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brightlight
July 9th, 2015, 03:34 PM
I have kissed a girl before on her lips and I felt nothing from it and I don't find girls attractive. My friend one time jokingly said to kiss his finger and make it better because he cut his finger from the day before and I went to jokingly kiss his finger but I ended up kissing his finger for real by accident and I felt something from it and got goose bumps. I don't ever see myself growing old with a guy but I find guys my age attractive.

Vermilion
July 9th, 2015, 04:00 PM
Well that's something to think about. You don't have to label yourself

Sports Boy
July 9th, 2015, 05:23 PM
While you don't have to figure that out today, you may want to keep an open mind about things. If you don't find girls attractive, and you don't see yourself growing old with a guy, the only option left is to be alone, which many people are happy with. But if you are attracted to guys, it may be worth exploring that some. It's possible that you could fall in love with a guy and change your mind. Being attracted to a guy your own age is a good thing because he'll be your age forever.

Stronger
July 10th, 2015, 10:47 AM
I'm not entirely sure what the difference is but it is something to keep in the back of your mind and yes you don't have to label yourself, I certainly don't like them.

Zachary G
July 10th, 2015, 02:21 PM
we are not in control of what/who we are attracted to, but the key is acceptance; though there is no need for labels, are you ready to accept yourself for who you are and what youre about? Its something to think about and to take into consideration, but know that its not going to be easy for you, but also know that you are not alone.

Hideous
July 10th, 2015, 02:23 PM
Wait, are you into fingers? I'm just kidding.

I agree with the users above, don't be so quick to label yourself. Follow what you think is right for you and makes you happy.

DoodleSnap
July 13th, 2015, 10:15 PM
While you don't have to figure that out today, you may want to keep an open mind about things. If you don't find girls attractive, and you don't see yourself growing old with a guy, the only option left is to be alone, which many people are happy with. But if you are attracted to guys, it may be worth exploring that some. It's possible that you could fall in love with a guy and change your mind. Being attracted to a guy your own age is a good thing because he'll be your age forever.
^^^Exactly this.
Sexuality is a confusing thing for everyone, so just keep your mind open and be honest to what you want.
Don't rush to label yourself now, let time and experience mature what you feel, and let yourself be attracted to whoever, regardless of label. Keep your mind open, and time will allow you to find out what your label is.
Good luck.