Long distance boyfriend ish

[brookline1254]

Here my problem. My best friend emily showed me her friend instagram acount. he lived in Portlandand was my age. main It was 1 month till I hd the courgette to dm him (8 months ago).we started chatting we both Iike gaming art music ect sowe exchanged numbers and snap chat and texted alot. Through text echo ther he sent a message with 2 hearts after so we continue to end every convo with hearts after that I ask him to be my boyfriend (2 months ago). We keep this up for a week but soon after that I didn't hear from him. We sent some message ask for some resolution and way to stay together or break up. We almost did it but a couple week after we just said to be friend. After that we txt echo and snapchat bur he never sends hearts any more. He briefly told me he would be coming to boston this weekend maby and we haven't discussed meeting up but I mentioned hanging out he said shure. Overall after all 8 months is I still have feelings for him but I want to stay chill and what should I do when I meet him

[Andyyy95]

Spend a day together having fun, then maybe towards the end of the day bring up the topic of where you stand with him?

[Manboy321]

Spend a day together having fun, then maybe towards the end of the day bring up the topic of where you stand with him?
I couldn't have said it better myself

[jessie3]

Long distance relationships all most if not all never work out for the best, i say this because #1 y'all live far away and #2 anyone of you guys could easily *Cheat* but is it really cheating if you guy's aren't actually a couple.

I understand you have feelings for him but it took 8 month's for y'all to finally meet for the first time. When will y'all meet again? Plus he clearly doesn't have any of the same feelings for you as you do as he doesn't send anymore hearts or kissy faces.

[Reg_]

i think you should act natural and see what happens

[DoodleSnap]

Ask him if he wants to hang out or go grab some food with you. It doesn't have to be awkward; it'll be casual if you make it casual.
I'm not sure of the activities available in your area, but a movie is always good fun, and a meal would be good to talk over and resolve things. Be honest and communicate, and I'm sure you'll do fine.