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bbychop
April 15th, 2008, 06:16 PM
I had broken up with my ex a few weeks ago and I do admit, I have been happier since and I told myself then that I would try to work on myself before even attempting to get into another relationship.
About a week and a half after the break up, I started actually talking to my friends again (which I could not do for six months, hence why I was not on here) and my cousin gave my friend Matt my number to text me. I had not talked to him since August because of my ex and he (Matt) did not want to get involved - i.e. fight him.
Everything seemed to be falling back into place with him and I. It was kind of like we picked up where we left off. We had tried hanging out a handful of times since we started talking but our plans always seem to fall through.
Last night out of the blue, he texted me and said "would you believe me if I said I was nervous to hang out with you?" when we were not even talking about hanging out and he said he did not know why. I told him afterwards I was as well but I would rather not get into my reason and he just responded "it's because we are awesome" which is usually said when something gets to the point of me liking him.
I would like to ask him out, sure. Granted, we dated once before... over a year ago and it got blown up in my face. I have a way I want to do it too, though it is a bit cheesy. I dropped little hints on how I am going to do it as well but it appears as if he does not catch on.
My cousin and him do not get along anymore. They make fun of each other constantly and I am the one in the middle. Though my cousin is sitting here telling me to just do it already (like he always does), I am just scared and I wonder if he likes me.
:confused:

iJack
April 15th, 2008, 07:00 PM
If you went out before, chances are he still likes you, take it slowly, untill he starts to hint he wants to speed it up.

BTW, is it just me or is the font really small?

Oblivion
April 15th, 2008, 07:38 PM
No it is small lol-

Anyway, you might try it... If you liked him before i doubt your feelings for him or his feelings for you completely vanished. So you might want to try it :) hey why not? If you dont like him, then nothings lost. If i were you thought i would tell my cousin to but out... Lol Good Luck!

bbychop
April 15th, 2008, 09:00 PM
(note : i like typing really small. i see smaller fonts the best)

my cousin is only involved because he sees him every day and is friends with every girl he has ever dated.
i was considering asking him towards the middle of next month. he will be getting out of school so we could see each other more and such. you know. the last time i even saw him was july of this past year at a concert we both ended up going to.

i have not been this nervous in a long time.