Brother masturbating me

[angelchild]

I'm not sure if this should go here but feel free to move it if necessary.

So sometime in the middle of the night I woke up to Cole masturbating me. I wasn't sure how to react to this. I couldn't decide if I should like catch him doing it or just let him continue so he wouldn't know that i know he was doing this. If I let him continue what do i do when I cum. But if I actually wake up and catch him what would that do to him mentally. I decided to let him keep going while I decided to figure out what to do about cumming. When I got close to cumming I figured I would try moving a little bit to see if that would stop him, which it did. I guess after that he went back to sleep or something.

So I can't decide whether to confront him about this or not. I guess he might be starting to hit the age of puberty and it had something to do with curiosity or something. But I'm worried that if I confront him about this that he will be embarrassed about it.

So what do you guys think? Do I just act like it never happened or do I talk to him about it? If I talk to him, how do I do it so I don't embarrass him?

[Abhorrence]

Oh damn, this is a.... Awkward situation. I would uhh leave it personally, but if he does anything like that again then make sure you tell him. I mean it'd probably be a good thing to confront him now but idk lmao

[Vermilion]

I'm not sure if this should go here but feel free to move it if necessary.

So sometime in the middle of the night I woke up to Cole masturbating me. I wasn't sure how to react to this. I couldn't decide if I should like catch him doing it or just let him continue so he wouldn't know that i know he was doing this. If I let him continue what do i do when I cum. But if I actually wake up and catch him what would that do to him mentally. I decided to let him keep going while I decided to figure out what to do about cumming. When I got close to cumming I figured I would try moving a little bit to see if that would stop him, which it did. I guess after that he went back to sleep or something.

So I can't decide whether to confront him about this or not. I guess he might be starting to hit the age of puberty and it had something to do with curiosity or something. But I'm worried that if I confront him about this that he will be embarrassed about it.

So what do you guys think? Do I just act like it never happened or do I talk to him about it? If I talk to him, how do I do it so I don't embarrass him?

How old is he ?

[Snydergate]

Oh damn, this is a.... Awkward situation. I would uhh leave it personally, but if he does anything like that again then make sure you tell him. I mean it'd probably be a good thing to confront him now but idk lmao

Yeah I agree, leave it be for now, but if it continues...say something

[colesixteen]

My brother and I do things together, as do alot of brothers, so I think it is alright if both brothers want to do it. So if you like it, just let him do it. If you don't, I think your technique of moving away while pretending to sleep is enough to get him to stop without making a big deal out of it. If you like it and let him do it, I would continue to pretend being asleep. It may be part of a fantasy thing for him.

I had a similar situation with a cousin of mine. I was sleeping over at his house, and he was playing with me in my sleep. I just let him and pretended to be asleep. I really enjoyed it, and so did he obviously. Eventually we talked about it, but after I let him do it to me several times in my (pretend) sleep.

[ashdaniel]

Well, I know you feel kind of awkward but I think you should talk to your brother. Don't go straight forward. Just have a bro talk. Start about topic like puberty or masturbation and see how it goes. It all up to you. If you comfortable of what happen just let it happen if not just talk to your brother. After all you two are brother. If you two are close, just wake up and talk to him. He may be scare but tell him it okay. Or just pull him into your bed and sleep together so it won't get embarrassed and you brother know he is not in trouble.

[pjones]

if you don't want him doing it you will have to say something. maybe say to him you know what he was doing, you won't get him in trouble for it, but you don't want it happen again.

[Kylang4u]

Do it with him be a good bro

[squares]

Do it with him be a good bro

My brother and I do things together, as do alot of brothers

the f**k is up with you guys and incest? I'd just do like the others said and leave it be, but if he tries it again I'd wake up and call him out on it.

[angelchild]

How old is he ?

He turns 11 this month.

Thanks everybody for the replies. I'm kind of embarrassed to say this, but I actually kind of liked it. I don't think this is incest. I mean, isn't incest actually having sex? And even though I liked it, I'm still thinking that maybe I should talk to him about it, I'm just trying to figure out how to approach him about it I guess. I mean if he does it again, I'm thinking of letting him take me all the way to orgasm and I'm not really sure how he will react to me cumming. And maybe I shouldn't say anything and just let it happen next time (if there is a next time) and then talk to him about it after. Idk I'm not sure

[ashdaniel]

He turns 11 this month.

