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Reg_
July 12th, 2015, 02:50 AM
how do you ask someone that you like/have a crush on, their sexuality?

if this is in the wrong spot feel free to move

CosmicNoodle
July 12th, 2015, 03:43 AM
"Are you gay, straight, what?"

If they get butt hurt over it, they probably have something to hide, or are over sensitive bitches.

SethfromMI
July 12th, 2015, 07:15 AM
wait you have a crush on their sexuality?

The37thElement
July 12th, 2015, 07:34 AM
Just kind of bring it up in conversation. I've asked people about their sexuality numerous times. Chances are, it will be a good test to see whether you stand a chance with them or not.

Abhorrence
July 12th, 2015, 07:43 AM
Literally just ask, don't necessarily say you have a crush on them. Just make it into a general conversation.

ashdaniel
July 12th, 2015, 01:22 PM
Well, that is a good one. If a guy don't come out or didn't say anyone it is hard to know their sexuality and hard to ask.

Reg_
July 12th, 2015, 02:12 PM
wait you have a crush on their sexuality?

what do you mean ''a crush on their sexuality''?

JonniCrash
July 12th, 2015, 03:12 PM
I'm pretty chatty and a bit of a flirt most times too, so I just get a conversation going to gauge if the other person is showing some interest in me or not - thats usually a big clue, if someone isn't reciprocating or doesn't want to carry on the conversation it's usually a big sign that there isn't any interest there.

If the interest is there, usually a roundabout conversation with some hinting or innuendo gets the answer ;)

SethfromMI
July 12th, 2015, 04:11 PM
what do you mean ''a crush on their sexuality''?

that's what you said in your original post.

Reg_
July 12th, 2015, 05:27 PM
that's what you said in your original post.

I forgot the comma : /

Reg_
July 12th, 2015, 05:28 PM
thanks for all of your responses. I think I know what to do now :)

Desuetude
July 13th, 2015, 11:50 AM
Another tip, you could bring up past relationships they might have had and see if they say girlfriend or boyfriend or make a joke about it and say "so when was your last girlfriend... Or boyfriend?!" And usually they'll say they're straight and you can laugh it off or they'll say "oh yeah I had a boyfriend X long ago". Yeah thats the best way I've found to ask people.

DoodleSnap
July 13th, 2015, 09:52 PM
I'm pretty chatty and a bit of a flirt most times too, so I just get a conversation going to gauge if the other person is showing some interest in me or not - thats usually a big clue, if someone isn't reciprocating or doesn't want to carry on the conversation it's usually a big sign that there isn't any interest there.

If the interest is there, usually a roundabout conversation with some hinting or innuendo gets the answer ;)
^^^This.
Just because their sexual orientation means that you are the right gender, doesn't mean you have a chance, or are necessarily compatible.
Drop hints, have conversation, and see if they show interest, as that is the important part here.
Or you could just straight up (excuse the pun) ask them. If they have issue with you asking then you should probably steer well clear...