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Tendencies
July 17th, 2015, 10:09 PM
This is gonna come off as super selfish, but I just had to say it some where. So there is a friend that I always go to when I want to get like, I guess you could say emotional or "deep", and I have just recently gotten back in contact with a friend that I had a huge crush on and I wanted to talk to him about it and so I did, and then this week we were all hanging out together (Me, him, my crush, and another friend), and he was all over her, and the worst part was that she was all over him also. This was just painful to watch, mainly because I know he doesn't really want to be in a serious relationship with her, and yet I just sit in the backround and watch it all happen because I don't want them to think that I am some selfish asshole. I don't know whether I should just let it happen or if I should talk to him. Maybe, I should just let it go considering that she has showed no interest whatsoever. It's just the fact that he can come in out of nowhere, with someone he had never met before, and do that. If you actually read all that, thanks for listening to my little rant.
Tyson S
July 17th, 2015, 10:15 PM
Let it go. Probably a once off caught in the moment type of thing. Definitely don't talk to the other guy about it as he might think your being jealous. Just tell the girl how you feel :)
James Dean
July 18th, 2015, 04:58 AM
For right now, it's best to leave it alone. If they have feelings for each other, all you can do is either be supportive, or not pay attention to it, but still agreeing to be friends.
I don't think you should let this break your friendship. Unless it's getting to the point to where you feel you are being attacked, or your relationships with these two people start to fade away. I mean for right now, it just seems they hit it off and enjoy each others company. I don't think your friendship is over all because of this.
I do see some jealously, and it's okay to be jealous, just don't continue to be jealous. Talk to your friend about it and ask them about the relationship and where you stand. Hope everything goes well for you. :)
Uniquemind
July 18th, 2015, 11:40 AM
This is gonna come off as super selfish, but I just had to say it some where. So there is a friend that I always go to when I want to get like, I guess you could say emotional or "deep", and I have just recently gotten back in contact with a friend that I had a huge crush on and I wanted to talk to him about it and so I did, and then this week we were all hanging out together (Me, him, my crush, and another friend), and he was all over her, and the worst part was that she was all over him also. This was just painful to watch, mainly because I know he doesn't really want to be in a serious relationship with her, and yet I just sit in the backround and watch it all happen because I don't want them to think that I am some selfish asshole. I don't know whether I should just let it happen or if I should talk to him. Maybe, I should just let it go considering that she has showed no interest whatsoever. It's just the fact that he can come in out of nowhere, with someone he had never met before, and do that. If you actually read all that, thanks for listening to my little rant.
He might not even like guys.
This is a common situation you'll have to endure in life. But you'll find someone eventually.
Tendencies
July 18th, 2015, 02:36 PM
He might not even like guys.
This is a common situation you'll have to endure in life. But you'll find someone eventually.
I'm not into him haha, I like the girl but i'm kind of getting over it now so it's whatever I guess.
Uniquemind
July 19th, 2015, 03:20 AM
I'm not into him haha, I like the girl but i'm kind of getting over it now so it's whatever I guess.
Oh haha misread it sorry. Hope my error gives you something to laugh about.
Yeah it kinda sucks to see someone you want to sweep off their feet be so easily swept off their feet by someone else. It hurts but it's not the end of the world, and at the end of the day you know your affections aren't coming from a selfish place when you learn to be content if your desired one is happy and cared for.
That's really the only silver lining.
DoodleSnap
July 20th, 2015, 07:02 PM
For right now, it's best to leave it alone. If they have feelings for each other, all you can do is either be supportive, or not pay attention to it, but still agreeing to be friends.
I don't think you should let this break your friendship. Unless it's getting to the point to where you feel you are being attacked, or your relationships with these two people start to fade away. I mean for right now, it just seems they hit it off and enjoy each others company. I don't think your friendship is over all because of this.
I do see some jealously, and it's okay to be jealous, just don't continue to be jealous. Talk to your friend about it and ask them about the relationship and where you stand. Hope everything goes well for you. :)
^^^Couldn't have said it better myself.
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