Thanks everybody for the replies. I'm kind of embarrassed to say this, but I actually kind of liked it. I don't think this is incest. I mean, isn't incest actually having sex? And even though I liked it, I'm still thinking that maybe I should talk to him about it, I'm just trying to figure out how to approach him about it I guess. I mean if he does it again, I'm thinking of letting him take me all the way to orgasm and I'm not really sure how he will react to me cumming. And maybe I shouldn't say anything and just let it happen next time (if there is a next time) and then talk to him about it after. Idk I'm not sure

Well, the guy above use pretty offensive language. Experiencing among brothers is normal. If you comfirtable with it just do it. Your brother going through allot and you are his only brother. It is normal for you to teach him.

[Just JT]

AI agree with Wayne, on every level, completely normal, don't have any siblings myself, but many of my friends do, and the older will often share his bed with his little, not on a regular sleeping arrangement, but kinda like a bonding thing.
Brothers teaching you here, also common, had a friends older teach me about it myself when I caught them goin at it one time
All I can add on is about your comfort level on the topic and talkin to him
I'd bring it up, but at the right time, maybe next time, if it happens again
If your job comfortable with it, then cool, but that's a very important piece here
Both u guys need to be ok with it, and both you guys need to know that, cause if cole does not know this, he's guna think its ok to do with other guys to, and that could make problems, and be considered sexual assault or rape in some areas

[Soldier212]

I say confront him. tell him that it is normal for boys to be curious about each other, and tell him if he has any questions to ask. try to be open minded.

[Hermes]

He turns 11 this month.
...
I mean if he does it again, I'm thinking of letting him take me all the way to orgasm and I'm not really sure how he will react to me cumming. And maybe I shouldn't say anything and just let it happen next time (if there is a next time) and then talk to him about it after. Idk I'm not sure

We don't know your brother so no-one can be sure but given his age. If he was masturbating you well enough to get you close to orgasm, my guess is he has discovered masturbation, can't ejaculate himself (though he may have had dry orgasms), has heard about ejaculation and decided that making you cum would be a good way to see it for himself before he reaches that point in his own development.

If I'm right, and you do let him take you all the way, his reaction is likely to be "cool, so that's what it's like", certainly not distress. If he does seem shocked you can always "wake up" at that moment.

...Thanks everybody for the replies. I'm kind of embarrassed to say this, but I actually kind of liked it. I don't think this is incest. I mean, isn't incest actually having sex?...

Certainly I believe the whole incest thing is about preventing girls having babies for which the father is so closely related because that little DNS diversity is not good and the risk of birth defects increases. No baby will result from you brother masturbating you so you don't really need to worry about that bit.

That leaves whether you enjoy it. If you do then I'd say that's fine - it doesn't matter if someone else would have, or would not have enjoyed the same thing happenning to them as it's not them in this situation, it's you and it's how you feel that counts. If you don't enjoy it then obviously you need to make it stop whether you do that by always seeming to wake up or by talking to him and saying that one should ask first before doing that to someone.

[FameMonster]

I would talk to your brother whether you enjoy it or not. He's probably just at the onset of puberty and is curious. Approach the subject with him brother to brother. Not sure how open you are with him, but maybe start off by explaining puberty and offering to answer any questions he has. Good luck.

[angelchild]

I'm going to wait and see what happens tonight. If he does it again then I'll let him take me to orgasm and then we'll talk about it right after it happens and if he doesn't them I'll approach him about it tomorrow. We have a great relationship and I want him to know that if he wants to experiment like this then I'm all for it and if he wants me to masturbate him then I'll do that to. Idk this might be a fun experience for both of us

[Yolodolo]

I'm going to wait and see what happens tonight. If he does it again then I'll let him take me to orgasm and then we'll talk about it right after it happens and if he doesn't them I'll approach him about it tomorrow. We have a great relationship and I want him to know that if he wants to experiment like this then I'm all for it and if he wants me to masturbate him then I'll do that to. Idk this might be a fun experience for both of us

Can't tell if you're trolling or not lol

[angelchild]

Can't tell if you're trolling or not lol

I'm not trolling you guys. But you can think what you want. If you don't believe me that's your choice

[Just JT]

The Mexican standoff!!!!

gotchyo back bro :):)

[pconnor2001]

I don't think this is a good idea of letting this go on without your consent. And ya can't say yes if you haven't been asked and are also supposed to be "asleep".

