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thatcountrykid
July 14th, 2015, 07:29 PM
Sooo I don't normally come here cause I haven't had a reason to but..now I do
I've recently found myself in a long distance relationship. I love this girl more than anything. The reason I've come here is to ask those of you in long distance relationships how you make it work or work better I should say. Some tips to make it more special I guess. We already text a lot and talk on snapchat video chat at night but anything else you suggest?
SethfromMI
July 14th, 2015, 07:38 PM
Hand written letters. I know, in this day and age who does it. but it says something special and personal. any little gift you might be able to send (even flowers from a shop near her). other then that, besides trying to occasionally see them in person and what you are already doing, there is not much you can do. I do wish you good luck though
StoppingTom
July 14th, 2015, 07:45 PM
As incredibly bitter and opposed to long-distance relationships as I am, Seth hit the nail on the head, flowers and other signs of affection work well in LDR's because it makes you two feel closer than you actually are.
Renata_cmp
July 15th, 2015, 12:19 PM
you have to see her in person first, you cant be sure if its gonna work out before you saw her. even if you tell ourselves how your love will transcand space and time, the "real life" test can be the only one to tell if it's gonna work or not. Appart from that, id say dont have like 3 weeks pauses between your past exhanges, trust her, and try things to do online.
Body odah Man
July 15th, 2015, 01:25 PM
Sooo I don't normally come here cause I haven't had a reason to but..now I do
I've recently found myself in a long distance relationship. I love this girl more than anything. The reason I've come here is to ask those of you in long distance relationships how you make it work or work better I should say. Some tips to make it more special I guess. We already text a lot and talk on snapchat video chat at night but anything else you suggest?
Based on what I've heard try to at least visit at times. Like Seth said, and written letters and flowers do wonders. Good luck and remmeber: 'amor vincit omnia'
Kirina
July 15th, 2015, 04:37 PM
Video chat at night. Like the webcam is on as you sleep? I used to do that. We also read visual novels together on skype screen share (reading sentences back and forth) and RPG maker games like Witch's House, Ib, Mad Father, Star Stealing Prince. Stuff like that. This may not appeal to you tho.
You can watch movies/series together with services like this https://letsgaze.com/#/ (there may be better ones idk). Oculus Rift will make this so much fun. Because it will create a virtual living room space. With couch, Tv and an avatar of your gf sitting next to you. :p
SethfromMI
July 15th, 2015, 06:35 PM
Video chat at night. Like the webcam is on as you sleep? I used to do that. We also read visual novels together on skype screen share (reading sentences back and forth) and RPG maker games like Witch's House, Ib, Mad Father, Star Stealing Prince. Stuff like that. This may not appeal to you tho.
You can watch movies/series together with services like this https://letsgaze.com/#/ (there may be better ones idk). Oculus Rift will make this so much fun. Because it will create a virtual living room space. With couch, Tv and an avatar of your gf sitting next to you. :p
aww that's a really good idea
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