Jerking off no longer pleasuring?

[TooSleepyToCare]

Hey guys..

This is kinda awkward for me to ask but...

Over the past few months, I have been noticing that jerking off is no longer pleasuring. Almost like I do it out of instinct instead or habit instead of to make me feel good. I still get horny all the time whether it's from porn or dirty talk, and I get the urge to jerk off, but the feeling isn't there anymore. I just worry that sex isn't going to feel good anymore either. I don't know how detailed I am allowed to be in this, but basically, I've tried everything.

Any suggestions?

Thanks.

-Sleepy

[Jason173771]

I get the same exact feeling.

For me it gets to wear want to just repeatedly jerk off because i barely got any pleasure from the last one.

[TooSleepyToCare]

For me it gets to wear want to just repeatedly jerk off because i barely got any pleasure from the last one.

Kinda the same here. I've tried different methods and different positions yet I always have that "I think I wasted my time" feeling. No longer do I get the "Oh fuck" feeling. It is quite alarming and actually confusing. Maybe I jerked off too much and now it's nothing special? Could there be something medically wrong?

[Jason173771]

I dont think so

Maybe we are just jerking off too much and we need to just take a break. Like a three day break lol

-merged double post. -Emerald Dream

[TooSleepyToCare]

I normally jerk off once every week. Lately, it's been a tad more but I don't think I jerk off excessively.

[Bluebyrd]

You might be doing it too much. Try doing it about once a week and see if that helps.

[TooSleepyToCare]

Hehe, as I stated above, normally I only get off once a week. It's just a tad bit odd.

[harristhetank]

Maybe you could try to hold it off for a little bit? Just try not jerking for a while until you feel horny again and have the urge to jerk off like when you were younger.

[Zachary G]

maybe you should abstain from jo for as long as you can, then see if it still feels the same or it goes back to getting you that WOW factor. I find having sex and jo are totally different in their feelings for me and I find that they dont equate, so though it may get old jo, sex is still amazing for me.

[Innuendo]

Hey guys..

This is kinda awkward for me to ask but...

Over the past few months, I have been noticing that jerking off is no longer pleasuring. Almost like I do it out of instinct instead or habit instead of to make me feel good. I still get horny all the time whether it's from porn or dirty talk, and I get the urge to jerk off, but the feeling isn't there anymore. I just worry that sex isn't going to feel good anymore either. I don't know how detailed I am allowed to be in this, but basically, I've tried everything.

Any suggestions?

Thanks.

-Sleepy
Yeah if you stop jerking off for a week or two it should feel good again

[everlong]

Stop jerking off for a while, like a few weeks or so, then do it again.

[Harrier]

So are you not horny? Like if you are abstaining for a long time, wait till you get horny and then jerk off, it should be pleasurable then. But don't jerk off just to do it out of boredom. If jerking off when you're horny isn't pleasurable you should maybe see the doctor.

[DerBear]

Its like anything really, you do it really often and it becomes less pleasurable.

[Conor_x]

I find this sometimes as well, I'm just doing it because I'm bored or I've got a hard on so I have to do something with it, however i still get a nice feeling but after i feel like did I really need to do that:/ x

[Riley2015]

I left it for 10 days a few months back and it was awesome!! Doing it everyday takes away some of the pleasure but I'm proper horny everyday and not a lot of willpower to hold off :whoops: plus I'm grounded and it sucks and I'm gonna do it even more to relieve my boredom and frustration lol :whoops:

[TooSleepyToCare]

Thanks but like I said, I don't do it often. When I said out of habit, I meant I jerk off when I am extremely horny and can't abstain from sexual gratification.

[SethfromMI]

Thanks but like I said, I don't do it often. When I said out of habit, I meant I jerk off when I am extremely horny and can't abstain from sexual gratification.

well how often do you do it? if you are only doing it once a week and still not getting pleasure, maybe your doing it too rough or your doing it too fast. maybe there is some other type of medical condition going on

[Uranus]

I would suggest like the other guys have said, just wait a couple days and then masturbate. Maybe if you could, get a hold of some lubricant of You're not already using some.

[ImTrickster]

I would suggest for you to stop for a couple of days which is what i've just done , as i've been away for a week now and before i went i was exactly the same i would give this a try and see if it helps, not saying it will be easy though.

[mattsmith48]

Get someone to do it for you

[Slashman1]

try some new techniques or change it up a little you got a free hand while jerking off explore a little with the other

[Anomaly]

Just stop doing it for a while or think of some new and interesting ways of doing it!

[TooSleepyToCare]

I have done things. I have changed hands, speeds, and.. definitely explored with the other hand. I have tried using my imagination and watching porn to no avail.

[HououinKiyoma]

Take a break.