So yes for sure you should stop this and talk ta him. If you decide to continue then you are part of the decision.

[Just JT]

Hey Chris, been on this ride the whole trip right? So hear me out...
What you do weather it with your bro or not or what ever ok, that's you, were all ok with that, we got it pretty common, bonding whatever right?

Consider the overall health ov everything goin on in ur life ok?
Not judging man, just sayin.....
How much, how far, how comiplicated u wana go?
Ur talkin bout ur younger bro jerkin u off while u sleep man!!

Do the rite thing here, ok?
It's not a magazine ad

[Just JT]

I agree, the idea is mutual consent here
Cole,is young, you are kinda his mentor now
If you let him continue, without him knowing he has your approval, he's guna think everyone's ok with this shit, and think where that's guna end up with his next sleep over when the kid may not want it...

[angelchild]

I don't think this is a good idea of letting this go on without your consent. And ya can't say yes if you haven't been asked and are also supposed to be "asleep".

So yes for sure you should stop this and talk ta him. If you decide to continue then you are part of the decision.

I agree, the idea is mutual consent here
Cole,is young, you are kinda his mentor now
If you let him continue, without him knowing he has your approval, he's guna think everyone's ok with this shit, and think where that's guna end up with his next sleep over when the kid may not want it...

Ok thinking about it more I think you guys are right. I'll talk about it with him when we go to bed in a few minutes. I'll make sure he's aware that this is something that he can only do if he has permission from the other person and that he should never do it with an adult for any reason until he is 18. But if he wants to do while I'm asleep for whatever reason, at least he has my permission to do it

[GoGoDiego]

Have a private talk with your bro. Assuming that you were the first person being touched, do talk to him about it. Tell him it is not okay to just grab the dick of another person without consent.

[Reg_]

I would talk to him about it. don't know what i'd say or do but i'd talk to him about it

[dunbar07]

Do it with him, teach him how to do it the right way

[SethfromMI]

I don't think this is a good idea of letting this go on without your consent. And ya can't say yes if you haven't been asked and are also supposed to be "asleep".

So yes for sure you should stop this and talk ta him. If you decide to continue then you are part of the decision.

this. your brother could try doing this to someone down the road and get into some serious trouble. talk to him about it

[The37thElement]

I've never experienced this as I do not have siblings, but it is a natural thing to enjoy. Whether or not you want this to continue is up to you, but I would imagine that confronting him (especially because of his young age) might be a difficult thing to do.

[jelly3000]

It's probably a bit too late now - but speaking to him after you climaxed about consent would have probably got through to him the most - that is if that's something you wanted to do of course....

Also I'm sure people would appreciate if you let us know how things went in general terms...

[jockeyboy97]

Hi Chris, after reading your post here I decided to read all your posts about you and your brother Cole. First I need to tell you that your an awesome big brother (no bull shit) for how you have been trying to help Cole. I also have a younger brother, who I have a good relation with and I'm always there to protect him. Everyone has given you some good advice. As for Cole masturbating you, definitely have a talk with him and explain to him that something like masturbating is personal and private and is only done alone or with someones consent. It concerns me that this was done to Cole or he was shown how to masturbate perhaps by your Dad or another adult. You may have to go back to the basics that we all were taught as little kids about bad touch and good touches with Cole. How he needs to respect his body and respect the other persons body. Please consider speaking to him about how he was masturbating you while you were asleep. Have a casual conversation with him and explain to him that masturabation is natural, healthy and ok but that it isnt right to do it to someone without their consent. Again Chris your an awesome big bro and you have a lot on your plate and me along with others here on VT are here for you. A big guy hug to you and Cole. :yeah:

[Just JT]

I agree with tony and pretty much everything g else that was offered for advice bro...
You are an awesome big brother, one of love to have if I coulda had one
You are doing all the right surf a big does for and with his little
Expain stuff, do things, protect him, love him, etc
But you need to do the right thing here and talk to him
The actual act of masturbating, or masturbating someone else if cool, but everyone need to be ok with it, and know that's it's ok.
Real important here, by not having a discussion, could do far more damage than good

[angelchild]

