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smff
July 25th, 2015, 09:07 AM
So I like this girl, we've been close friends for about a year and a half, and I told her I liked her a few months ago.

This year me and her have gotten really close and we kinda had a thing, and then I just started getting more and more awkward around her, and since telling her I liked her I've just been really awkward. There was even a period of about three weeks where we didn't talk at all (and we go to the same school).

But lately we've been texting a lot more (she's always the one to start it) and our text conversations are really frickin good, like you would think we were a thing just based off of our texting.

And we've been talking more in person, but it's still a bit awkward. You know like we just don't really know what to say and there's a lot of giggling and everything...

A few days ago she told my friend that she was really confused about how she feels about me (is that a good thing?)

I just want things to be back how they used to be when we were really close, but I don't know what to do. Any advice?

Abhorrence
July 25th, 2015, 09:21 AM
Talk to her, I mean she probably feels the same way as you and probably wants things to stop being awkward and I think sometimes having a discussion about everything is a good way to go about it. Although, I'm not sure I'd do it on text. It's a bit better if you do it in person.

Meh Guy
July 25th, 2015, 09:52 AM
But lately we've been texting a lot more (she's always the one to start it) and our text conversations are really frickin good, like you would think we were a thing just based off of our texting.

If she texts you first, that means she has some interest in you, obviously if you two can hold a good conversation via text there are some mutual interests.


And we've been talking more in person, but it's still a bit awkward. You know like we just don't really know what to say and there's a lot of giggling and everything...

A few days ago she told my friend that she was really confused about how she feels about me (is that a good thing?)

I just want things to be back how they used to be when we were really close, but I don't know what to do. Any advice?

If she is confused about how she feels about you maybe you want to try talking to her about it. She may just need some reassurance. As for the in person talking being awkward, it shouldn't be if you two text so much. You should try to talk to her and hang out with her more often and it'll become less awkward.