Is this a good/bad idea?

[onewingedangel666]

I'm 16 and my sister is in her mid 20's (NO it's NOT going to be anything like you think XD)
Earlier this year my sister and I were talking about school and she asked if tehre were any girls I liked, I was pretty much honest (Besides 1 girl who things have gone too far... Another story for another time) and she offered to drive a girl and I to Presque Isle (A beach), which is a couple of hours from our location if I asked someone to go.
I have a girl in mind, but I don't know whether it's a little early to ask her to do something like this. The girl and I are friends, at least I would say, but we're not close, and we don't really hang out, just text a little, which is sort of why I wanted to hang out. My sister said I should call her to ask, and maybe say she could bring a friend.
I guess I'm wondering, should I do this if I don't think she likes me as more than a friend? I don't want to make it weird, and I don't think she would try and make it weird. ALso I'm sorta worried that it would be weird t have my sister there. Of course it would be necessary to get there, and she'd probably go off on her own for a while. Anyways, i'm rambling, so I'll turn the Mic to you guys. What do you think?

[Hudor]

I think it's a bit early. Hang out at some nearby place first. Try to spend time with her at school maybe. Get to know her more. As you said you aren't close and I don't think she might want to hang out with some guy she barely knows at a place a couple of hours drive away.

[tret123]

Wing it! Just ask her and see what she says.... If she likes you shell come along and bring a friend of hers... Who doesn't like the beach?

[SethfromMI]

gee this can be tough depending on the people involved...I guess trust your gut. if you want to go for it, then go for it. if you think you should wait, wait a little while

[ClaraWho]

I think it's a bit early. Hang out at some nearby place first. Try to spend time with her at school maybe. Get to know her more. As you said you aren't close and I don't think she might want to hang out with some guy she barely knows at a place a couple of hours drive away.

I concur!

~ Clara

[onewingedangel666]

I think it's a bit early. Hang out at some nearby place first. Try to spend time with her at school maybe. Get to know her more. As you said you aren't close and I don't think she might want to hang out with some guy she barely knows at a place a couple of hours drive away.

I think you're right, thanks.

[DoodleSnap]

I think it's a bit early. Hang out at some nearby place first. Try to spend time with her at school maybe. Get to know her more. As you said you aren't close and I don't think she might want to hang out with some guy she barely knows at a place a couple of hours drive away.
^^^This.
Get to know her in a more "spur-of-the-moment", casual setting.

[Uniquemind]

^^^This.
Get to know her in a more "spur-of-the-moment", casual setting.

What he said, and also ask your sister for a raincheck on her offer.

[Tesserax]

Try it, get your sis to help out in awkward situations, just go for it. Take the risks, and you may reap great rewards