Hi Chris, after reading your post here I decided to read all your posts about you and your brother Cole. First I need to tell you that your an awesome big brother (no bull shit) for how you have been trying to help Cole. I also have a younger brother, who I have a good relation with and I'm always there to protect him. Everyone has given you some good advice. As for Cole masturbating you, definitely have a talk with him and explain to him that something like masturbating is personal and private and is only done alone or with someones consent. It concerns me that this was done to Cole or he was shown how to masturbate perhaps by your Dad or another adult. You may have to go back to the basics that we all were taught as little kids about bad touch and good touches with Cole. How he needs to respect his body and respect the other persons body. Please consider speaking to him about how he was masturbating you while you were asleep. Have a casual conversation with him and explain to him that masturabation is natural, healthy and ok but that it isnt right to do it to someone without their consent. Again Chris your an awesome big bro and you have a lot on your plate and me along with others here on VT are here for you. A big guy hug to you and Cole. :yeah:

Thanks for the kind words. It really means a lot to me having your support as well as everybody else's. I talked to him last night before bed about it and it ended up turning into what I guess was the talk, but I'm not really sure if I did it right since I never got it myself. But I've made it VERY clear that he never touches anybody in their private areas unless he receives permission from them. I seemed to get through to him though. He payed attention to me the entire time and asked me a lot of questions so I consider that a job well done. And after he still wanted to masturbate me which I let him do and I think he felt a lot better about it having my permission to do it

[Straya]

I'm not trolling you guys. But you can think what you want. If you don't believe me that's your choice

if it happens again youll definatly need to talk to him about it but apart from that when and how you apraoch him about it is up to you

[Mark2000]

Bro it's normal, if you were identical twins it would just be n I real for some twins.


By the way, what's Trolling?

[brightlight]

Bro it's normal, if you were identical twins it would just be n I real for some twins.


By the way, what's Trolling?

Basically messing with people online screwing around making up stuff

[Jaffe]

I dont think there is anything wrong with brothers doing stuff together. I taught my little bro to jerk off, my older cousin taught me. The only issue might be that he thinks you are asleep so he thinks he is getting away with something. Maybe thats not even an issue. Letting him jerk you to orgasm might be a good idea, just to see his reaction. If he reacts like he was just experimenting and wanted to see it, and you think its a healthy reaction, then 'wake up' and thank him. But he does need to understand its not right to take advantage of someone when they don't agree to it... like when you are sleeping. Experimenting is good, if you both are into it but he's not talking to you first, he's just doing it, and that might not be a good thing.

[Mark2000]

Jaffed is 100% correct on this , it's happened to me but I was receiver

[angelchild]

I dont think there is anything wrong with brothers doing stuff together. I taught my little bro to jerk off, my older cousin taught me. The only issue might be that he thinks you are asleep so he thinks he is getting away with something. Maybe thats not even an issue. Letting him jerk you to orgasm might be a good idea, just to see his reaction. If he reacts like he was just experimenting and wanted to see it, and you think its a healthy reaction, then 'wake up' and thank him. But he does need to understand its not right to take advantage of someone when they don't agree to it... like when you are sleeping. Experimenting is good, if you both are into it but he's not talking to you first, he's just doing it, and that might not be a good thing.

Well I already told him before you posted this but it was kind of funny to see his reaction when I cummed since I don't think he's ever seen it before but I think it was a good learning experience for him

[vboy]

Well I already told him before you posted this but it was kind of funny to see his reaction when I cummed since I don't think he's ever seen it before but I think it was a good learning experience for him

Ive just read everything
You are an amazing brother and you have done well to keep him right so far.
I only wish I hadan older bro to tell me about tht stuff instead of the aquard convorsation wi ma folks and watching porn
It could also be anidea to refer him on to vt

[Just JT]

Well, seems like you took a lota real good advice Hera and did the right thing bro...
Proud of ya man, that's cool, ur bein a good big bro, teaching, and everything is cool....
That's great man... Really is :):)

[angelchild]

Ive just read everything
You are an amazing brother and you have done well to keep him right so far.
I only wish I hadan older bro to tell me about tht stuff instead of the aquard convorsation wi ma folks and watching porn
It could also be anidea to refer him on to vt

Thanks for the kind words. He cant join since he's under 13, plus I kind of want to keep him off the internet for a few more years. I just want him to be safe if that makes sense

Well, seems like you took a lota real good advice Hera and did the right thing bro...
Proud of ya man, that's cool, ur bein a good big bro, teaching, and everything is cool....
That's great man... Really is :):)

Thanks. That really means a lot

[vboy]

Thanks for the kind words. He cant join since he's under 13, plus I kind of want to keep him off the internet for a few more years. I just want him to be safe if that makes sense



Thanks. That really means a lot

again being a good brother

That is understandable tho I dont doubt this site Is safe there are still alot of wierdos out there

[angelchild]

again being a good brother

That is understandable tho I dont doubt this site Is safe there are still alot of wierdos out there

Yeah probably not but I just don't really want him on the internet period

[jelly3000]

Well it seems as though it was a happy ending for all (pun intended). It also seems that we have a winner for 'best big brother of the month award'....

