GF pressure

[Lukir]

So whats happening lately is that im feeling pressure and being pressured into having GF. All the time im being called immature and fool and jerk for not having gf. Im 15, decent looking i mean even lot worse looking guys got GFs and in this age its the main theme- and i dont have one.
Im pretty communicative i have really lots of friends and have just no problem in meeting new people every often.
Now to my girl taste- to be brutally honest i like hot girls. its pretty much the only thing i want now. But other thing is i dont even want a GF. I like to make out with girl, grab her ass :P maybe have fun with her 3 days and than just forget about it. I dont want anything sirious like everyday dating, love messages and that boring stuff. I just wanna have fun im 15.
But if i do this with some girl, all her friends (female) will start hating on me and i dont want that- i wanna be good with everyone and just hang out have fun. I dont want to pretend to be mature, love expert with great relationships.
And so currently one girl is atrracted to me and wanna be with me, while i dont want to be with her. and my friends are constantly trying to force me in indirect ways. While actually i could easily end up with her hot friend, but i didnt want to hurt her like that cause im not asshole

its all so confusing and s**t, anyone experienced that can help me with my situation?

[Cronor]

Can you tell me how are you being pressured, I don't understand? Friends teasing you, orthodox parents or..? XD

[Broken Toy]

You could get close to her because you might enjoy it. If not then you just tell her that you dont really feel it and then there is no reason to hate on you. If they do, you know what theyre like and you dont want them to like you anyway.

its really not a big deal to have a girlfriend at 15 anyway. If you are close to a girla and you both like eachother then fair enough, but 13-15 is the age where people want to act more mature than they are so everyone wants to do stuff like sucking people off and bucking, and this means that people get in relationships quickly, it lasts a week, someone gets cheated on then they are heartbroken for a day.

So yeah, if it feels right, go with it and it could be good, but if not you really arent missing that much and you'll experience it soon enough anyway. Hope it was helpful

[Lukir]

Can you tell me how are you being pressured, I don't understand? Friends teasing you, orthodox parents or..? XD

pressure from all sides
1st my best friends having gfs and changing them/sometimes they joke me sometimes they dont have to- i just feel like im the only one who doesnt have it still
2nd my female friends teasing me, also always talking about those things
3rd when u end up with 3 friends and their 3 gfs, u feel like u dont belong there lol
Even my grandpa used to tease me lol, but he cant do it anymore :(

[Cronor]

Sorry about your grandpa (If I interpreted that correctly, If not - I am sorry once again.)
First of all, take the hint - If your female friends are teasing you it might (not necessarily) mean that they want to be with you, and being your friends they probably already know that you don't want long-term engagements.
If not..
Just openly tell other girls what you're into. That will make you lose chances of being with lots of girls, but at least you won't hurt them after a few days, but you'll eventually find the ones same as you. Good lu(/i)ck! ;)

[Lukir]

Sorry about your grandpa (If I interpreted that correctly, If not - I am sorry once again.)
First of all, take the hint - If your female friends are teasing you it might (not necessarily) mean that they want to be with you, and being your friends they probably already know that you don't want long-term engagements.
If not..
Just openly tell other girls what you're into. That will make you lose chances of being with lots of girls, but at least you won't hurt them after a few days, but you'll eventually find the ones same as you. Good lu(/i)ck! ;)

oh i thought about my best female friends like from class or from elementary school i really look at them like sisters
well thats what may just work- im sure they are the ones thinking like me and wanting the same. but its not that easy thing to say, it may sound rude+im not the best one speaker to girls

[Cronor]

Guess you can't really find such girls without talking.. look attractive, be attractive and wait for someone to start grinding is all I can say, sorry😞😉

[Lukir]

Guess you can't really find such girls without talking.. look attractive, be attractive and wait for someone to start grinding is all I can say, sorry😞😉

i didnt say i wont do talking i just said it would be hard lol

[Cronor]

We should swap places.. I'm surrounded by girls who just want a few kisses and a person to take selfies with, and I want someone to cuddle, watch movies with, talk to, cry.. Damn xD

[Lukir]

We should swap places.. I'm surrounded by girls who just want a few kisses and a person to take selfies with, and I want someone to cuddle, watch movies with, talk to, cry.. Damn xD

lool we should for sure
we are not even far away we could lol

[Cronor]

Hmmm.. you bring the wigs, I'll bring makeup xD

P.S. before telling them that you only want a short-term relationship, tell them that you're telling them that because you don't want to hurt them and that type of stuff. Make them realize that you don't want to be arrogant.

[Lukir]

Hmmm.. you bring the wigs, I'll bring makeup xD

P.S. before telling them that you only want a short-term relationship, tell them that you're telling them that because you don't want to hurt them and that type of stuff. Make them realize that you don't want to be arrogant.

yes i get it and its actually true. I dont want to be asshole who plays with girls.

[Andyyy95]

Maybe you could consider getting close to a girl, becoming best friends, or maybe even just a "friend with benefits" who you can 'mess' with if you're not after a relationship idk?

I wouldn't pay attention to those making fun of you though, just try and ignore it.
You'll know when you're ready to be with a girl / have a relationship etc :)

[indoxyl]

Tell them to back off you're still young there's plenty of time to be in a relationship whenever you're ready for it.

[SethfromMI]

never feel pressured to be in a relationship