satisfaction (girls)

[Collinsworthington]

so i had sex for the first time the other day and wanted to know if i was satisfying im 5.5 inches and 5 in girth and lasted about 2 minutes she moaned and said it was great but didnt orgasm so i wanted to know if she was lying or if it was actually nice for her

[Jason173771]

All girls are different. Some girls are pleasured by your size while some are not. It depends if she had sex or not before she had sex with you.

[playfull-qt]

I'm sure she enjoyed it and from what little I know it sounds like your penis is fine. -sex tips aren't allowed. -Emerald Dream

[Taryn98]

Only she can answer this. Your size had nothing to do with it though. It's all about how she felt mentally/emotionally.

[biancachica]

Your size is fine. My first was smaller than you and his size was great. It's mostly everything else that matters like your passion, foreplay, positions, etc. The more you have sex the more experience you'll get. Always communicate of what you both like. You seem off to a good start since she seemed to like it. Was it her first time too?

[sunnieseason]

I feel like boys care way too much about their size and pay very little attention to being in love and finding a way to explore each other to discover what your partner likes. A quality girl isn't going to be with you just because of your penis size.

[Kochanek]

I feel like boys care way too much about their size and pay very little attention to being in love and finding a way to explore each other to discover what your partner likes. A quality girl isn't going to be with you just because of your penis size.

Just like girls care way too much about the shape of their legs, hips and breast :D

[sunnieseason]

Just like girls care way too much about the shape of their legs, hips and breast :D

Maybe so, but the focus of sex should be love and enjoyment. It shouldn't matter what size penis or what shape breast your partner has. A girl with A cup boobs and a boy with an average penis can still enjoy each other's company.

[Kochanek]

Maybe so, but the focus of sex should be love and enjoyment. It shouldn't matter what size penis or what shape breast your partner has. A girl with A cup boobs and a boy with an average penis can still enjoy each other's company.

You are completely right!
And I prefer A cup boobs from D cup boobs anyway... :D

[KellyNC]

I really don't think you have any reason to doubt her, there's nothing wrong with your size for sure. I also wouldn't be too concerned or self-conscious about how long you last your first time or whether or not she climaxed, particularly at this point. First times often are short and should involve learning on both partner's parts, but that doesn't mean she didn't feel pleasure and the deeper connection it creates on the emotional/passionate level often makes the experience special to both partners.

[Laraa.01]

so i wanted to know if she was lying or if it was actually nice for her

Here's a tip....ask her!

[Anomaly]

Maybe so, but the focus of sex should be love and enjoyment. It shouldn't matter what size penis or what shape breast your partner has. A girl with A cup boobs and a boy with an average penis can still enjoy each other's company.

Exactly!

[shamrockgirl02]

It sounds like you have an adequate size, if she said she was satisfied she was probably satisfied

[Jordan99]

Agree with all the other girls here and size is not a factor. As for how long you were able to last, totally agree with KellyNC. As my BF and I have been together for almost a year now, we have learned each other's bodies and to settle down so we can last longer. Even so, sometimes when he gets too excited, he might not be able to go as long but that's ok because it both makes me happy and turns me on to know I can get him that excited. It's a compliment.

[THJKIGB]

You can get a bunch of opinions here, but we weren't the ones who experienced the sex with you. The only person that can give you a real answer is the girl you had sex with. Ask her.

[mikielikesit]

I agree, If she seem happy she was happy

[LITTLEANGEL19]

If she is still your girlfriend all must be ok. Also sex is not the be all and end all of a relationship.

[ClaireM]

It should be more about love than sex, shouldn't it?

[AutumnWinds]

in my own very limited experience it's more about knowing what to do than the actual uh, hardware.

[Colton8]

She could still enjoy it even if she didn't finish

[Andre 99]

I feel like boys care way too much about their size and pay very little attention to being in love and finding a way to explore each other to discover what your partner likes.
Yes, communication is key. Size really doesn't matter, it is how you use what you have.

so i had sex for the first time the other day and wanted to know if i was satisfying im 5.5 inches and 5 in girth and lasted about 2 minutes she moaned and said it was great but didnt orgasm so i wanted to know if she was lying or if it was actually nice for her
Ask her. Be interested in how she felt. Don't feel bad if she says some bits weren't as good as others. It is your firsttime. It is always hard the very first time, and still hard the firsttime with any girl. You need to get to know what she likes and how she likes it. And she has to learn what you like and how you like it.

[sweettayla]

You don't have to orgasm to enjoy sex, if she says she enjoyed it, why would you doubt her?

[Hannah98]

Whether my BF and I have a quickie or a marathon session I still enjoy it and just love being so close and intimate with him. As for penis size, my BF has a very normal sized dick and it totally gets the job done and done very well. Some boys on this site seem obsessed with their size and if you only knew, we girls aren't nearly as hung up on that as you are. Some boys on here have told some REALLY tall tales about their size too claiming to be much larger than they truly are. Totally doesn't matter to us unless you have a micropenis or are too large. Yes, they can be too large. I've only ever been with my BF but have a GF who was with a boy who was too big and she didn't enjoy sex with him at all. As long as you are pleasing her and you are enjoying yourself too, that's all that matters.

[NorthWestGirl]

My boyfriend is only a little bigger than you at 6 inches, and can vary the length between a quickie or much longer.

But he satisfies me every time regardless of whether I cum because for us it's not all about the physical pleasure, but the emotional closeness that comes with having him inside me.