[Just JT]

Yuuuuuup!!!!
Think he deserves a sticky someplace!!!
The kid who taught his lil bro ta Jo on vt!!!

Yup, that's wasome!!!����

Good answer bro, look at what ur doin, he's just to young...
Couple years, bring'm round and intro him tho...

Posts merged. Next time, please use the "Edit" button. ~Elysium

[angelchild]

Thanks guys :) You are all awesome

[kblake]

if you feel uncomfortable you should talk to him

[Reg_]

dang it chris stop making me want to replace my sis with a brother

[angelchild]

So Cole has been cracking me up. He is like totally fascinated with cum. Well I mean like how it comes out of the body and how the body shoots it out, what it feels like, you guys all know what I mean without having to go into a lot of detail about it. I've been trying my best to answer the questions he's had but I think I need your opinion on something again. I let him masturbate me a couple of times today because of everything I've just said but this last time he wanted to taste it but I didn't let him. I don't really have a problem with it and he obviously would just be tasting it off his hands because it's already on them anyways but I'm just worried it might be going to far. Really I think the only reason he wants to its just because of his curiosity. So I guess I'm just wondering if I'm ok with it and he's ok with it, is it ok for him to taste it

[jelly3000]

Its probably not such a good idea as this is one of the ways stds are shared. Just let him know that as your trying to set a good example for when he is older. Im aware that you have nothing but its best to set the best example

[Reg_]

I don't think you should let him taste you 'produce' even if he is curious

[Hermes]

...I let him masturbate me a couple of times today because of everything I've just said but this last time he wanted to taste [my cum] but I didn't let him. I don't really have a problem with it and he obviously would just be tasting it off his hands because it's already on them anyways but I'm just worried it might be going to far...

I can't see a problem with him tasting it, if that's what he wants. Now you're talking, though, this would be another opportunity to educate him. You can explain about STIs and that it is fine for him to taste yours because you haven't done anything where you could pick up an STI (assuming that's true, of course) and that he can taste his own when he starts producing it, but he shouldn't taste it from some random stranger.

[Just JT]

I don't think that's a good idea myself, I mean in general it's probably cool, and a lot of guys go even further and do oral on each other even when they r straight. It's a curiosity thing...
But I'd take this n teach him about some dangers of sex, sti's std, how to protect urself, in a way he can understand it, not complicated n shit.

Remember, uve had sex with others, u don't really know, yeah u were safe, but nothins 100%

[ashdaniel]

So Cole has been cracking me up. He is like totally fascinated with cum. Well I mean like how it comes out of the body and how the body shoots it out, what it feels like, you guys all know what I mean without having to go into a lot of detail about it. I've been trying my best to answer the questions he's had but I think I need your opinion on something again. I let him masturbate me a couple of times today because of everything I've just said but this last time he wanted to taste it but I didn't let him. I don't really have a problem with it and he obviously would just be tasting it off his hands because it's already on them anyways but I'm just worried it might be going to far. Really I think the only reason he wants to its just because of his curiosity. So I guess I'm just wondering if I'm ok with it and he's ok with it, is it ok for him to taste it

Well, I see allot have happen. It is back to the question. Are you comfortable with it. If yes, that okay but it is important for you to teach your brother what is appropriate between you two and other people. I believe it is rather safe for your brother to find out his curiousity on you instead of stranger or other people. You have to teach your brother about safety. Anything else, it is just special bond between the brother. Hope I answer your question. Take care

[Jaffe]

I can't see a problem with him tasting it, if that's what he wants. Now you're talking, though, this would be another opportunity to educate him. You can explain about STIs and that it is fine for him to taste yours because you haven't done anything where you could pick up an STI (assuming that's true, of course) and that he can taste his own when he starts producing it, but he shouldn't taste it from some random stranger.

This^^. The chances of getting an STI from swallowing cum is minimal unless he has open sores in his mouth. But it is a good teaching moment so to speak.

