I neeed a lad who is experienced to answer truthfully!

[CrazyBaby]

ok so thers this lad who is a good friend of mine, and we was chattin about sex and stuff, and he was tellin me he fingered some girl who had what he called "dangly bits" lmao...

but i think he means that her inner lips (the pink bit where the clitours is!) hang out of her outer lips. he sed it made him feel sick and he was dead put off by it, but mine hangs out and i need to know if...

1) girls-does anyone elses do this?

2) lads is it weird? have you ever touched anyone like this before?


help! im stressin incase im abnormal lol xx

[Maverick]

Relationships and Dating :arrow: Puberty for Girls

Honestly you have nothing to worry about. I'm a guy and wouldn't see that as a big deal at all. Seems normal to me.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

It's COMPLETELY normal. The inner labia come in a variety of different shapes, sizes, even colors (depending on the pigmentation of your skin). It's nothing to worry about. :)

[Close102]

ya tones of girls have this. chances are the boy won't even notice if its one of his first times.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

It's totally normal; and actually its probably more common than the other kind (smaller inner lips a.k.a. cameltoe). That guy who was "grossed out" by it is just stupid and shallow. He must watch too much porn; and now he's only attracted to "perfect" lady parts and has standards that are wayyy to high. Don't worry not all guys are like that though :yeah:

[Techno Monster]

It is fine LOTS of peoples have it like that, rember , nobody is the same down there.

[ScotsGirl]

Like others have said, you aren't abnormal at all :-)

Don't worry about what your friend said, maybe he hasn't had enough experience to realise that every girl is unique.
And if he is that grossed out by it...well :eyebrow: , he can always just stick to boys and their "dangly bits" :P LOL!

xxx

[RaisingSand]

What he was probably feeling was her labia minora, which can be a different size for every female.

[dmeek7]

i would think its cool and i would finger any girl like that

[Techno Monster]

He is obviously to shallow for you.

[japanman]

ok so thers this lad who is a good friend of mine, and we was chattin about sex and stuff, and he was tellin me he fingered some girl who had what he called "dangly bits" lmao...

but i think he means that her inner lips (the pink bit where the clitours is!) hang out of her outer lips. he sed it made him feel sick and he was dead put off by it, but mine hangs out and i need to know if...

1) girls-does anyone elses do this?

2) lads is it weird? have you ever touched anyone like this before?


help! im stressin incase im abnormal lol xx

Nope but i dont think its abnormal. Infact sofar on what i have learned is thats its normal and i bielive its called the Labium minora but if its more on the outside then its the Labium majora. But still its perfectly normal.

[Rutherford The Brave]

I personally dont mind it at all, a woman is a beautiful being and just seeing her vagina is well how do you say a gift?

[LightScribe]

Yeah I had a girlfriend who's vagina was like that. Some people have the inner lips and clitoris hanging out and some have them tucked inside the labia. It's pretty much the same sort of deal as your belly button.

You will find that most guys won't find it to be an issue, and for every guy that says it's a turn-off there will be a guy who finds it an absolute turn-on.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

See all of these guys? I have no idea what was wrong with the dude in the OP's story; but he should have felt LUCKY to even have the chance to go that far with her! What a douchebag! lol sorry but... damn!

Like the others said most guys won't mind; I asked a couple of my close friends (who I can talk to about this sorta thing) and one of my friends is... very experienced. He told me that he thought "it was all good" no matter what it looked like it was always great to him. We all agree on that point :D

[notsure101]

im a guy i wouldnt see anyhting wrong with this

[silentc0re]

Its perfectly normal for a female to have this don't worry your perfectly normal =)

[Shortie]

It's obvious to me this guy had no clue what girls look like and probably no clue what he was doing. I feel sorry for the girl because I'm sure it didn't feel too good..

[dvd333]

I love all vaginas. So i can work with anything...

[randomnessqueen]

its totally normal for labia to do that
it sounds more like there was something wrong with the boy