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teencrazykid
September 10th, 2005, 09:26 PM
Okay theres this girl that weve been friends since she was 9 and i was 10. For part of the year, I'm two years older, and for the other part, I'm only one year older (numerically.) My bday July 92 and hers February 94. Shes in 6th gr and Im in 8th. I want 2 know if its ok to ask her out. shes 11 and im 13, shell be 12 in february, ill be 14 in July. she is more mature than 11, and is actually as tall as i am, and as smart, almost as mature, but would this be ok? give an opinion pl. But dont b 2 harsh if u think this is nasty or anything. we sort of 'went out' b4, when she was 9, I was 11, and after she turned 10, we went our ways 4 a while, but we wurnt official bf and gf, somewhere inbetween friends and relationship. i know 10 and 11 is early for bf and gf somewhat but were both more mature than 11 and 13, probably about 16 and 18 on maturity scale. ill just shut up now and let you give ur opinion hope this wasnt too long just needed to give the whole story. im probly gonna do it anyway cuz i like her, but i needed 'peer' opinion. thanks

-Silence
September 10th, 2005, 10:28 PM
2 Years isn't that big of a deal, it may seem like it because of school, but outside of school, it's nothing. In my opinion, it's fine, if you like her, be with her.

Elokyn
September 10th, 2005, 10:30 PM
I think you need to wait......I mean she's only 11...and no matter how mature she is that's really young to be tied to someone..that's just personal though, if she wants to be with you then whatever.

also you have to take into consideration that a relationship is different...it requires a different type of maturity (if that makes sense) that ya'll might not be ready for....I wish you luck

teencrazykid
September 10th, 2005, 10:36 PM
Thanks. Like I said, its hard 2 believe shes only 11. She dont act 11, more like 16. She hangs out with people as old as like 18 (some of which she is more mature than they are from what I've heard-one of them wanted to date her, b/c he thought she was 14! With that influence, she acts older. I wouldnt want too serious of a relationship, just casual, more like a "friends" relationship. Thanks 4 listening.

teencrazykid
September 10th, 2005, 10:41 PM
Elokyn, how old r u? In ur picture, u look about 15-18. (I hope that wuznt offensive or anything.)

Elokyn
September 10th, 2005, 11:21 PM
She stays out walkin allies till like 11 at night, and hangs out with people as old as like 18.

walkin allies at night? thats not smart or mature...


Elokyn, how old r u? In ur picture, u look about 15-18. (I hope that wuznt offensive or anything.)


not offensive at all, I'm 17

teencrazykid
September 10th, 2005, 11:58 PM
Ur probably right, I said that as a point that well, she acts older than 11. I told her that is so fucken stupid. I got 2 her house, and she bitch slapped me, so I wont tell her that again...

teencrazykid
September 11th, 2005, 12:28 AM
whatever I said...FUCK IT AND BURN IT IN HELL! Thats all...