One issue I see is that is this all one-sided? Is he repeating something he had to do in the past? Do you know his motivation, and is it really just curiosity? Does he masturbate himself too, or is he just curious about older guys?

I don't think you have crossed any lines, if there even are any lines. Just curious about his motives and if it has to do more with the past than the present.

[angelchild]

This^^. The chances of getting an STI from swallowing cum is minimal unless he has open sores in his mouth. But it is a good teaching moment so to speak.

One issue I see is that is this all one-sided? Is he repeating something he had to do in the past? Do you know his motivation, and is it really just curiosity? Does he masturbate himself too, or is he just curious about older guys?

I don't think you have crossed any lines, if there even are any lines. Just curious about his motives and if it has to do more with the past than the present.

It isn't all one sided. The last time he had me masturbate him at the same time and the time before that he masturbated himself while masturbating me. And as far as I'm aware dad never had Cole masturbate him. It was more that Cole was on the receiving end of things.

But I think I'm going to let him taste it next time. And obviously I'm going to do my best to teach him how to be safe and stuff like that but I really think it's just innocent curiosity.

[Abhorrence]

Why is this even happening? This isn't a part of puberty? I'm pretty sure I've gone through most if not all of puberty and I've never had a feeling to wank my brother. This is fricking wrong and you should stop it immediately, sexual relations between siblings is incest and I mean I don't know laws too well but this isn't game of thrones and I'm pretty sure it's illegal. Plus for fucks sake the kid is ten you said? So not only are you allowing a child to do this, he's also your brother. Have a quick think about that.

[Reg_]

Why is this even happening? This isn't a part of puberty? zI'm pretty sure I've gone through most if not all of puberty and I've never had a feeling to wank my brother. This is fricking wrong and you should stop it immediately, sexual relations between siblings is incest and I mean I don't know laws too well but this isn't game of thrones and I'm pretty sure it's illegal. Plus for fucks sake the kid is ten you said? So not only are you allowing a child to do this, he's also your brother. Have a quick think about that.

have you read Chris' (angelchild) other thread of what happened to his brother?

[Abhorrence]

have you read Chris' (angelchild) other thread of what happened to his brother?
Nope. But whatever it was it doesn't excuse this behaviour I don't think. This original thread was an issue that his brother was touching him in his sleep and then suddenly he likes it and is using it as a way to teach him about sex? No. That's not how it works.

[Reg_]

Nope. But whatever it was it doesn't excuse this behaviour I don't think. This original thread was an issue that his brother was touching him in his sleep and then suddenly he likes it and is using it as a way to teach him about sex? No. That's not how it works.

if you read it you might understand tho. also you dont know what Cole has been thru

[Abhorrence]

if you read it you might understand tho. also stop telling ppl whats right and whats wrong
So you're saying that incest is right? I think I'm allowed to have my own opinion, thanks.

[Reg_]

So you're saying that incest is right? I think I'm allowed to have my own opinion, thanks.

i never said incest was right. i said go read the other thread

[Just JT]

I'm not guna say everything in this thread is 100% right myself, I personally take some issues with some stuff, but looking at from the perspective that cole has been through a lot, and some readers may not be aware of that, as well as that is pretty clear that experimentation among brothers seems common, or at least considerd "ok" by most responders here, think we all needa take a step back, and think bout this shit before we all get all oissed off here

Just sayin, there is good and bad on both sides, and personally, I see a little more good, than the potential bad happening here...

[vboy]

It isn't all one sided. The last time he had me masturbate him at the same time and the time before that he masturbated himself while masturbating me. And as far as I'm aware dad never had Cole masturbate him. It was more that Cole was on the receiving end of things.

But I think I'm going to let him taste it next time. And obviously I'm going to do my best to teach him how to be safe and stuff like that but I really think it's just innocent curiosity.

Let him taste it if he wants 2
Juat b careful not to take it too far

[angelchild]

Thanks for everybody's replies. I asked for people's opinions/advice expecting to get some from both people for and against me doing this with Cole. I'm sorry if you don't agree with the choices me and Cole make. I've read every reply I got and have taken them into consideration when I've made all my decisions on what I've done with Cole. If you are against what me and Cole have been doing, I respect your choice to be but all I ask in return is that you can respect our choice as well


Let him taste it if he wants 2
Juat b careful not to take it too far

I'm going to let him in a few minutes when we masturbate again

[Just JT]

You could at least respect his privacy some huh?

