Help.

[Mdifl1029]

So recently I've been talking to a 17-year old boy and I'm only 14. He wants to ( and I as well) want to make sexual advances. I need some advice and experience stories because I want to bottom and top. Please help.

[Semi_IronMan]

Um wow such a unique problem. I'd be lying if I said I have any experience in that field, hopefully some "experienced" guys here on the forum will reply and help u in your situation

[rdaniel]

i have not experience but donot do it .

[Bull]

Story telling is not permitted on VT. However, proceed with caution. How well do you know this individual? If you go this route, be sure to practice safe sex.

[SethfromMI]

first off wear protection since it is your first time with him. before you guys do anything, go over what you will and will not do. don't do anything you do not want to do. as far as being bottom you are almost at the mercy he will go slow with you and gentle with you till you get used to it a little bit. with you being on top, you need to make sure you go slow and gentle at first.

[Abhorrence]

With this type of situation it is very important that you have a lot of trust in your partner, especially if you're gonna bottom. Like, you really do not want him to just "shove it in" for lack of a better term. I think you should only do it if you are completely sure and have trust in this dude. Also don't do it if it's clear that he isn't emotionally invested in you. Being used isn't as fun as it sounds.

[ImTrickster]

go to in google
"Advanced masturbation Mutual masturbation stories "
then something like leads to gay
these may be some things your looking for possibly

[ashdaniel]

Well, the only advise I will say is go slowly. I mean the stuff you ywo do. Start with hj or bj first and see how comfortable you two are. Don't rush to sex, have fun but what is important is how comfortable you are and always remember to use protection. Also, you have the right to say no at anytime. If you feel uncomfortable at some point just say no.

[masterj]

I found this link: http://www.thegailygrind.com/2015/07/04/how-to-top-like-a-stud-a-penetrating-guide-to-gay-sex/ might be of some help, it basically tells you some steps on how to do it so it isn't rough and good for first timers

[Second Chance]

So recently I've been talking to a 17-year old boy and I'm only 14. He wants to ( and I as well) want to make sexual advances. I need some advice and experience stories because I want to bottom and top. Please help.

I would be careful about someone who I am guessing is a high school senior wanting to go out with you who is probably either in 8th grade or a freshman in high school. It just seems kind of dodgy for someone like that to go out with someone who is a lot younger, but I am not saying it is wrong. Just make sure the person you want to do stuff with is clean and doesn't have any STDs especially if he has a lot of experience with different people. You can't just take his word for it that he has nothing. Make sure you're protecting yourself by using condoms and be careful if this is a guy you do not know really well.

[Yolodolo]

I would wait of on the sex because you're kinda young. The furthest thing I would go if I was you is maybe BJs or HJs

[Bull]

So recently I've been talking to a 17-year old boy and I'm only 14. He wants to ( and I as well) want to make sexual advances. I need some advice and experience stories because I want to bottom and top. Please help.

I see red flags here. How well do you know this guy? Do you have a face to face relationship? I am concerned if you are just talking/texting and not getting to know each other personally. Take it slow and easy and build a true friendship first. Three years is not a big age difference, but be cautious. Start hanging out together, go to movies, play video games, go bowling, just stuff that friends do and then let sex play become a natural expression of that friendship. Don't be in a rush to have intercourse. Don't be used as a sex toy.

[Failed Algebra]

Oh come on! If this isn't a troll and you are serious...then stop. You're too young, and it's creepy that some 17 year old wants to mess around with a 14 y.o. if this is serious, you are making a mistake, and he is too.

I'm not a prude but this just makes no sense.

[Wylex]

If you need to ask you're not ready. You've given very little detail, so it's hard not assume some things, and a lot of people here are asking how much you guys know about eachother etc. Honestly I would say don't do it, the age gap is a little concerning, at this age anyway, the difference between 14 a and 17 is huge, and in some places, not even legal, where age of consent is 16.

If you do decide to do it, look up safe practices, protection, lube, what goes good with what (i.e. don't use oil as lube with latex condoms...) Just remember, just because you want to do something doesn't mean you should always do it, use the head on your shoulders to think first.