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george
April 14th, 2008, 10:14 PM
I know this isn't a very detailed question but, how do you know if your in love?
Sage
April 14th, 2008, 10:23 PM
You'll become obsessed with the person. Every few moments of the day you're without them you'll sit back, bored, and just think about being with them. You probably won't care so much about sex or making out as you will simply being in their presence, and when they're actually with you, you'll feel like you're on top of the world. You'll ask how they're day went not because you want to just make conversation, but because you actually care what's on their mind.
I'd go on but that's all I can put into words right now.
Gumleaf
April 14th, 2008, 10:33 PM
You'll become obsessed with the person. Every few moments of the day you're without them you'll sit back, bored, and just think about being with them. You probably won't care so much about sex or making out as you will simply being in their presence, and when they're actually with you, you'll feel like you're on top of the world. You'll ask how they're day went not because you want to just make conversation, but because you actually care what's on their mind.
I'd go on but that's all I can put into words right now.
that sums it up brilliantly and i know because i have felt that way before.
Sage
April 14th, 2008, 10:35 PM
Thank you, Stephen. I think I should also add that if there's a significant doubt in your gut, you're probably not in love. But even if you do possess that doubt- Just give the person some time, and decide again whether you love them or not later.
george
April 14th, 2008, 10:36 PM
You'll become obsessed with the person. Every few moments of the day you're without them you'll sit back, bored, and just think about being with them. You probably won't care so much about sex or making out as you will simply being in their presence, and when they're actually with you, you'll feel like you're on top of the world. You'll ask how they're day went not because you want to just make conversation, but because you actually care what's on their mind.
I'd go on but that's all I can put into words right now.
Well that seems like me.....but i can't be with that person :(
Sage
April 14th, 2008, 10:40 PM
Well that seems like me.....but i can't be with that person :(
Why not? Do you even know them?
george
April 14th, 2008, 10:41 PM
Why not? Do you even know them?
Yeah but its a very very long story :(
The Batman
April 14th, 2008, 10:46 PM
Another thing about love is that it doesn't pass after a few bad moments but is still there just as strong. When your in love you feel as if you want to the rest of your life with this person. You'll lay awake at night just thinking about how life could be. If you see them walk by your heart will begin to flutter just hoping and wishing that they would acknowledge you in any kind of way. When your in love you feel as light as a feather and that nothing in the world can stop you. A lot of people won't admit it but when your at a young age a lot of the time it's not love but just a crush that leaves just as fast as it comes, you can't fall in love with someone if you never have taken the time out to get to know that person. Hope that helps.
george
April 14th, 2008, 10:49 PM
We've been friends for like 5 years....but idk.....
Sage
April 14th, 2008, 10:52 PM
Darkwing: Agreed. Basically, you need to be extremely sure it's not just a petty crush.
George: Well, it's your thread, go ahead and tell it. I (and hopefully others) don't really care how long your tale is, so long as it gets out. Spill the beans.
george
April 15th, 2008, 12:17 AM
Not being mean but how would you know if someone is gay? Because my friend Stephen, he always seems to get really happy whenever i pass by him :D I don't think hes gay but I'm not totally sure.
This is part of it :wub: Me and Stephen have been friends since like 3rd grade and we're pretty good friends. I guess theres just something about him that makes me all fuzzy inside :whoops: i don't know if thats just a crush or love. We'd used to hang out a lot but now we don't as much but whenever i do talk or hang out with him i feel nervous and calm at the same time. We used to be really close friends but now we kind of separated into our own cliches (not sure how to spell that) Hes in like the jocks who are smart and I'm i hang out with the like punk rock/emo group. So big big difference.....I guess i just like guys with curly hair like Alex's(redcar) :D or hair that comes down straight then kinda swerves like Cole's http://a860.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/42/l_63f0677bad3ac662e6e16f6d47c8d383.png (hence why I wanted to talk to him) cause Stephen's is like that. :wub: I feel like i wanna be with him but then when I see his friends i kind of just stop. So I don't know......
So yeah thats my story summarized. Not sure whether or not i should have posted it tho :\ really personal to me :\
myskias
April 17th, 2008, 11:49 PM
quote from my best friend
You know you're in love when all you can think about is that one special person and you can't stand to be away from them for more then one second. You fall asleep thinking about them, and dream about them every night.
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