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Asaffff
July 8th, 2015, 06:25 PM
So, I started working at a cinema and there's a girl who works with me and I think there can be something serious between us and I don't want to mess it up. She is 19 and I am a little older
The situation now is simple. Texting a lot, including many photos (not nudes or something just photos of her), and waiting for something real to happen when we meet. I went to 2 movies with her, and I walked around the mall with her for a couple of hours. She said 2 things when we were in the mall that were... different?
She said something about how if I'm gonna be her boyfriend someday, I should know that she likes shopping... or something like that..
The other thing she said was "do you think our children will get your eyes?"..
Anyway I think I'm starting to really like her, but I have 0 experience about what to do now.
Should I tell her how I feel, should I wait for the right moment to kiss her or something? I just don't know.
Please, anything you have to say will help.
Thank you.

Broken Toy
July 8th, 2015, 06:31 PM
There is always the option to not mention your feelings, and just get closer to her and occasionally flirt and stuff till the time is right.

It doesnt matter what you do really as long as you remember you do NOT want to just throw all your feelings out early. Dont just shock her and say you love her really early on, just be smooth and try be closer with her then just tell her you feel like shes more than a friend and etc.

Cronor
July 9th, 2015, 05:57 AM
What broken toy said. You shouldn't go too fast, but not too slow that she doesn't even notice and gives up. She obviously likes you..

tonymontana99
July 9th, 2015, 09:53 AM
She's probably going to use you. It's a red flag if a 19 yr old who works at a cinema and barely knows you is already telling you that you're going to have to spend money to buy her things (because that's what she meant, obviously) and is already asking you what your kids will be like. She's probably psycho, be cautious. Especially that creepy "do you think our kids will have your eyes?" part. Makes it look like she's desperate to have a man who has kids with her so she can be supported financially.