Bi Curious or Puberty? Help please!

[Kancun]

So this has been happening for 3 weeks now. I woke up one day and just asked myself, am I gay? And now I cannot stop thinking about it. I've liked girls for a really long time and I have had a girlfriend. I want to marry a girl when i grow up. I do not want to be in a relationship with a guy. But now, I've started to find some guys good looking, and I admire the male bodybuilding physique.

Am I bi, or is this just puberty?

I am 14 btw

[ptz7649]

3 weeks is a short time in comparison to your whole life.
Sometimes you will feel unsure like that. Everyone has moments like that.
If you are bisexual, you will be sure of it at some point. Don't worry about it because the answer will come to you and you have a long time to figure out the answer. You don't have to know if you are or aren't.You'll work it out in time.
(Sorry if this wasn't much help to you)

[James Dean]

I think for right now you should just carry on and not let this effect you. Make friendships and relationships, and don't worry about gay, straight, bi, any of that. As you get older, you will probably learn more about your sexuality and be able to grow from that.

If you find someone you like, and you are attracted to, if they happen to be a girl, great. If it happens to be a guy, okay. Being attracted to both is fine, and there are many guys who aren't necessarily gay, but they are considered Bisexual. The reason why I ask you not to worry about it, is because sexuality is very difficult to understand, and it's up to the person to come in acceptance to themselves.

[KingExplosionMurder]

So this has been happening for 3 weeks now. I woke up one day and just asked myself, am I gay? And now I cannot stop thinking about it. I've liked girls for a really long time and I have had a girlfriend. I want to marry a girl when i grow up. I do not want to be in a relationship with a guy. But now, I've started to find some guys good looking, and I admire the male bodybuilding physique.

Am I bi, or is this just puberty?

I am 14 btw

I think it's puberty and you may be bi. But don't worry about it if you want a girlfriend you could but think it over for a bit. It's not a bad thing to be bi btw but everyone has their likes :P

[pjones]

i think it might be puberty. and nothing to be ashamed about if you thinks some members of the same sex are attractive.

[bbwolf26]

I agree with pjones. Both genders have good looking people and both have ugly people, It doesn't mean you are bi just because you see some good looking guys and notice them.

[Henri-K]

I don't think you're gay. It's normal to be attracted to cute boys, but you still like girls. Same with me

[ashdaniel]

Well, don't put yourself into any categories so early. You can be anything as far I know. Even str guys sometime check on other guys too. It is normal. Personal, I am bisexual. I start to admit it start this year. It is okay going through teenage years question if you like boy or girl. It is part of growing up. It doesnt change the fact that you are you.

[AutumnWinds]

do you think about guys sexually? i think that would be the issue here. i don't think there is anything sexual about admiring someone's physique or thinking they're attractive. i mean think of how often people make comments like that about people they would never be sexually attractive to otherwise.

on the other hand, if you find yourself thinking about them the same way you do girls, maybe its something you should explore. either way, i think it's brave of you to even question this.

[DoodleSnap]

As James Dean says, try to worry less about the label you identify with, and just be comfortable being attracted to whoever you are attracted to. Sexuality is confusing, so just do whatever feels natural, keep your mind open, and let time and experience tell you how to identify. Good luck.

[Laibachd]

I think you might be bi, but hey, give it time and let it sort it out by itself.

[Andre 99]

If you are not sure, try different stuff.
You may only like doing some stuff (hj or bj) with guys, but not sex.
You may like it all, who knows. Only you can figure that out for yourself.

[SethfromMI]

give it time. it could be just puberty. you might be discovering you are bi. Sadly, only time is going to tell

[PaleBoy]

It´s too early to say, wait it out a bit and don´t panic!

[Daniella98]

Dont worry about putting a label on your self. Do what you want and if you want to, put a label on, when you have experienced it and know if you like it

[Bacca]

Why do you have to label yourself? Just date whoever makes you happy, guy or girl :D