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Syzygy
July 9th, 2015, 11:21 PM
Look at the video below, 3:25 in.

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This man has been rejected so much and by so many people he's gone completely insane. He's been mentally broken beyond repair. Even if by a stroke of luck he found a woman who can look past his height, he's already so far gone that his personality will repel her.

The dating world is a cruel joke to sub-average men. Thank god I was blessed with average height (5'11).

CosmicNoodle
July 10th, 2015, 03:54 AM
The chances are it wasn't his height that repealed people,

Remora
July 10th, 2015, 03:58 AM
He screamed at me. ;-;

ClaraWho
July 10th, 2015, 05:14 PM
Look at the video below, 3:25 in.

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This man has been rejected so much and by so many people he's gone completely insane. He's been mentally broken beyond repair. Even if by a stroke of luck he found a woman who can look past his height, he's already so far gone that his personality will repel her.

The dating world is a cruel joke to sub-average men. Thank god I was blessed with average height (5'11).

Lol your discription is ludicrous and it sounds like self-serving misattribution. How does he know it is his height? Does he mind read? Nonsense. And all the excuses about 'gone insane' 'broken beyond repair' 'so far gone his personality would repel her'.

Psychologically speaking none of that is true. Psychosis is the only definition of insane, which is sometimes irreversible. But he doesn't have psychosis (the inability to distinguish between reality and fantasy).

All he has is a lazy excuse for why he acts like a jerk to women, as a few have rejected him based on his personality.

I know a few 5ft 2 guys who are happily in relationships. It's all in his head.

Please don't fall for news stories trying to make shocking headlines!

~ Clara

Syzygy
July 10th, 2015, 10:57 PM
Lol your discription is ludicrous and it sounds like self-serving misattribution. How does he know it is his height? Does he mind read? Nonsense. And all the excuses about 'gone insane' 'broken beyond repair' 'so far gone his personality would repel her'.

Psychologically speaking none of that is true. Psychosis is the only definition of insane, which is sometimes irreversible. But he doesn't have psychosis (the inability to distinguish between reality and fantasy).

All he has is a lazy excuse for why he acts like a jerk to women, as a few have rejected him based on his personality.

I know a few 5ft 2 guys who are happily in relationships. It's all in his head.

Please don't fall for news stories trying to make shocking headlines!

~ Clara

Anecdotal evidence is completely useless, especially since we're talking online. My neighbor had a pet raccoon, therefor all raccoons must make great pets right? Also how do you know he acts like a jerk to women? He says he's polite and nice, too nice (i.e. a pushover).

Being short is the worst thing that can happen to a guy romantically speaking, and I can present evidence (Here's One: Don't click if you're short! (https://twitter.com/heightismxposed)) to prove this, wheras you can provide no evidence being short isn't a disadvantage (except for that useless anecdotal evidence),

StoppingTom
July 11th, 2015, 12:13 AM
Being short is the worst thing that can happen to a guy romantically speaking,

I'm like 99% sure there are much worse things

Selestine
July 11th, 2015, 01:50 AM
Everything is not about Height.

Uniquemind
July 11th, 2015, 03:31 AM
This guy is a completely flawed in how he sees romance and flirting.

He's treating getting in a relationship the same as shopping around logically for the best price on something.


He's got to live life for the sake of living life and to let go of all that built up anger and give up self-justifying his bad behavior about women.

He is also not understanding non-verbal communication very well, because that's like how 90% of meeting someone like a stranger works for dating.

He isn't ugly though.

But the way he talks about women being "his" and being virginally "pure" and "untouched" by another man is a huge turnoff to most women especially in modern society given that most people have already had sex with someone by age 16-18.

It's a massive turnoff because such language comes from an era where women were chattel property and that's a massive turnoff.

Truthfully if virginal purity is so important to him...he'd prob have to chase jailbait. He's gotta learn there are things in life that can't be controlled.

ClaraWho
July 11th, 2015, 05:10 AM
Anecdotal evidence is completely useless, especially since we're talking online. My neighbor had a pet raccoon, therefor all raccoons must make great pets right? Also how do you know he acts like a jerk to women? He says he's polite and nice, too nice (i.e. a pushover).

Being short is the worst thing that can happen to a guy romantically speaking, and I can present evidence (Here's One: Don't click if you're short! (https://twitter.com/heightismxposed)) to prove this, wheras you can provide no evidence being short isn't a disadvantage (except for that useless anecdotal evidence),

Sorry, I didn't know you were actually serious and weren't joking O.o.

Secondly, one creep saying he can't find love because of his height, IS ANECDOTAL EVIDENCE. Stop being hypocritical.

All my points are valid, still stand, and are agreed with by all other posters.

Have a good day,

~ Clara

Abhorrence
July 11th, 2015, 05:42 AM
There are obviously some girls or guys who do not date people of certain heights. That does not mean that this is strictly always true though, I've not watched this video because honestly I really can't be bothered but other posters have said that he seems to have a horrible attitude towards women and if that's the case then surely that must be the reason, not because of his height? Some men are just short, and some women are just tall. It doesn't deem them worthless to society and many people aren't shallow enough to choose height over a great personality, which from other users I've gathered that this dude does not have.

