Log in

View Full Version : If a guy teases you does he like you?


ZzeWatermelon
July 29th, 2015, 12:07 PM
Everything is in the title, if a guy teases you does he like you? And especially what kind of teasing?

Babs
July 29th, 2015, 12:16 PM
It could mean he likes you. It could mean he's just a little asshole. Everyone is different. Frankly though, I think the "if a boy is mean to you he likes you" garbage is stupid as hell.

Meganium
July 29th, 2015, 12:19 PM
Personally, I try to avoid intentional teasing, out of fear that I might end up taking it to far, which I have in the past. Even though I haven't interacted with girls much at all in the past few years (all boys boarding school), I think its safe to say that my actions would be similarly restrained, if not more so.

I'm not sure if all guys think as I do, but teasing in general isn't really great unless you're already pretty close. I would say "no" in this case.

Emerald Dream
July 29th, 2015, 12:24 PM
Everything is in the title, if a guy teases you does he like you? And especially what kind of teasing?

Frankly though, I think the "if a boy is mean to you he likes you" garbage is stupid as hell.

^ Yeah, don't necessarily believe that.

While it may be true in a some cases (he is just trying to get your attention)....it's also possible that he is either trying to look cool in front of his friends (or other people he wants to be friends with - typical sheep popularity thing), or he is just trying to feel better about his own shortcomings (or being bullied himself) by being an asshole to other people.

It's probably one of the three. Don't always believe guys like you when they tease you, though.

Professional Russian
July 29th, 2015, 12:32 PM
I mean the last girl I liked I teased the hell out of when she was in a good mood because she'd always do it to me. I guess it's all in the person. Like it wasn't a way of showing her I liked her it was just how I was with her and how we got along. It's all in the person I think.

Broken Toy
July 29th, 2015, 04:26 PM
Round here, if a lad says youre fat or ugly or a slag then he is normally taking the piss. I like this lass and i call her ugly all the time, i just call her gorgeous and shit every now and again to balance it out.

If he was doing it to be a dick you would know mate

prepkid813
July 29th, 2015, 11:12 PM
I tend to really tease or make fun of the girl I like, but I know when is the right time to flirt and get close to her

maggs
July 30th, 2015, 05:53 PM
Maybe, or maybe not. Like someone else said, everyone is different.

StoppingTom
July 30th, 2015, 07:19 PM
I only tease when I know for sure that she won't take it serious, because it's a lot more comfortable than being straight up nice all the time, and usually it is taken the same way (in my case, people are different).

simplired
August 1st, 2015, 08:55 PM
If it's flirty, probably.

If you're taking offense at the teasing, probably not.

Uranus
August 1st, 2015, 10:27 PM
If it's a mean, and cruel type of teasing I doubt it. Although there is a friendly just joking around type of teasing. Can you explain how he's teasing you?

ZzeWatermelon
August 8th, 2015, 03:07 AM
If it's a mean, and cruel type of teasing I doubt it. Although there is a friendly just joking around type of teasing. Can you explain how he's teasing you?

Friendly, maybe even flirty, where we both laugh and enjoy time and we get along well...

Tesserax
August 8th, 2015, 05:59 AM
Everything is in the title, if a guy teases you does he like you? And especially what kind of teasing?

To be honest, not enough info. If you PM me with details on the context and what he teased you about I'll be able to more accurately tell

ZzeWatermelon
August 8th, 2015, 03:56 PM
To be honest, not enough info. If you PM me with details on the context and what he teased you about I'll be able to more accurately tell

Friendly, maybe even flirty, where we both laugh and enjoy time and we get along well...
I mean I don't have contact with the guy anymore so the guy doesn't matter but the situation does, cause I'm curious if that was some type of flirting. I think so personnally.

StoppingTom
August 8th, 2015, 04:17 PM
The way you make it sound, yeah it was definitely flirting.

everlong
August 8th, 2015, 04:51 PM
Depends on the guy. It seems to be a popular method.

Tesserax
August 8th, 2015, 10:54 PM
Friendly, maybe even flirty, where we both laugh and enjoy time and we get along well...

If he teases you particularly about your male friends, he definitely likes you (that's what I tend to do unconsciously), but take it slow. Just get to know him and if you are show interest, flirt back a little bit, smile at him (good guys love that). Compliments go a long way, and make sure he knows that you're there if he has any personal issues. If all goes well, he might muster up the confidence to ask you out. If he's like me, you'll want to ask him because he'll be too afraid, or perhaps has strict parents and is afraid of making plans himself.

Hope this helps :) Again, if you need any advice just ask

DoodleSnap
August 9th, 2015, 02:54 AM
Everyone is different, and everyone has different behaviours. To try and work out his feelings for you based on certain actions would simply be over-analyzing. The only way you can know for sure is to ask him.