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orange123
April 14th, 2008, 03:43 PM
need help is this site telling the the truth about gay porn that it can turn you gay
thanks need help
http://www.freetobeme.com/content.xjp?id=428
japanman
April 14th, 2008, 03:47 PM
OK i chek the site it is an ok site but your new so you cant post links sry.
Kaleidoscope Eyes
April 14th, 2008, 04:16 PM
Watching gay porn will not turn you gay. It has been said here a million times. Sexuality is not something that is determined by outside influences. The website you mentioned seemed to be talking about changing yourself, a.k.a making a conscious decision to change sexuality. Doesn't that sound odd to you? It's as if you were to, say, have a thing for girly girls, and you don't like tomboys because you feel like you're with another guy. But your friends think the girls you like are ridiculous, so you decided you'll like tomboys instead. Maybe you could get used to being in a relationship with tomboys, but on the inside you'll still feel the same. In theory, a straight man could date gay men, and get used to being in a homosexual relationship. But it will not "turn" him gay. And neither will watching gay porn. You are who you are. This isn't a matter of changing opinion, or hair color, you're talking about changing sexuality, a major part of a person's identity. It just doesn't happen. And it especially doesn't happen without the knowledge or consent of the person. No one and nothing can change who you are without your permission. You are you, and only you can decide who you are.
It's possible for someone to realize their sexuality, however. Perhaps someone led a heterosexual life, and since they'd never experienced anything homosexual in nature, they just decided that they must be straight. One day, they stumble across some gay porn, and they start thinking, and it leads to the eventual realization that they are actually gay. But it can't "turn" you.
japanman
April 14th, 2008, 05:41 PM
Ding ding theres the best answer so far.:)
chris__robin
April 15th, 2008, 07:10 AM
ive only read the home page of that website before almost throwing up or throwing my laptop through the window in disgust... but its mainly discussing changing orientation from same sex (gay) to opposite sex (straight) ... its basically a "hip" anti-gay camp thing they used to have (cf. But I'm a Cheerleader [lol])
ummm ... yeah like it has been said NOTHING is going to make you gay unless you are already gay
you CANNOT decide to be gay .. EVER ... it is a part of you just like being straight is, just like you were born with a head ... you didnt decide how many fingers you got its just the way it is
umm too many analogies? sorry :P
watch gay porn all you want ... but if youre going to keep watching it and getting off on it then you might want to consider being gay yourself ... not because watching it turned you gay but because you are gay and felt attracted to downloading it in the first place :P
chris__robin
April 15th, 2008, 07:15 AM
About us
This site is produced by New Direction for Life Ministries, Inc., as a resource for young people of any or no faith. New Direction is a Canadian organization which works specifically with men and women who experience unwanted same gender attractions while respecting those who make other choices. If you've enjoyed this website, please consider supporting us financially. You can donate online here through New Direction's website and designate your donations towards Fretobeme.com.
New Direction for Life Ministries
Ministry = religion
new direction = trying to make gays into straights
freetobeme.com = trying to target teens of today
... i hate these sites.
orange123
April 16th, 2008, 06:43 AM
thankyou for replying back to me it helped alot.
sportyman1992
April 16th, 2008, 07:31 AM
There is no way gay porn can make u gay... iv'e watched it b4 and i got a g/f.. its just something u watch to see how the do it... will neva watch it again though ""Yuck""
Techno Monster
April 16th, 2008, 10:41 AM
^agreeed there are not many things that can make you gay
MoveAlong
April 16th, 2008, 10:02 PM
^agreeed there are not many things that can make you gay
Actually nothing will make you gay
so this website is false
geniusrocksoutloud
April 23rd, 2008, 04:18 PM
watching something gay doesnt turn you gay.its not like eat a biscuit and you turn into one
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