Uniquemind
July 11th, 2015, 12:41 PM
Even the dude in the video said his personality was the problem.


But he talks of his personality like it's this unchangeable thing he has no control over.

Personality can always be modified because part of it is how you are treating other people, it's perception.

Therapy might be required.

Also his calm manner of speaking suddenly spiking into yelling at the camera, that screams domestic abuse because it's a loss of personal control.

That freaks almost every girl out universally.

If vibes of this anger or him feeling entitled to a girl, are being emitted by him wherever he goes, no matter how polite he is trying to be on the outside via actions, a girl will sense this about him.

It will be that "ick this guy creeps me out or makes me uneasy" feeling a girl will get but won't rationally know why she gets that feeling when he tries to pick her up.


This is why he's failing.

DriveAlive
July 11th, 2015, 12:59 PM
Just some food for thought, only 3.9% of americans are 6'2" or over, while 30% of american CEOs are 6'2" or over. So I see it that there is a social bias in favor of tall people.

Jean Poutine
July 11th, 2015, 06:46 PM
Go on a dating site then check out the amount of women who specify in their profile "sub 6' guys need not apply" or something similar then come back to me about how being a midget isn't a huge disadvantage in romance. Plus, that's only those who are honest enough to write in black on white. I don't blame him at all for being so jaded.

Sure, there are a few midgets who are happy in relationships, but it is 100% fact that a midget will have to work much harder to overcome his height, not just in relationships, but in all walks of life (http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/Careers/02/02/cb.tall.people/). He'll have to offer much more in other areas than a tall guy just to receive the same thing. It's the same thing with ugly people. Physically inferior specimens, men and women, are shat upon at all levels of society. You'd have to be blind not to recognize that fact. We're all in arms over the gender pay gap. Generations of loudmouths, politicians, researchers and other people have ripped their shirts over it, and it's still going on, along with the 77/78 cents on the dollar misleading statistic, despite research pointing out that much of the gender pay gap is due to choice, and not overt discrimination (http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/a-yearly-reminder-that-the-gender-wage-gap-is-due-to-choice-not-discrimination/article/2563010). Where's the righteous indignation over the height pay gap? Isn't that something you have as much control over (ie. zero) as your sex? And if your height influences your pay, why wouldn't it influence your chances at a relationship, where it is a much more important criterion?

I don't know this guy, but I'm willing to bet that this impotent rage, this "creepiness" wasn't there at first. I'm willing to bet it comes from a lifetime of rejection and missed opportunities over something he had no control over, no matter what he did or did not do. He became incredibly bitter, and it's understandable. Yet you reject all the blame on him as if society and other people were 100% blameless. It's up to him to not be so mad and bad. Can you imagine the uproar if you said that to a black person? "No, racism doesn't exist, you're a shitty person that's just it. Even if it did, your lifetime of pointed rejection aimed at something you have no control over doesn't matter; you're bitter because you are an utter waste of a sub-human being and you don't deserve even a chance at what real humans take for granted, so don't be so shitty and maybe you'll have a chance." Why do we have to clean ourselves of every racial prejudice but it's just okay to fuck with the ugly and the midgets of this world? There aren't any "vertically-challenged diversity workshops" around, are there?

By washing your hands of his bitterness and refusing to accept the fact that dominant stereotypes have something to do with it, shouldn't you at least be consequent with yourselves and accept all the myriad of stereotypes about other groups as good as money and put the onus on them too? There aren't any women CEOs? Well golly gee, they just have to work twice as hard as men to get there! The onus is on them!

And okay, he wants a virgin, what of it? That's his choice. Are we going to shame him for that now? The more sexual partners you have had, the more chances are that you will be unhappy in marriage, especially if you're a woman. (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/21/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440.html)

Craving for constant novelty and fleeting but intense and exciting material pleasure over stability and the more stable sense of fulfillment it brings is a big part of why society is so ill at the moment. In more abstract terms, the celebration of individual rights and hedonism at any price over duty to your country, to your people, to your family and even to yourself. In fact, one can say it is what drives it, as people who are never satisfied obviously consume more, which drives our consumerist, forever expanding economy. Our society is a cancer that will not stop until all is ruined, all is consumed. I have a feeling this attitude towards material gain also extends to our relationships with other people and it is every bit as unhealthy in that sphere as it is in the consumer sphere.

Daily
July 11th, 2015, 09:54 PM
Eh "women" (More like little girls) who judge men by their physical appearance are nothing more than superficial hoes who have no intellect.

StoppingTom
July 11th, 2015, 09:59 PM
I think that judging whether you want to be a woman depends on the state of her vagina is just as ridiculous as a woman judging whether she wants to be with a guy based on his height, tbh.