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Coolguy13
July 23rd, 2015, 04:17 PM
does anyone else feel guilty after youve had a jerk off and that you regret things youve done and things like that?

Riley2015
July 23rd, 2015, 04:27 PM
No it's natural and feels so great. I feel good after :yes:

Conor_x
July 23rd, 2015, 04:52 PM
I do sometimes, like if I do it and then go downstairs I feel bad that I've done it but it's normal day to day life, nothing to be ashamed off! X

KingExplosionMurder
July 23rd, 2015, 04:55 PM
I don't. I mean I've got nothing to feel guilty of. Unless you did something bad then I guess yeah but I feel good after I've done it always

Body odah Man
July 23rd, 2015, 05:00 PM
does anyone else feel guilty after youve had a jerk off and that you regret things youve done and things like that?

All the time. And yet I keep doing it :( . I feel really depressed and ashamed afterwards.

But what's most embarrassing is when people KNOW you do it (one babysitter of mine knew and it was not pretty :( )

Riley2015
July 23rd, 2015, 05:04 PM
Why feel ashamed boys? We have done nothing wrong when we jerk off. Just doing our thing:)

auburn122002
July 27th, 2015, 10:58 PM
It feels too good to feel bad after haha

harristhetank
July 28th, 2015, 12:03 AM
I used to when I first started masturbating. I felt dirty and down after I wanked. But I am used to the idea that masturbating is normal for teenage boy and I no longer feel guilty now.

Blablabla36489
July 28th, 2015, 01:25 AM
I also feel guilty a bit, especially because I'm a Catholic and my religion doesn't have a positive view on masturbation.
Despite that, I tell myself that this is only a part of growing up and continue doing it.

Seahawks15
July 28th, 2015, 08:02 AM
It's normal to feel like that because you've released a lot of hormones when you cummed,endorphins and serotonin I believe.It leaves you feeling down and guilty because the happy hormones have significantly decreased since orgasm.Masturbation is not wrong and it's totally natural and normal to do it,despite what religion says.I used to feel bad after jerking off but I've realized that's it's normal to do it.I don't agree with Catholicism saying that masturbation is a sin.It shouldn't be because it's normal and natural.Even other animals masturbate.

Hermes
July 28th, 2015, 09:52 AM
What happens is here hormones make you horny and you react to that horniness by masturbating overriding of any messages you may have picked up from your religion or the people around you. At orgasm different hormones are released and suddenly you are not horny any more. If you have received messages from your religion or the people around you that masturbation is wrong you become aware of them again and feel guilty.

The problem will be worse for people who have a strong beleif in a religion which appears to prohibit masturbation but we can also be subject to more subtle sex-negative attitudes that start with adults trying to keep sexual things a secret in an attempt not to sexualise children, i.e. "preserve their innocence" (note even in that description a suggestion that sex is wrong).

For those without a religious conflict the guilt becomes less over time as we gradually recognise sexuality, and the expression of it, as something normal and common.

Bluebyrd
July 28th, 2015, 01:50 PM
It's not really feeling guilty, I just feel awkward when I go downstairs.

jeans_kid
July 28th, 2015, 06:08 PM
perhaps you feel guilty because you were taught not to jerk off. perhaps you feel guilty because you have to do it in private and can't tell others after you did it.

Sandybeaches
July 28th, 2015, 06:39 PM
Not always but sometimes after watching porn, and not always all porn i think it might just depend on the mood I'm in when i start

lliam
July 29th, 2015, 05:51 PM
does anyone else feel guilty after youve had a jerk off and that you regret things youve done and things like that?


nope. why should I? but ... maybe it's because I was brought up atheistic. so, I don't know any reasons that declare masturbation as a sin, or so.

The captain
August 2nd, 2015, 12:50 PM
happened to me a few times...but still do it

Ollie2000
August 2nd, 2015, 04:13 PM
never feel guilty, just sometimes feel a bit awkward after having one (like how to clean up without others noticing)

Turtl3
August 3rd, 2015, 09:18 PM
Never felt guilty but I have been like 'did I really just wank over that?!'

sysrq
August 9th, 2015, 11:06 AM
I don't feel guilty any-more but bored cause everything repeats itself.

iChrisbtv96
October 4th, 2015, 01:08 AM
I used to a few years ago, but not anymore. Don't worry about it