Heyimnewhere
July 8th, 2015, 01:14 AM
So here's my situation: I've been working with this girl the last few months and I've cought feelings harder than I ever have before. Unfortunately there are a few complications. I am going away to college in a few months and I'll be about 5 hours away from her because she is a year younger than me and hasn't graduated yet. It's also complicated on her end because it seems like she may or may not have a thing with another guy. Not a full on relationship but potentially something, she never really brings it up and she's never posted anything on social media. At this point in my life I feel inclined to try anyway because life's too short to worry about someone else's noncomittal "not-relationships". Anyway, we always hit it off at work and we always have a great time talking together. Im not stupid, I know starting something before going away to college is not remotely ideal, but I feel like my entire summer will be full of regret over never asking this amazing girl out. It's also going into foreign territory for me because she is part of the popular crowd and it's a bit intimidating and annoying thinking about dealing with her douchebag friends. Throughout high school I was always in the middle crowd who kind of hung out with a wide variety of people. Fortunately she's super down to earth and easy to talk to unlike the others. I kwant to avoid long distance if I can, so I think maybe just a summer thing could happen and then we'll see from there. Either way I think this girl may be worth a shot, but I'm concerned that my chances may be too slim. Should I go for it or just let it go?