[vboy]

Thanks for everybody's replies. I asked for people's opinions/advice expecting to get some from both people for and against me doing this with Cole. I'm sorry if you don't agree with the choices me and Cole make. I've read every reply I got and have taken them into consideration when I've made all my decisions on what I've done with Cole. If you are against what me and Cole have been doing, I respect your choice to be but all I ask in return is that you can respect our choice as well




I'm going to let him in a few minutes when we masturbate again

Ok then

These are your choices to make and your lifes to live
But remember that this is a very tricky situation that coukd get u into a lot of trouble

[Reg_]

Thanks for everybody's replies. I asked for people's opinions/advice expecting to get some from both people for and against me doing this with Cole. I'm sorry if you don't agree with the choices me and Cole make. I've read every reply I got and have taken them into consideration when I've made all my decisions on what I've done with Cole. If you are against what me and Cole have been doing, I respect your choice to be but all I ask in return is that you can respect our choice as well




I'm going to let him in a few minutes when we masturbate again

geez how many times do you guys do it a day

[angelchild]

Ok then

These are your choices to make and your lifes to live
But remember that this is a very tricky situation that coukd get u into a lot of trouble

I know. I've pretty much drawn the line where we're at now and I've tried to make it as clear as possible that this isn't something you just do with anybody and both people need to be 100% willing to do it. I've also told him that this is our secret and he can't tell other family or friends about it

geez how many times do you guys do it a day

Only 2 times today

Oh and he didn't like the way it tasted at all. It was pretty funny to see his face though when he tasted it

[jssixna]

He is still 10. If you keep letting him do this to you even if it's mutual, that's sick.

[jelly3000]

One thing to keep in mind is anonymity for both you and your brother. Whatever you write on here stays on here. When I write a comment, I make sure that either I am happy with what I am writing or making sure that I am anonymous.

As such - it's ok to talk about what you do but I think it's a good idea not to use your brothers real name (if it is Cole - I don't know). The only reason I say this is it's reasonably easy to pinpoint who you are if you are brothers with the same names and same ages.

In general - I talk freely about what I think and do on the internet but never state other peoples names directly as I have the right to say what I am doing but do I have the right to say what other people are doing

Sorry - just adding my opinion

[Sam-9876]

Guys, can we have a reality check here?

You're having a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP with a 10 year old boy, and telling him to keep it a secret and not tell anyone???!!!??? WTF???

Isn't that exactly the same as when your Dad abused him?

You might think you're doing it for the right reasons, but in the long run you're going to make things worse for him and get yourself into serious trouble.

Let him experiment with friends his own age when he's a bit older - but keep yourself out of it!

[vboy]

Guys, can we have a reality check here?

You're having a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP with a 10 year old boy, and telling him to keep it a secret and not tell anyone???!!!??? WTF???

Isn't that exactly the same as when your Dad abused him?

You might think you're doing it for the right reasons, but in the long run you're going to make things worse for him and get yourself into serious trouble.

Let him experiment with friends his own age when he's a bit older - but keep yourself out of it!

Actually ive just read up on it and u have a point

He could b facing some sereous charges if he is caught and it is illegal for a reason after all

Not that oim judgeing but mabey he should start to back off

Its totally his choice tho
Im just giving my advice

[JavierDolan]

Well, my brother and I do things from time to time (nothing serious), and we both enjoy it, but I think the key is that we both enjoy it. You are clearly not comfortable with him doing, so maybe you should just bring it up with and maybe he'll talk about it with you.

[Just JT]

I think it's guna depend on how far they go with each other right?
Simple innocent exploring that all boys do is one thing
Once there is physical contact, it can become more confusing I think, even when both agree to what's happening
I've been saying things like do the right thing here, etc.
now it's their choice, hoping I'd does not go to far, or stays with age appropriate exoring kinda stuff
Personally, I don't think eating each other's cum or doing oral sex is wrong, but between brothers?? There is a line that's guna get crossed

[Abhorrence]

Guys, can we have a reality check here?

You're having a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP with a 10 year old boy, and telling him to keep it a secret and not tell anyone???!!!??? WTF???

Isn't that exactly the same as when your Dad abused him?

You might think you're doing it for the right reasons, but in the long run you're going to make things worse for him and get yourself into serious trouble.

