certain boys turn me on...

[roflkopter_55]

I don't want to tell my guy friends that I'm curious. I think they will make fun of me and not want to be my friend anymore.:( What should i do?

[robbiehay1]

you don't have to tell them for a start and if you did and they didn't like you anymore then they weren't your true friends to begin with

[Electric Cheese]

exactly. If they took the piss out of you then they're not real friends

[Techno Monster]

don`t tell them. once puberty is over, you probably wont be confused anymore.

[Gavin]

you don't have to tell them for a start and if you did and they didn't like you anymore then they weren't your true friends to begin with

^^

Exactly, when your ready you can tell them then, if they take it in a bad way then they're, not your real friends.

[Mirataku]

yeah you dont have to tell everyone your straight so why should you tell them your not :)

[Oblivion]

don`t tell them. once puberty is over, you probably wont be confused anymore.

I know this is somewhat of odd advice but i agree, If you don't tell them, nothing bad can happen, and the curiosity will be over soon

[jimbo14]

I have the same problem. Certain boys turn me on, too. I don't know if it's just because of puberty or what.
I don't intend to tell anybody. If I outgrow it, then good. If not, I'll worry about it later.

[Nihilus]

don`t tell them. once puberty is over, you probably wont be confused anymore.

you don't need to tell them. and basicly its like reaper said

[mike24]

yeh that happens to me too
but its mostly just hormones
but i am curious
or so i think
and i hope that i outgrow it
but i like the thought of a strong big man too
like this boy in our school has like really sprung ahead in puberty
has abs, lots of hair, a shadow, and a great ass
mmmmm

[Requin]

It's a stage in puberty and you'll either grow out of it...or not. And anyway you'll never REALLY know what orientation you are until puberty has stopped messing with you. Apparently you are more likely to find people you would want to be yourselves more atractive.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i think they should know it will make ur relation ship stronger and he or them will also thrust u more. xD

[Coesistere]

i think they should know it will make ur relation ship stronger and he or them will also thrust u more. xD

Not Always, but its a possibilty. I must agree with the other people.
You should wait it out befor saying anything, it should go away afterr puberty if its curiosity,
but its your choice weither not to do it or if you will
just remember the friendship could possibly be ruined.

[roflkopter_55]

Thanks guys. You've really helped a lot!!! It helps to know I'm not alone. :):woot::hippy:

[notsure101]

You dont have to tell them and remmeber we are all here to help :)

[roflkopter_55]

I know I don't have to tell them and stuff, but I often want to just like....... kiss them.... but I restrain myself. And sometimes me and one of my other friends wrstle (just for the hell of it), and when I pin him down..... well.......................... it feels good, and I just want to experiment. It's not like I want to ask him to :inappropriate: me. I just want to kiss him. nothing futher. what should I do???????????

[Avalikia]

I'd say it's good practice. There's a lot of times when your attraction to someone is not going to be appropriate, even if we're talking about a girl and both of you were completely straight. Like if you met a really attractive girl, but she was a coworker or your best friend's girlfriend. Or even if she was your girlfriend but was conservative in her views about how far it's okay to go and how fast. Sometimes you just have to say no to your hormones.

[karabiner]

your true freinds will stick by you no matter what, and those who make fun of you are the ones you wouldn't want to be freinds with anyway.

[chub4chub]

I understand. I am in the same problem. I have only told my uncle who I trust with everything. I wish there was some-one in my area I could talk with not just via e-mail. But in person as well.That I could trust.

[curiousteen]

yea certain boys turn me on also and i cant tell my friends im bi and that i want to experiment but they probably most of them will accept the fact that im bi.

[Neverender]

^^

Exactly, when your ready you can tell them then, if they take it in a bad way then they're, not your real friends.

and theres a good chance that they just know gay, straight and bisexual. no thers exist. they likely don't know what curious (or asexual, or pansexual, etc.) means. i told my friends that i was curious and they asked me what it meant, i didn't tell them however.

[Raynes]

I don't want to tell my guy friends that I'm curious. I think they will make fun of me and not want to be my friend anymore.:( What should i do?

It's your choice to tell them, and if you don't think they can handle it, then don't tell them. But if they don't accept you for it, then they aren't very good friends at all. Also this doesn't mean you're gay, or even bi. Alot of straight guys will admit to being attracted to a few guys every now and then, it's a part of puberty, it's a part of life. Just see if these feelings last, if they do you might just be Bisexual. Good luck.

-Rayne

[Cindex]

Maybe just tell one person? Closest friend?

If you have any girl friends (not girlfriends) then they might take it better and help you out more. Not trying to be sexist but girls seem to take that a lot lighter than guys.

[Prince_of_Peace]

I get turned on by guys...the skinny type like me...I like it when they check me out too.

[Mr. Smithers]

You shouldn't really care what they think. It might sound mean and selfish but you need to know that if they are truly your friends, then they should accept you no matter what.

[Justin16]

I don't wanna sound judgemental or homophobic, but if a guy friend told me they liked me in a sexual way, I would probably never wanna talk to them again.

I ain't against homosexuality, but please keep it private.

[Meth]

I don't wanna sound judgemental or homophobic, but if a guy friend told me they liked me in a sexual way, I would probably never wanna talk to them again.

I ain't against homosexuality, but please keep it private.
--
Why should we?
You don't keep your heterosexuality private.

[Medical Kid]

yeah! no one should have to hide being gay.

[tommo]

from self experience i hid it from my friend for a long time eventually the just found out true friend really dont care

[Oblivion]

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