not sure what to do.

[otaku1998]

So, everyone I hang around know I'm bi at this point....

So here is my problem.... I really like one of my friends a lot... every time I'm around him, or its just the two of us I get nervous.... I sometimes even freeze up, and find myself unable to talk. Last time I was at the store , he came up to me and started talking it was just the two of us... and I completely froze for a few second... I'm not sure what to do, or how to tell him how I feel. :(

Hope I post this in the right place.

[Sports Boy]

A guy having a crush on a friend is really a sticky situation. But the bottom line is you don't want to put pressure on your friend to like you as much as you like him, especially when you're probably not sure of his sexuality. So if you want to tell him how you feel, I'd like to know what you are expecting to happen from that admission?
You'd be better off getting some idea of his sexuality from him before you confess your feelings to him.

[Abhorrence]

It depends on how you believe he will react. Sometimes it's good to have everything out in the open but sometimes it's a bad idea if it will potentially ruin friendships or something. Just evaluate the situation the best you can and if you feel you should tell him then definitely do it in person, it's easier to see reactions this way and text just feels fake anyways. I know it's such a horrible situation when you like a friend. I think everyone has been there.

[Selestine]

That's a hard situation. First of all you have to consider his reaction about it. If you confess he might feel weird and well grow far away from you. He might feel awkward about it. For me, I think you should try to feel him. Like feel if he feels the same way for you. You confessing might ruin your relationship as friends. And I'm thinking you don't want that to happen. Everything's not gonna go out the way you plan so think everything through before acting. Make the decision after feeling him and thinking everything through. Remember, your relationship with him is on the line. :)

[otaku1998]

D: that's what I'm worried about, I have no idea how he might react... and I don't want to lose a friend. :( so not really sure how to handle it.

[Jaffe]

To me a friend is wayyy more important than a relationship, so I wouldn't say anything unless I was 100% sure he was okay with it. I wouldn't take the chance on losing a friend. You'll probably crush on him forever, but you can live with that, at least you'd still get to be with him.

[DoodleSnap]

I think the first thing to do would be to try and drop some hints.
Maybe ask to hang out with him one on one more?
See how he reacts, and trust your gut.
Liking a friend is a difficult situation, but it can work out. It did for me.
Good luck.