i don't if i'm depressed or not but,

[abiyyufahmi]

hi , thanks for reading my post, i've been a member here for quite a long time but haven't posted much, i just graduated from high school this year, and will be going to uni later this year, none of my close friend in high school are going there too, the thing is i feel that i haven't made a significant friend yet, i mean someone to share your weirdest experience, have an adventure together, grow up together, i end up watching coming of age movies like stand by me, freaks and geeks , almost famous, malcolm in the middle. that movies helped me feel happier for like a night, but the next morning i end up loathing my self, feeling lonely , sad and regretting myself for not wanting a brother when i was younger, sorry if my grammar is bad

[Abhorrence]

I don't know whether it would be depression but if you have a serious concern then it is worth checking at the doctor for, since they are there to help with emotional problems for a reason. I understand what you mean about the friend thing though, like I have people I know and hang out with but I don't share any sort of connections with them particularly. No amazing memories or experiences.

[Broken Toy]

It really isnt important on the label. The point here is, ou have a problem. You are in a phase where you are judging yourself harshly, expecting yourself to do better. This tends to be not achieving goals and then blaming yourself for this.

It doenst matter if you havent got some really important friend, as long as you are happy to be you. You will probably find a good friend like that, forcing it isnt a good idea because you end up being mates with a load of twats, i know this too well.

I would point out that sounds kind of like something that comes with anxiety, i know i experience that and im pretty sure its my anxiety that caused it.

[Tesserax]

This can be normal. I personally have never had a best friend, and though it gets to me sometimes, I do have several close friends that I can talk to. But in your case, you're moving into Uni. This is an entirely new phase of your life, and I suggest that since you feel like you're feeling sad/depressed, remember that this is natural from watching certain movies or videos. This is due to you feeling somewhat nostalgic, longing for your childhood, wishing you could relive the fun times, and perhaps do some things better.

Additionally, if you think that the depression is serious, then treat Uni as a clean slate. As I stated earlier, it's an entirely new phase of your life, and you should treat it as such. Start your "life" anew, start fresh, make new friends, and you'll likely find people soon that fit your personality much better (as Uni is honestly quite specialized)

[davdev17]

I have never had a best friend either. I want one so bad. I cry often about it. Moving on after high school can be good for making friends. There will be lots of new people to meet and lots of potential friends. I would suggest finding someone, anyone, to be your friend and stick with them. Don't judge them. I have lost lots of people who could be my friends right now because I judge them for stupid things. I regret that a lot.

[wolf g]

most of teen have the same problems like friends or their parrents controle every thing in their lives but you what ?

i was have the same thing and when ithink that i am lost or why i don't have friends i was think that i am the problem
the truth is it's not you is them
you have a lot of things leave you stay a life and if the others don't like it so it's their prablem.
i was have the same problem like i said i will tell you my secret one day i read a book and it's save really save me .
also when find my self alone i tolke to the nearest person it's my mom and she is tell me that it's not your folt peaole change and it will come a day and you will find a friend .

and i am sure abiyyufahmi that you will find a friend in the nearest futur.

but me i didn't find but i really don't like to have friends