Give Up The Gay

[Leemac1999]

I firstly want to start by saying Ive not labeled myself straight, gay , bisexual or anything else.
Since I discovered porn when I was 14, I watched purely straight stuff but I got curious and tried gay and bisexual stuff too. I loved it. And that's the problem, I want to go straight again. So I've started to commit to only straight for a month to see what happens. Will this make me stop wanting to look at guys? Or have you ever done anything like this ?

[Just JT]

What u watch will not change your natural normal desires no matter how hard u try, it's not guna change, so face who u r and embrace it, cause its u. It's kinda like havin ur guna watch movies with people who have only blue eyes, cause u wana have blue eyes, and get rid of brown eyes...

[Abhorrence]

Haha, I literally tried so so hard to get rid of all my feelings of attraction towards men. All it does is be slightly repressed and then they come out stronger. It's better to just accept it early on.

[Danny_boi 16]

Straight guys watch gay porn, no big deal. It seems that you're bi-curious. But unless you feel attracted to guys both emotionally and physically, I don't think you're gay. Watch the genre of porn you want, it doesn't change who you're attracted to.

[SethfromMI]

Straight guys watch gay porn, no big deal. It seems that you're bi-curious. But unless you feel attracted to guys both emotionally and physically, I don't think you're gay. Watch the genre of porn you want, it doesn't change who you're attracted to.

this. and as others said, if you are physically attracted to guys, just watching straight porn is not going to change it

[Jaffe]

I firstly want to start by saying Ive not labeled myself straight, gay , bisexual or anything else.
Since I discovered porn when I was 14, I watched purely straight stuff but I got curious and tried gay and bisexual stuff too. I loved it. And that's the problem, I want to go straight again. So I've started to commit to only straight for a month to see what happens. Will this make me stop wanting to look at guys? Or have you ever done anything like this ?

You described a bi person, or at least bi-curious. That doesnt mean you are gay or straight or bi or anything else.

I don't think our actions really change who we are inside. But they do reinforce our ability to hide who/what we are inside

Why is it so important to you to be straight?

[ImTrickster]

i've tried the same but i always ened up going back to the gay stuff but it doesnt necessarily make you gay, i could never be in a relation ship with another guy because i just cannot hold hands, kiss or any other stuff that i would do with my girlfreind, i would only be friends with benefits. i still like straight orn as well, the gay porn is something which i just wouldnt tell my friends. I have labbeled my self bi but for example 75% straight and 25% gay because i dont want a relationship.

[ashdaniel]

I doesn't see what is the problem watching gay porn or str. It just personal prefference. If you like it just watch it. If it make you like boy it mean you like boy some how.

[Zachary G]

only you are in control of what you watch and only your heart can tell you what you are attracted to. If you want to go the straight route, then go for it; if you are feeling gay that day, enjoy it; if you want to have your cake and eat it too, then by all means have it. Dont worry about labels, just enjoy yourself. Youre attracted to what you are attracted and thats all there is to it.

[ImCoolBeans]

only you are in control of what you watch and only your heart can tell you what you are attracted to. If you want to go the straight route, then go for it; if you are feeling gay that day, enjoy it; if you want to have your cake and eat it too, then by all means have it. Dont worry about labels, just enjoy yourself. Youre attracted to what you are attracted and thats all there is to it.

This is very well said. Just do what you makes you happy. If you enjoy gay stuff then enjoy it to its fullest, if you only want to watch straight stuff, then enjoy that too. But you can't hide from feelings forever, even if you repress them they come back in time, and you can't run from them forever. Do what your heart desires and don't worry about labels, you'll figure it all out in time. You don't need to know all of the answers and have yourself all figured out if you're not ready :)

[northy]

I firstly want to start by saying Ive not labeled myself straight, gay , bisexual or anything else.
Since I discovered porn when I was 14, I watched purely straight stuff but I got curious and tried gay and bisexual stuff too. I loved it. And that's the problem, I want to go straight again. So I've started to commit to only straight for a month to see what happens. Will this make me stop wanting to look at guys? Or have you ever done anything like this ?

You can't change your sexuality. It is not a choice. Try to come to terms with who you are.

[Meganium]

Go with whatever feels right man. Regardless of what your sexuality is, it's not gonna change through force if ayyyyyy all, so just be comfortable.

[chrisawesome]

Though I haven't and never really plan to date a guy. I consider myself straight but with a dirty bi twist, I don't think I could give up the computer dick for even three days. Lol
Or pussy for 18 hours. Lol

[Lukir]

i guess it doesnt mean u are gay. I have watched all kinds of porn, expect gay and animal stuff. Thats really nope.
But if i can make analogy:
I have no prob with lesbian porn, i like it kinda
But if i see real lesbians on street or think about it as love and couple, i got grossed out.

[Cronor]

Porn doesn't mean a lot.. I mean I've watched tentacle porn out of curiosity, it doesn't mean I'll go out chasing a sexy squid (lol). And even if you are gay, there's nothing you can do about it.

[Canadian Dream]

Your sexuality is something that you are born with, and you can't really counter it. However don't just presume you are bisexual or gay just because you are attracted to them sexually. You have to also feel an emotional connection with a gender to be attracted to them completely. Often there is a lot of confusion during adolescence as to sexuality, but eventually you'll find out who you really are attracted to.

[Bluebyrd]

I've always liked guys so watching straight porn wouldn't do anything for me.