Sexually frustrated...

[theUnprofessional]

I don't know where to put this, move it if it isn't in the right place...

So...I'm still a virgin and I've only ever had one other sexual experience with a girl (you know, playing around and stuff). But now I've reached a point where I'm absolutely just craving some sort of sexual experience with someone it's making me feel...argh, I just want it sooo bad. Problem is, I'm on my last year of high school and focusing on studying (I don't have too many places to vent and I have no problem making friends).

What should I do???

[PlinyTheElder]

My best guess is to scope out someone who's in the same boat as you and see if you can organise something that helps both of you out

[theUnprofessional]

My best guess is to scope out someone who's in the same boat as you and see if you can organise something that helps both of you out

Oh, I getcha, but this is just such a weird topic (I feel) to bring up to anyone though. However I'm sure there are plenty of people who feel the same way.

[PlinyTheElder]

Oh, I getcha, but this is just such a weird topic (I feel) to bring up to anyone though. However I'm sure there are plenty of people who feel the same way.

Maybe just listen around at school or in your social circles. You say you're bi-curious so maybe try and hint at something with close friends. It is probably pretty weird, but there's sure to be people you know that are focusing on studying but are somewhat distracted

[Steve Jobs]

I know that feeling, and I had it for years.


What made it more appealing for me was finding affection in someone, and when that happens, it opens you into a whole new world and gives it so much meaning.

All I'm saying is, don't rush and regret, and take things as they come. Talking about sex is a highly taboo thing for me with almost everyone I know, but when that one person came along, it just flowed so naturally! :P

[mattsmith48]

I don't know where to put this, move it if it isn't in the right place...

So...I'm still a virgin and I've only ever had one other sexual experience with a girl (you know, playing around and stuff). But now I've reached a point where I'm absolutely just craving some sort of sexual experience with someone it's making me feel...argh, I just want it sooo bad. Problem is, I'm on my last year of high school and focusing on studying (I don't have too many places to vent and I have no problem making friends).

What should I do???

well when i felt the same way couple yrs ago i got drunk with a girl and had sex with her. if you dont fell like doing that just talk about it with your friends about it you might have a friend who is bi-curious like you

[Laibachd]

Your time will come, don´t rush it! :)

[Iam-Marie]

Your time will come, don´t rush it! :)

I agree 100% with them.

[Beth]

I agree with this,don't rush it. The first time should be with someone special,not just for the sake of getting laid.

[SethfromMI]

it is not something which should be rushed. I know I did my first time at 14 and while I have no regrets, the right person will come at the right time

[Abhorrence]

You don't really wanna end up just hooking up with someone, I don't think it's a nice feeling at all afterwards.

[Mark2000]

I am still virgin sorry

[Sports Boy]

If you have sex just for the sake of sex, I think you'd feel shallow and kind of empty afterwards. When I've had sex with someone I really wasn't that into, I felt guilty and the sex was not at all satisfying. The most enjoyable and satisfying sex is doing it with someone you really like or love (same or opposite sex, doesn't matter). I'd really hold out so that your first sexual experience is positive.

[Canadian Dream]

I don't know where your priorities are now but I can tell you I think it's a better idea to focus on your academics and put your sex life after. You've got one shot at your future but a lot more time for sex and stuff, so I suggest you take your thoughts off sexual stuff as much as possible and you shouldn't feel such a big urge.

[theUnprofessional]

I don't know where your priorities are now but I can tell you I think it's a better idea to focus on your academics and put your sex life after. You've got one shot at your future but a lot more time for sex and stuff, so I suggest you take your thoughts off sexual stuff as much as possible and you shouldn't feel such a big urge.

While I completely agree...the second part about the urges is extremely hard to control on thinking about and it sorta builds up (if you know what I mean). I've also always been quite academic too but I feel I have been missing out on something, but like you said I suppose there is time for it later.

[Blazefire]

you should know your priorities.