Am I Bi or Is this Puberty?

[Questioning]

So I have been wondering whats been going on lately. I've started jerking off to boys more than girls, or at least as much as girls, but not in the normal way. I can't watch gay porn, it freaks me out, and I'm not turned on by "mature" guys who have already hit puberty. The only exception to this is 2 guys who are gay and have hit puberty and know want to have sex with me. Also, another aspect I have is OCD, which makes me obsess over if I'm bi incessantly, which I do not want to be. I am in the later stages of puberty, and have never thought about boys like this before. What do you think I am? Has anyone ever felt this before and turned out straight?

[Abhorrence]

Puberty For Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality & Gender
I think this is more suited in this section.

[icestar97]

Don't wory! Almost every one felt this. In time you'll over it.

[Bull]

Until age 16 I had never thought of experimenting with a guy, then I received a hj. Still I did not have sexual thoughts about guys. A year later I let a guy lead me into a sexual relationship, I was willing and it was enjoyable while it lasted. When you are horny does it really make a difference if you get release with a guy or a girl. Pleasure is pleasure. However, that is me and you should do what feels okay for you. Do not do anything you don't want to. Do not be pressured into a sexual relationship. Good luck with your feelings.

[SethfromMI]

it is hard to say at this point. it may be you are bisexual. maybe you are just curious . it could just be the influence of puberty. sometimes you just have to wait

[Zachary G]

it is what it is, dot stress it and just go with it, it might just be a phase but the only way to figure it out is to go through it. Dont worry about putting a label on it, just try to figure out what these feelings are and what they mean to you.

[Laibachd]

it is hard to say at this point. it may be you are bisexual. maybe you are just curious . it could just be the influence of puberty. sometimes you just have to wait

I agree.

But i wonder, why don't you want to be bi? :/

[Cangirl]

I agree.

But i wonder, why don't you want to be bi? :/

Yeah i was wondering that to :) whats wrong with being bi?

[DoodleSnap]

First of all, why is it that you don't want to be bisexual? Is it a social stigma? Is it fear of bullying?

I think that you should try to worry less about labelling yourself, and try more to let yourself do what you do naturally. Repressing one's sexuality is really damaging, so being honest to yourself is the most important thing here.
Sexuality is a wide spectrum, with many different ways of describing it, making it very confusing for anyone, let alone a teenager going through puberty. It is common for boys to experience different forms of attraction for different genders and traits, so don't try to take away the credibility of your same-sex attraction because it is different from the way you approach opposite gender attraction.
I think that it is better to let yourself be attracted to whoever you're attracted to, and be comfortable in your own skin, rather than letting your label confine and limit you.
I used to be afraid of being bisexual, and I was afraid of confronting my sexuality. For a long time I put it down to 'puberty', and told myself I was straight, because that was what society said was 'right'. After much time spent thinking it over, I have realised that having a label is not what is important, but rather being true to myself is. I like multiple gender traits, both feminine and masculine, and I identify as bisexual, even though I am attracted to each in different ways. Open your mind, and let time tell you who you are.
I know that for some people, not having a label is difficult, so in this case, I think that bisexual is fairly applicable.
Good luck, and I hope all goes well.

[Brellen]

It's normal to feel this way. It may just be a stage in your life, or it might not be, but ether way, whatever you are feeling, it's not wrong or bad.

[Babs]

You could be bi, it could be hormones, but no one here can really tell you. You may just have to figure it out with time.

[Riley2015]

I think i'm bi but my parents don't know about it cos I think they would freak out,especially my dad