[Slashman1]

yes those are good things to try but try looking up new techniques to do while jerking off

-discussion/sharing of techniques is not allowed. -Emerald Dream

[denicedak]

Hey guys..

This is kinda awkward for me to ask but...

Over the past few months, I have been noticing that jerking off is no longer pleasuring. Almost like I do it out of instinct instead or habit instead of to make me feel good. I still get horny all the time whether it's from porn or dirty talk, and I get the urge to jerk off, but the feeling isn't there anymore. I just worry that sex isn't going to feel good anymore either. I don't know how detailed I am allowed to be in this, but basically, I've tried everything.

Any suggestions?

Thanks.

-Sleepy
the solution to this is not to jerk off everyday as you do do it twice or thrice each day the sensation and the feeling of orgasms gradually decreases so take a break do it at most twice per week or do it after every two weeks

[TooSleepyToCare]

Thanks for all the nice replies guys, but most of you are telling me to do it less often when the fact of the matter is, I don't do it often at all.

[Cloud_Strife]

Hey guys..

This is kinda awkward for me to ask but...

Over the past few months, I have been noticing that jerking off is no longer pleasuring. Almost like I do it out of instinct instead or habit instead of to make me feel good. I still get horny all the time whether it's from porn or dirty talk, and I get the urge to jerk off, but the feeling isn't there anymore. I just worry that sex isn't going to feel good anymore either. I don't know how detailed I am allowed to be in this, but basically, I've tried everything.

Any suggestions?

Thanks.

-Sleepy


Hi mate,

Sometimes it's a matter of mood and physical energy as well. If one has a low mood, stressed or is fatigued; as examples - then it would be less pleasurable. Mindset and preparedness are important too. I know you said it's not the case with you, but for others - if you're not feeling particularly stimulated, nor feeling up to it, then the act would probably be expected to not be pleasurable. Personally for you, are you preoccupied, or stressed outside of your own pleasure time?

Just based on your name, I hope you're really not too sleepy! ;)

Thanks for all the nice replies guys, but most of you are telling me to do it less often when the fact of the matter is, I don't do it often at all.
I agreed with everyone else that sometimes a break helps make things better when returning to it. But if you're not doing it often, if you don't mind us asking - how often is it happening?

try some new techniques or change it up a little

I agree with Slashman1. Changing techniques would probably help?

Hope you find this useful!

[jeans_kid]

If you aren't doing it often, it probably means there were changes to your body that caused it not to produce the substances needed to transmit the pleasure to the brain when you ejaculate. Do you have a balanced nutrition? Certain vitamins or proteins could enhance sexual pleasure, and it's possible that they are lacking in your food.

[KingExplosionMurder]

Hmm interesting you say that. I kinda feel the same about it but I just ignore that feeling and keep going. But yeah I suggest you skip days then do it to get a greater pleasure off it. Like wait Monday and Tuesday then do it on Wednesday :P

[Ollie2000]

you may find if you give it a complete rest for a while you'll enjoy it when you do it again

[BKchickenFries]

I've had the same problem until the last couple months. I'm not sure what the cause was. I masturbate at least once a day, and I was going through a tough time mentally/emotionally as well. I recommend a couple things:

Look up Kegel Exercises. They are not only for girls. They can give you a stronger orgasm.

Mix it up. Maybe get a sex toy or do something crazy and exhilarating (streaking, skinny dipping, jerking off with a friend, etc.

Take time off. I took off 2 weeks (which was extremely difficult. Some people take off a month+ and I can't believe it) while doing the above and I haven't had a problem since and I masturbate almost every day.

I'm not sure which one alone works since I did them all at the same time, but in my experience it works.

Hope this helps!

[suanden]

Just hold it off a little while and you get the "kick" again. You probably JO too often,

[crazyBoyjJ]

Maybe take a break from jerking or you can find other ways to masturbate that makes it more interesting. But trust me sex is going to feel amazing

[blackwaterkeys]

I know how that feels like. Honestly it's not a big deal, just go find something better to do with your time. I used to waste hours and hours just looking for the best way to pleasure myself and it's quite silly how much time I've wasted searching for porn and trying out various techniques. If you're horny and can't concentrate on anything else then masturbate to release the pressure and clear your mind. I think if you practise patience you'll find masturbation slightly more enjoyable.

[Garibay]

Sometimes I don't feel pleasure, just cum.
You shouldn't jerk off for somedays and then you could jerk off normally

[ejpete]

Try drawing it out. Get a feel of your penis. What feels good. What gives pleasure. Treat it as making love to your self. Make it personal. Lol this just got weird. Haha

[sysrq]

I think it's quite lonely thing to do when you do it on your own.
Usually physical activity always helps or doing something meaningful or mentally challenging/creative, it activates the reward centre in the brain.

[Georgysmith]

This post was deleted

[Lodan]

The best thing to do is stop doing it for a while and take more time when you do it.