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Just JT
July 3rd, 2015, 12:08 PM
Not sure if this is the right place for this post so, it give this a shot
I'm ok with being naked with my close friends, showering after practice etc, sometimes more depending who's there and mood....but that's not what Im posting about
Couple weeks ago I was camping with my foster parents, and it's pretty rough camping, no running water kinda stuff. They have this shower system where thers water in a bag held up by a rope I'm a tree being heated by the sun. When it's shower time there's a hose a sprayer to shower down with
When I was going to take a shower my foster father came with me to show me how to sue it and also took a shower with me at the same time
We were both completely nude in the woods and taking a shower
Didn't really think much of it at that time but I've been thinkin about it over and over in my mind
Now he is an adult, obviously older than me, and he is kinda good lookin guy ya no, and although I didmt think much of it, I kinda enjoyed it, and still think of it
Is there something wrong with me?
Zachary G
July 3rd, 2015, 01:12 PM
NO!!! There isnt anything wrong with you, what you are experiencing is totally normal; they are just feelings that you go through, thanks to hormones, from time to time, but there is nothing big about it, its all good.
Mark2000
July 3rd, 2015, 01:30 PM
It's fine, just be careful who u tell, if social worker finds out it could be taken wrong way, get my drift?
Canadian Dream
July 3rd, 2015, 01:39 PM
NO!!! There isnt anything wrong with you, what you are experiencing is totally normal; they are just feelings that you go through, thanks to hormones, from time to time, but there is nothing big about it, its all good.
Yup, those damn hormones are the cause. There isn't much you can do about it except worry, so I'm guessing trying to ignore it is the better way to go.
SethfromMI
July 3rd, 2015, 03:36 PM
It's fine, just be careful who u tell, if social worker finds out it could be taken wrong way, get my drift?
very good point.
but as far as friends, we have to shower naked after pe and practice, so I am very use to showering nude in front of others. even when i go to a gym to workout (not at school) a lot of times I will shower nude
Mark2000
July 3rd, 2015, 03:37 PM
very good point.
but as far as friends, we have to shower naked after pe and practice, so I am very use to showering nude in front of others. even when i go to a gym to workout (not at school) a lot of times I will shower nude
You in foster care until parents can care for you or waiting ti be adopted
SethfromMI
July 3rd, 2015, 03:38 PM
You in foster care until parents can care for you or waiting ti be adopted
me? no I am not in foster care at all
Mark2000
July 3rd, 2015, 03:39 PM
me? no I am not in foster care at all
Oh yeah hi by the way I had a hundred post today so if you want to be friends I'm willing to be friends with you
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SethfromMI
July 3rd, 2015, 03:42 PM
Oh yeah hi by the way I had a hundred post today so if you want to be friends I'm willing to be friends with you
haha sure
I was just agreeing with you though if he told that to a social worker, it could be taken badly out of context , when in reality, there was nothing wrong with what happened
Mark2000
July 3rd, 2015, 03:43 PM
haha sure
I was just agreeing with you though if he told that to a social worker, it could be taken badly out of context , when in reality, there was nothing wrong with what happened
Exactly you are right I have had about 12 roster brothers I'm just 15 but they been as young as five years younger than me and up to 18 but you just gotta be careful weed shower at school its okay but I don't know about at the house we have but not together
Just JT
July 3rd, 2015, 05:40 PM
Ok, cool, im guna try to reply to everyone in this one post ok
I'm cool,with showering with guys like in pe and after practice and all, kinda fun actually haha
And im the only one in the house for foster kids, they are real cool, and I get that I'd never tell case worker cause that duck some shit up, more than I'd like to think ok?
They r cool and all, it's more like how I felt with him showering kinda like reverse perv or somethin idk... im sure he's used to it, he was in military n stuff so im pretty sure that happens, its just that I, never thought of an adult like that....
Thats hormones ???
pjones
July 3rd, 2015, 06:57 PM
i have taken showers at home with my dad. my friends say they have too, so not a big deal. pretty normal to think about all kinds of stuff, no worries
Just JT
July 3rd, 2015, 07:00 PM
Yeah I get that, but he's really not my dad, and I guess what I was sayin is that I kinda liked it, like I had feelings for it/him and stuff
That's my concern...... is that weird or am I just like....idk...
