Feeling like I'm cursed...

[mariozplaze]

Its so weird, I was just thinking back about all of my friends who are girls, and about 95% of them are fairly to EXTREMELY attractive. I'm not gay or anything, I just feel like I get along with girls better than I do boys, but I do have guy friends, but then when it comes to the dating scene, I'm not as lucky. Almost every instance where I try to make a move on one of them, I get ****ing friend zoned! It's almost like I get just enough attention to make it seem like they're interested, only to find out they're not as interested as I would hope.

[Just JT]

Communication bro....talk about it when I start getting these feeling, gently telling how ur feeling, wait for a resonses
Kinds like say hey ya no, our friendship? Immstartin to get this feeling like it might be a little more ya ?
Do that when ur someplace private, just the 2 of ya see where that goes, kinda an open question...

[Jaffe]

Friends and relationships are not the same... and I think they usually need to be separate. Asking a friend out, in my view, is asking for trouble, and maybe asking to lose the friend.
Be careful there. And maybe look for a relationship with someone you know but are not really good friends with.

[ptz7649]

argh! That's so annoying, but don't worry, it's also perfectly normal! I am a girl and kind of a tomboy so maybe you are in a similar situation but the other way around to me?
If you are a sensitive guy, maybe you find it easier to talk to girls about stuff because generally (I mean no offence guys) they are better listeners and mature faster.
It's perfectly normal, don't worry!

[mariozplaze]

argh! That's so annoying, but don't worry, it's also perfectly normal! I am a girl and kind of a tomboy so maybe you are in a similar situation but the other way around to me?
If you are a sensitive guy, maybe you find it easier to talk to girls about stuff because generally (I mean no offence guys) they are better listeners and mature faster.
It's perfectly normal, don't worry!


That's EXACTLY how I feel. I have guy friends and all, but I feel that chicks are a lot better at talking about personal issues. All that I wish for is that I can get some "special attention" from them from time to time also... *sigh*

[jessie3]

Yeah, i get along better with girls too because i feel like i can open myself up to them more then with a guy because if i try to do that with a guy friend they think It's kinda gay and it's uncomfortable. I prefer to have girl friends then guy friends.

[mariozplaze]

[Unintentional bump]

I guess its nice having a large social network of caring females like I do, but call me thirsty, but I really want some special companionship, and the confidence drop from my two month-old break up isn't helping much.