is iT NorMAL 2 be that nervous about it

[michael123]

i Am 15 Years old and a virgin & think im Bi but once i had the opportunity to have sex with a very atractive gurl ThaT I ReaLLY Liked but i was so nervous & didnt know what was gonna happen that i decided not to have sex & i stiLL get nervous when i am about to do something like sex with a gurL its this wierd because thats every guys obsession (to have sex) does it MEans im fuLLY gay?

[haibekah]

it doesn't really mean anything. it just means that you're nervous. everyone is. I remember my first time, it was terrible. My best-friend, the first time she had sex, she wouldn't even let the guy see anything. Just because you're nervous, doesn't mean your gay, bi, straight. its just normal. You just have to find someone you're comfortable doing it with, and who will be alright with you being nervous.

[singdudesing844]

no it does not

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Of course you were nervous! You'd never been in that situation before, and you're on the young end to be having sex besides, so it's natural that you would have some doubts. You'll find the right person to lose your virginity to at some point, and you'll probably be nervous then too. I think I'd be more worried if you weren't nervous. I think part of why you were so nervous this time though, is because you weren't ready and she wasn't the right girl. You can't let nervousness hold you back, with any kind of experience, but if you're so nervous that you're not sure if you even want to do it, it's a sign that you shouldn't do it. Nothing's ever wrong with saying no, but some day you'll find the person that you're willing to push past the nervousness for. And then you'll be glad that you waited.

[Gumleaf]

doing something as major as sex for the first time would be enough to get anyone nervous even if you know the person you're going to do it with very well. these nerves have nothing to do with your sexuality and neither your desire to have sex. and if the other person can't accept that you are a bit nervous because its your first time then you shouldn't be doing it with them anyways because they wouldn't be worth it.

[MoveAlong]

is this wierd because thats every guys obsession (to have sex) does it MEans im fuLLY gay?

just because you're nervous to have sex with a girl doesn't mean your gay. You have to like guys to be gay.

sex is a major thing to do with someone because you're exposing yourself to someone like you never have before. Of course it's normal to be nervous, cause it's a big step and something you've never done before. Whenever you do decide to have sex, make sure you're with the right person, and you're protected, even if she's on the pill.

[Tyleisme]

No. Being nervous about such a thing doesn't make you gay or bi in any way shape or form. You're a virgin. Sex is something new to you. Most people are nervous doing something new. It may be every guys obsession. But yeah, most would still be nervous.

[bjjb101]

maybe ur nervous about the consequences or what she will think of you after.dont worry, it happens to me too.

[Gumleaf]

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