Let him experiment with friends his own age when he's a bit older - but keep yourself out of it!
Exactly this. It's a good thing someone seems to be able to see what the hell this is.

[Henri-K]

He turns 11 this month.

Thanks everybody for the replies. I'm kind of embarrassed to say this, but I actually kind of liked it. I don't think this is incest. I mean, isn't incest actually having sex? And even though I liked it, I'm still thinking that maybe I should talk to him about it, I'm just trying to figure out how to approach him about it I guess. I mean if he does it again, I'm thinking of letting him take me all the way to orgasm and I'm not really sure how he will react to me cumming. And maybe I shouldn't say anything and just let it happen next time (if there is a next time) and then talk to him about it after. Idk I'm not sure

I think it's alright to experience with your brother. It's normal to be curious. Don't be too hard on him.

[mrsarett]

Incest is only taboo because it can result in awful diseases and disorders for offspring created out of incest. Homosexual sex will never lead to procreation, so technically, its not wrong.

[Just JT]

Incest is only taboo because it can result in awful diseases and disorders for offspring created out of incest. Homosexual sex will never lead to procreation, so technically, its not wrong.

And from the USA even!!!

[paletanner]

I'm not sure if this should go here but feel free to move it if necessary.

So sometime in the middle of the night I woke up to Cole masturbating me. I wasn't sure how to react to this. I couldn't decide if I should like catch him doing it or just let him continue so he wouldn't know that i know he was doing this. If I let him continue what do i do when I cum. But if I actually wake up and catch him what would that do to him mentally. I decided to let him keep going while I decided to figure out what to do about cumming. When I got close to cumming I figured I would try moving a little bit to see if that would stop him, which it did. I guess after that he went back to sleep or something.

So I can't decide whether to confront him about this or not. I guess he might be starting to hit the age of puberty and it had something to do with curiosity or something. But I'm worried that if I confront him about this that he will be embarrassed about it.

So what do you guys think? Do I just act like it never happened or do I talk to him about it? If I talk to him, how do I do it so I don't embarrass him?

things happen between brothers that stays between brothers. you have to ask yourself if this is ok with you. if it isn't you have to talk to your brother. if you love your brother then tell him that too so he knows you don't hate him. if you're ok with this, then well what happens between brothers stays between brothers. i wonder if he really understands what he's doing. or if something happened to him that you don't even know about. it's worth talking to him about it.

tell him you love him no matter what, but this is what you know is going on, and this is what you think about it. ask him if he knows why he's doing it, or what that action means. brother hugs are a good idea too. :)

edit: ok wow i didn't read the rest of this!! NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!! he's 10? he was sexually abused by your dad? wtf!?!?!?!?!?! i don't care if you think i'm judging, it's still WRONG!!!! PLEASE don't do this! PLEASE talk to him and both of you need to STOP!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!

[Arsnic]

He turns 11 this month.

Thanks everybody for the replies. I'm kind of embarrassed to say this, but I actually kind of liked it. I don't think this is incest. I mean, isn't incest actually having sex? And even though I liked it, I'm still thinking that maybe I should talk to him about it, I'm just trying to figure out how to approach him about it I guess. I mean if he does it again, I'm thinking of letting him take me all the way to orgasm and I'm not really sure how he will react to me cumming. And maybe I shouldn't say anything and just let it happen next time (if there is a next time) and then talk to him about it after. Idk I'm not sure

Well, I'm 14 as well, maybe I could give some insight?
I would say that it isn't really harmful, I am guessing he's just curious, right?
I suppose any stimulation of the penis would probably cause pleasure, no matter how awkward the scenario, so I wouldn't be embarrassed.

[rioo]

If I were you, I'm better teach him to play soccer or how to approaching girl than doing "mutual" masturbation twice a day. This is a stupid idea . You should build his mentality and not use him for your benefit.
I was also 11 when I'm sleepover with my older cousin, I'm asking sexual things and he don't tell me but later he show me a text to learn the right thing about it.

[Bluebyrd]

He probably doesn't know what it is so I'd just 'catch him doing it' and explain what it is

[Mastretta]

This is sick, a 10 year old can not proper give consent to anyone. What you were doing was feeding into his curiosity but now you're just honestly doing it for you're pleasure.

[KingExplosionMurder]

I'd say speak to him and see what's up. Who knows maybe he'll stop if you want him too or not

[Babs]

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