How to stop thinking about the girl who rejected me

[duckduck]

Background info if you don't remember - I started spending more time with my mates sister, I thought we were dating - cutting a long story short. Basically turned out she doesn't want a relationship.

We've stayed friends and we've hung out just the two of us since, all okay but I think we were both a little more tense than before and less comfortable - is this just temporary do you think and we'll get more comfortable over time? It just wasn't the same or as fun as before.

The thing is, whlist I got over the initial rejection very quickly (if you read my other thread ), but because we're stI'll friends, texting quite often and obviously hanging out I still think about her a lot (like all the time ) - often just running over funny stuff she said when we hung out or anything to do with her really. How do I stop thinking about her? it drives me mad.

Hope you can advise.

[Abhorrence]

I think your relationship will return back to the way it was if you just continue hanging out and being a good friend to her. As of stopping thinking about her, I don't know if anyone can truly advise you on that. It does drive you a bit mad but the only real way to stop thinking about someone is to cut them out completely and if you want a friendship with this person then that isn't really possible. Although sometimes a complete break can be healthy and make you feel better.