View Full Version : apprehension of going home after circumcision, help please suggestions
Vermilion
July 13th, 2015, 01:12 PM
Hi I'm asking on behalf of a friend.
So here it goes
Hi all guys circumcised between the he age of 10 and 20, I refused to circumcised but I had an infection and bad phimosis. It was going to happen even though I had done stretching with creams for 13 months It helped but not enough. (I honestly tired ). Because I was in hospital anyway for surgery it was decided to circumcise me and my twin. Like I said I refused but my twin wanted it done ( same problem as me ). I was warned 3 times I would be put under. I was I am now circumcised.
I do not want to go home, I think I will explode again. I have so much memory of what it was like being uncut and discovering my mastersbating skill. How do you do it ? Go home knowing you shouldn't off been circumcised ? 14 today 15 tomorrow. :(
Thanks everyone that reads this and everyone that replies.
( mods if in wrong place please move it )
Musichead2428
July 13th, 2015, 01:26 PM
Well Being Cut isn't bad at all and isn't really different the one difference is that you had skin before now you don't. And when you jerk it's the same you don't need to pull back on skin anymore when you pee. It's not all different you will get used to it. It's not like your on a different planet it just takes time to understand on what you now have
ImTrickster
July 13th, 2015, 01:51 PM
Well Being Cut isn't bad at all and isn't really different the one difference is that you had skin before now you don't. And when you jerk it's the same you don't need to pull back on skin anymore when you pee. It's not all different you will get used to it. It's not like your on a different planet it just takes time to understand on what you now have
Like he said i doubt it will be all that bad being cut many people get crircumcised at your age. If you did have bad phimosis then it is defienetly for the best because as you grow and your penis grows untill the age of 21 it would have got tighter and made having sex painful so it's for the best.
Good luck, I hope you feel better in the future :)
Txfri1350
July 14th, 2015, 01:24 AM
Do it.. good luck!
Jaffe
July 14th, 2015, 02:18 AM
This guy may need a therapist.
Seriously though, its done, its over, what can he do but accept it? I know its a major personal invasion (at least I think it would be if it were me) but, at the same time, its minor surgery. Lots of guys are cut, and they are all happy and jerk off just fine. Maybe the best advice would be to change the focus: instead of hating what happened, he could focus on having the new experience of re-learning to jack off. It will feel different to him, and from what I have heard, the first few weeks are like constant boner because the sensitive head is suddenly exposed 24/7. He might learn to like that.
Plus, he had phimosis, which supposedly gets really painful as you get older. So he may not have a foreskin now, but at least his penis still works, and doesnt hurt. If he had to choose between those (which he did) then I'm sure he would choose circumcision. He's just pissed because he didnt get to choose.
I know, I'm uncut and he didnt ask for my opinion. But you didnt get much response, and I always like to give my opinion even when I'm not asked, lol. I'd be totally upset in his position. But I'd be happy to still be able to enjoy life, including jerking off and having sex.
Vermilion
July 14th, 2015, 06:47 AM
Thanks everyone that's replied I know he's seen your responses
Mark2000
July 14th, 2015, 07:06 AM
Yes, I have read everyone's responce and I read them over 25 times, I t has sunk in and I beleave I will start a totally new experance.
It's our birthday today and it's a wonderful day.
Thanks all.
Rain Boy
July 14th, 2015, 08:06 AM
Yes, I have read everyone's responce and I read them over 25 times, I t has sunk in and I beleave I will start a totally new experance.
It's our birthday today and it's a wonderful day.
Thanks all.
Happy birthday and happy circday. Maybe it's not the nicest way to spend your summer vacation but you will be OK, just follow doctor's advice. In the long run everything will work fine.:cool:
shore98
July 14th, 2015, 10:47 AM
It sucks for a few weeks right after it gets done, but you get used to it, and now I don't even notice it most of the time.
Mark2000
July 14th, 2015, 11:29 AM
Happy birthday and happy circday. Maybe it's not the nicest way to spend your summer vacation but you will be OK, just follow doctor's advice. In the long run everything will work fine.:cool:
I sure hope you are right. I hate being home so many memories that this will not replace. Just so you know I am happy for my birthday I do have great parents. But I had grown used to my fireskun. Oh well .thank you. I am happy and 12 months and I will be driving making babies in back seat[emoji6]
Mark2000
July 15th, 2015, 08:35 AM
Everybody this is a great thread, it helped a lot, please keep posting so we can help other boys and teens. Thanks alot.
lancezer
July 16th, 2015, 04:41 AM
Its fine the only think as the rest have said is no skin there no need to pull back and for a few days a little pain and then ichy while healing at the end and once healed you can use as normal
SethfromMI
July 16th, 2015, 08:09 AM
as someone who was cut at/near birth I am happy to be cut. I think once your friend heals, he will be able to get used to it quickly enough, even though the healing time may be a pain
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