Body

[CosmeticKiss]

I know how your body changes threw puberty . How would you know your done? because seriously I'm so confused about how do i know my body is done because i want guy to stop looking at it and say "perfect" or saying some jackass thing about my breasts like serious, is there anyway I can stop these dumb remarks about my body? Like i've tired baggy cloths doesn't work
i want my body to stop growing because Im sick of tired of these dumb remarks about my body, like i'm problem going to get a job just because how my body looks. Seriously is there anyway too stop this or stop my body from changing I can't handle this shyt . Any advice please? :confused:

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

You can't stop your body from growing, and the only way to really tell when you're done is when you just don't grow anymore. You're only 13, so I'd say you've got a few more years left still. If you don't like the things boys say to you about your body, tell them. If they refuse to stop, tell a teacher, because that's sexual harassment. Don't worry, other girls will be developing too. I'm sure at 13, there are still a few who aren't as developed yet, but within the next two or three years everyone should be catching up. You won't be the only one with breasts that the boys like to stare at, trust me.

My main advice though, is to stop stressing about it. Who cares what the boys are saying? It's your body, and you shouldn't have to feel ashamed of it. Wear the clothes you want to wear (because, I don't know about you, but I don't often feel attractive when I'm wearing super-baggy clothing), and be proud of who you are. When the boys compliment you, just smile and keep doing whatever you were doing. If they say anything rude, or sexual in nature, calmly tell them to stop or bring it up with an adult. I had a similar problem in junior high, and it was so confusing for me because guys had never paid any attention to me before. But now, apart from getting checked out by the occasional bag boy at the grocery store, I don't really have any problems with my looks.

It's had to believe, I know, but the guys will get more mature as they get older. Right now, at 13, they're pretty much at the peak of the annoying stage and at the bottom of the maturity scale. It'll get better. Just be proud of who are, and don't let them get you down. I'm sure your body won't affect your future job (unless you decide to be a model, actress, or something of the like). And at any rate, you won't have to worry about that for a while. :)

[Close102]

ignore them. chances are they are just jelious. im sure u are beautiful just the way you are. and usually for most girls they finish puberty about the time there periods become regular.

[silentc0re]

This is sexual harassment you should probably tell your school counceler or teacher , you have to ignore them because they are jealous and if you ignore them then eventually they will you alone (i was teased for 2 1/2 years ) you just have to learn how to deal with these people and you have to be more maturer then them and ignore them. And about the girl puberty thing i cant tell u because i only mostly know boy puberty but this can help you out -http://www.puberty101.com/p_pubgirls.shtml

P.S. Be who you want to be and wear what you want you wear dont make that boy stop you from being who you are.

[notsure101]

You can't stop your body from growing, and the only way to really tell when you're done is when you just don't grow anymore. You're only 13, so I'd say you've got a few more years left still. If you don't like the things boys say to you about your body, tell them. If they refuse to stop, tell a teacher, because that's sexual harassment. Don't worry, other girls will be developing too. I'm sure at 13, there are still a few who aren't as developed yet, but within the next two or three years everyone should be catching up. You won't be the only one with breasts that the boys like to stare at, trust me.

My main advice though, is to stop stressing about it. Who cares what the boys are saying? It's your body, and you shouldn't have to feel ashamed of it. Wear the clothes you want to wear (because, I don't know about you, but I don't often feel attractive when I'm wearing super-baggy clothing), and be proud of who you are. When the boys compliment you, just smile and keep doing whatever you were doing. If they say anything rude, or sexual in nature, calmly tell them to stop or bring it up with an adult. I had a similar problem in junior high, and it was so confusing for me because guys had never paid any attention to me before. But now, apart from getting checked out by the occasional bag boy at the grocery store, I don't really have any problems with my looks.

It's had to believe, I know, but the guys will get more mature as they get older. Right now, at 13, they're pretty much at the peak of the annoying stage and at the bottom of the maturity scale. It'll get better. Just be proud of who are, and don't let them get you down. I'm sure your body won't affect your future job (unless you decide to be a model, actress, or something of the like). And at any rate, you won't have to worry about that for a while. :)

your right u dont have to change for anybody be who u want to be

[Babydoll]

There is a birthcontrol called depovera
And it does slow down hormones alot,
I'm the same age and have the same problem,
But there are some side affects,
Like you may start to grow facial hair,
And other stuff.. That I'm not sure of.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Please don't bump old threads. Thank you. :)

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