is he interested in me?

[european14]

Ok so I have a cousin same age as me and he is so hot, the thing is that i don't know if he's interested in me. He once got out of the shower with only a towel and sat next to me, when I was on a sleepover we layed on his bed and he took of his shirt saying it was "too hot". He once called me to his room and just changed his shirt and didn't say anything. I would do the first move but usually there's someone walking down the corridor or in the next room so I don't know how to catch him alone. He's an aggresive person and has made some homophobic comments about some people that's what worries me so much. I'm gay btw. :)

[Vermilion]

I wouldn't try it on

[DerBear]

Yeah I wouldn't try anything, plus since he's your cousin he's also family.

[ImTrickster]

I wouldnt try anything as he is family but also like you said about the homophobic comments, but if you do want to still i would wait to see if he does anything else, say a comment like if it does look like he goes to the gym ask him what he does to get how he is then see how he reacts apart from that if it isnt anything like him laying next to you touching you or showing you his underwear i wouldnt try anything if i was you. You would probably have better luck with some mates :D

[northy]

He's family. Do it if you must, but you will have to deal with the consequences. These will most likely be bad.

[nklarke]

It's your cousin, see elsewhere.

[Sports Boy]

Like everyone else has said, stay away from that situation. That could go very badly.

[The37thElement]

I personally don't see any signs that he likes you in that way...

[lambo420]

Yeah dude don't act on it. It doesn't sound good

[SethfromMI]

one he is your cousin so don't try anything.

two some guys are just comfortable being shirtless. I am not going to ask someone to leave the room just to change my shirt. or even my pants for that matter. he got out of the shower and did not get dressed right away, pretty common. he was hot and wanted to take off his shirt; during the summer at home, I am in just my underwear the majority of the time to stay comfortable.

not only am I not convinced there is necessarily something there, but again, he is your cousin. just don't even go there

[jssixna]

I suggest you find someone else. Relatives are not a good option.

[Sports Boy]

one he is your cousin so don't try anything.

two some guys are just comfortable being shirtless. I am not going to ask someone to leave the room just to change my shirt. or even my pants for that matter. he got out of the shower and did not get dressed right away, pretty common. he was hot and wanted to take off his shirt; during the summer at home, I am in just my underwear the majority of the time to stay comfortable.

not only am I not convinced there is necessarily something there, but again, he is your cousin. just don't even go there

european14 I hope you have enough opinions here not to try make something happen with your cousin. It could be all bad.

[Chadis1]

Find Someone Else!

[jeans_kid]

Given what you said, it doesn't seem like there is enough evidence that he's interested in you. Like what others said, it'd be best to look elsewhere. But if he takes the initiative, then let things develop naturally..

[Abhorrence]

Like others have said, he is your cousin. You shouldn't really try stuff with your family because that's just kinda wrong man. Also, you said he makes homophobic comments. Even if he wasn't your cousin that would immediately mean that he's off limits.

[GoGoDiego]

It would be awkward and wrong to make a move like that. STOP, he is your cousin.

[Semi_IronMan]

I agree.. Don't do it

[vboy]

Sounds a bit like incest
Probably ur hormones going crazy so I would back off

[Reg_]

don't do it. I think its likely that something bad will happen and you will regret it.