Talk about puberty with friends

[Jefful]

I dunno why my friends all don't talk about being puberty, sex, penis..with each other. I hope I could have a friend who can share anything. I'm in 8th grade and I think it's not ok to keep everything.

[Vermilion]

Just wait. No one wants to talk about it at first but then most people open up. I remember being sat in random lessons and just taking about it. Then laughing if a teacher heard us.

[TheLotus]

Maybe try opening up the conversation to them, maybe they will talk about it. Not everyone is open about puberty at first, it takes time

[Bluebyrd]

I don't know what you're asking

[Musichead2428]

It's all new to them and alittle confusing too them if you really want them to open up with you don't need to talk to all of them at once about this. Text them individually at first and then when you feel like it's time to talk to all of them at the same time because you see that they have opened up the relationship with you then you can talk to them face to face about it

[Jefful]

I've tried because I got something to share and ask because I have no one to share the personal life and when I start talking about it, they ignore and talk another topic.

[Drewboyy]

That's a different 8th grade class then. My 8th grade class wouldn't stop talking about that stuff in history lml. Eventually when someone brings it up it should break the ice.

[EddieHoward96]

i am blessed this way, have a group of 8 mates who i discuss this stuff with every day =)

[Zachary G]

Just give it some time, you will find a friend, or group of friends who will be open enough to talk about these things; you cant rush it and you cant make people talk about it because you want to; just be patient and keep your ears open.

[bor16]

Then maybe chat wif me 😂😂😂

[robot2626]

I didn't really talk so open about it until high school. Freshman year locker room was it for me. Broke the awkwardness for everyone.

[Sandybeaches]

I have like 2 sets of completely different friends, my everyday friends i don't really talk to them about puberty and stuff, but my football friends we talk about it all the time and girls and all that kinda stuff. I guess it's just the some people and groups are more comfortable with it than others.

[pjones]

me and my friends have known each other before we even heard of puberty, so when one of us started to develop, we showed each other and always compared

[lliam]

Talking about it with friends is really no prob. It's another thing if a friend still talks about it allday.

[Ollie2000]

never really spoken about it with my mates

[Kev23450]

it has never come up between my friends and i

[Saul Goodman]

give it time, or try to joke about it at first to make your friends feel comfortable about the topic. that's what she said jokes worked for me.

[Turtl3]

Most of my friends are pretty open, just casually bring it with one of your friends thats what I did

[Sportsguy1009]

I only have one friend who I talk about masturbation a lot. We always talk about it and irs no problem

[ejpete]

A lot of kids your age feel as if it's gay. But it's not. It's good to talk about your penis. Adk questions. Have a healthy relationship with others. If you want to start. Start with your closest friend. And it's ok if it just stays between you two. It doesn't have to be a large group. Just enough to express your questions and curiosities about the male body.

[Ratman1234]

Well at the start of the year it no one was very open. But as the year went on people opened up a lot more.