BakeBake
July 4th, 2015, 12:44 AM
Not sure if this is the right place for this post so, it give this a shot
I'm ok with being naked with my close friends, showering after practice etc, sometimes more depending who's there and mood....but that's not what Im posting about
Couple weeks ago I was camping with my foster parents, and it's pretty rough camping, no running water kinda stuff. They have this shower system where thers water in a bag held up by a rope I'm a tree being heated by the sun. When it's shower time there's a hose a sprayer to shower down with
When I was going to take a shower my foster father came with me to show me how to sue it and also took a shower with me at the same time
We were both completely nude in the woods and taking a shower
Didn't really think much of it at that time but I've been thinkin about it over and over in my mind
Now he is an adult, obviously older than me, and he is kinda good lookin guy ya no, and although I didmt think much of it, I kinda enjoyed it, and still think of it
Is there something wrong with me?
NO there isn't anything wrong with you!!! Have you ever heard of Nudist People? If not, they are people who prefer to be naked than to be clothed, maybe you just like to be naked more than clothed (kinda like me). In fact, that is actually kinda cool that you and your foster parents are that close and comfortable with one another.
Straya
July 4th, 2015, 02:39 AM
Not sure if this is the right place for this post so, it give this a shot
I'm ok with being naked with my close friends, showering after practice etc, sometimes more depending who's there and mood....but that's not what Im posting about
Couple weeks ago I was camping with my foster parents, and it's pretty rough camping, no running water kinda stuff. They have this shower system where thers water in a bag held up by a rope I'm a tree being heated by the sun. When it's shower time there's a hose a sprayer to shower down with
When I was going to take a shower my foster father came with me to show me how to sue it and also took a shower with me at the same time
We were both completely nude in the woods and taking a shower
Didn't really think much of it at that time but I've been thinkin about it over and over in my mind
Now he is an adult, obviously older than me, and he is kinda good lookin guy ya no, and although I didmt think much of it, I kinda enjoyed it, and still think of it
Is there something wrong with me?
no theres nothing wrong with it at all hes not related to you so you thinking thoses things isnt a problem
Just JT
July 4th, 2015, 01:25 PM
Yeah I know he's not, but he's still kinda like my dad, and a lot older to
And thanks, I think you got what I was askin, wasn't about being naked at all, but was kind weird, more how I felt about him...
jockeyboy97
July 4th, 2015, 07:55 PM
It's just crazy hormones, probably the surroundings being outside naked was exciting and maybe seeing another penis got your curiosity. I think its perfectly normal.
Just JT
July 4th, 2015, 08:01 PM
Thank :)
Bluebyrd
July 19th, 2015, 10:13 PM
#Hormones
Kjcj
July 20th, 2015, 02:13 AM
I mean I haven't showered with anyone since I was like 5 or so when it was cutie to shower with someone, so I cant really give good advice, but I have pondered the idea of showering with a few of my friends or cousins.. haven't acted acted on the ideas but I do think about it often.. I say there is nothing wrong with it..
Just JT
July 20th, 2015, 05:05 AM
You in foster care until parents can care for you or waiting ti be adopted
Hey, just got an update email thing on this thread, just noticed your question...
No, not waitin for rents, adoption??? I wish, this place is better than with my dad....
really cool folks really like them a lot
Olly2001
July 20th, 2015, 05:13 AM
There's nothing wrong with that. I shower naked with friends after football, gym and swimming.
Just JT
July 20th, 2015, 05:18 AM
Yeah, thanks for the reply bro, I was more thinkin about how I was more thinkin bout how I was feeling about him I guess, lookin back now, was thinkin about how it kinda got me horny and shit, he's older, kinda like a dad, not my dad, but still...
But thanks...guess it's just hormones...idk...he didn't seem to mind or anything...
qwerty234
July 22nd, 2015, 11:16 PM
Its all normal! Those hormones you have can get crazy at times but thats what makes it fun!
football matt
July 22nd, 2015, 11:35 PM
na it's no big deal man. I've been in the same situation.
Conor_x
July 23rd, 2015, 05:05 PM
This sounds pretty normal to be honest but be careful as people may take this the wrong way and could get both you in trouble!
ejpete
August 8th, 2015, 06:52 PM
It's completely fine. He's your dad. Foster or not. You look up to him it's fine to feel affection. Your a boy with a penis it's going to happen.
sysrq
August 9th, 2015, 01:16 PM
If society would have never seen it in the wrong way then it wouldn't be such of a big deal.
Never had a shower with older ones, last time was with another boy when I was 8 years old in the summer camp, just to see what it's like to be in a shower with someone else.
Georgysmith
August 14th, 2015, 01:36 PM
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Colton8
August 23rd, 2015, 06:55 PM
No I think that's normal
thegreatgatz
August 23rd, 2015, 07:00 PM
It's natural to admire another persons body. It's part of growing up. Try not to worry about it.
Zerg
August 26th, 2015, 11:56 AM
You are just curious about others, it is normal
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