress over it.

Obviously he loves you, or you wouldn't be in this relationship. Just relax, take a breath, and skype him if you wanna skype him.