Question For Bisexuals

[The Faulted]

just to point out, i'm not trying to offend anyone here.

so i have this question for those people who identify as bisexual. if you got into a very serious relationship with someone, and say maybe even got married and lived your life together. would you ever desire to have a sexual encounter with someone of the opposite gender as to the one you married? would you ever feel completely satisfied?

again, i'm not trying to offend anyone. i'm just really curious.

[Just JT]

We'll assuming by your question u r str8 right?
So assuming you grew up, meet a real nice girl fell in love and married her, family etc etc
Would you have a desire to be with another woman at all?
Would you be completely satisfied?

Not so easy to answer is it?

[ClaraWho]

I am not bisexual, but from common knowledge I can state the following.


Once in love, sexual preference is nullified and becomes irrelevant. The only person someone in love desires, is their loved one.

Sexual preference in that regard is the same as liking girls with brown eyes. It's a preference, not a requirement for finding a partner. Once one has a partner, that all becomes irrelevant. If she has green eyes, then green eyes will probably be your new favourite, because she makes them special. Do you follow?

~ Clara

[NZPerson]

Im bi and my philosophy is that i like guys for sex and girls for relationships, ive found most bi guys to be similar to this.

[Laibachd]

just to point out, i'm not trying to offend anyone here.

so i have this question for those people who identify as bisexual. if you got into a very serious relationship with someone, and say maybe even got married and lived your life together. would you ever desire to have a sexual encounter with someone of the opposite gender as to the one you married? would you ever feel completely satisfied?

again, i'm not trying to offend anyone. i'm just really curious.

I happen to be polyamorous, in addition to bisexual, so yes, i'd probably still desire sexual encounters with other people. I probably wouldn't feel satisfied in a strictly monogamous relationship.

[Blazefire]

Monogamy is not for me too but I will tell my partner beforehand.I have my rules by the way.

[Abhorrence]

I think if you are a monogamous bisexual person then you will always feel a sexual desire to the two sexes, regardless of whether you are married or not. Married people still feel sexual desire towards others, even if they are straight - however they fight off the urges to be unfaithful because it is the right thing to do. So it would be the same with bisexuals but they have both sexes rather than just one. I hope that makes sense.

[pjones]

if i fall in love, with a guy or girl, i don't think i'll want a relationship with the other gender.
my guess is, like most straight or gay people, once you find a partner, you want to be with them, not someone else

[Jaffe]

What difference does it make if you are bi or gay or straight in this situation?

[Just JT]

What difference does it make if you are bi or gay or straight in this situation?

I think it was just a curious kinda question that's all, but I also agree with most of these posts
In the end, if you love someone, then that's the person, sex.... Is just sex, love....is something special...

[Emerald Dream]

To me, a committed relationship (or marriage) is just that - committed, in all aspects. I take that seriously.

There's a big difference between being attracted to someone else and wanting to reach out and "have a sexual encounter." While I may be attracted to another person while I was in a relationship - I wouldn't be looking to have sex with them. I have already committed myself to my partner. As far as feeling "satisfied" is concerned - there are many aspects to a relationship, and sex is just one of them. Even so, I wouldn't cheat on someone I had that emotional bond (that comes with a commitment) with. When you're that far into a relationship, I think the feelings involved with sex are just as important as the actual sex itself. Otherwise, I wouldn't be in a committed relationship.

I don't understand how being bisexual/bicurious/whatever is supposed to supercede the boundaries of a committed relationship?

[Just JT]

I see what ur saying, and I kinda agree
I think what the poster was kinda askin is if a bisexual person, being in a committed relationship, would feel sexually satisfied if the saw/meet/desired in a sexual way, another person, the opposite sex of their current partner

I think it is a legit question to a degree, due to that persons possible misunderstanding of how a bisexual person views sex, and a committed relationship

I think its normal, as humans are sexual "animals" to have sexual desires(fantasies if you will) and from time to time we will come across someone we may lust over
How we respond to that desire/fantasy/lust is the show of the love and satisfaction in a true committed relationship

That's how I see it anyways

[Goatzbro]

For me, I think that societal stigma is still too strong for me to actually consider being able to get away with a sexual encounter with a guy while dating a girl. Plus it seems kind of immoral to me to go and do something like that. For me its not a question of needing to be sexually satisfied from both men and women, but rather needing to be sexually satisfied at all, and that both sexes can accomplish that equally.

Tl dr; I probably wouldn't

[SethfromMI]

I think if you are a monogamous bisexual person then you will always feel a sexual desire to the two sexes, regardless of whether you are married or not. Married people still feel sexual desire towards others, even if they are straight - however they fight off the urges to be unfaithful because it is the right thing to do. So it would be the same with bisexuals but they have both sexes rather than just one. I hope that makes sense.

Very well said Jack!:)

I been dating for over 8 months now. sure I still notice people I'd like to have sex with, but I would never, ever cheat on my gf. I care about her too much to ever do that

[Just JT]

To me, a committed relationship (or marriage) is just that - committed, in all aspects. I take that seriously.

There's a big difference between being attracted to someone else and wanting to reach out and "have a sexual encounter." While I may be attracted to another person while I was in a relationship - I wouldn't be looking to have sex with them. I have already committed myself to my partner. As far as feeling "satisfied" is concerned - there are many aspects to a relationship, and sex is just one of them. Even so, I wouldn't cheat on someone I had that emotional bond (that comes with a commitment) with. When you're that far into a relationship, I think the feelings involved with sex are just as important as the actual sex itself. Otherwise, I wouldn't be in a committed relationship.

And yeah, 100 posts!!!! Whoop whoop !!��

I don't understand how being bisexual/bicurious/whatever is supposed to supercede the boundaries of a committed relationship?

Sorry, I forgot to quote you so ud see my responce to your post, so if u look below your original responce in this post I'll see it ok
If ur interested

[Sports Boy]

I'm bisexual and have a gf of almost a year. While sometimes I get really horny and feel like messing with a guy, I wouldn't cheat on my girlfriend. So just like married people who are faithful, I just resist the urge and appreciate what I have.

[Emerald Dream]

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