Hooking up with a guy

[UTurn]

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[Just JT]

I'd b careful hookenup like that cause u never really know who ur guna meet and could get pretty dicy quick

also, I'd follow ur feelings, and try somethin with a guy, that u no and see if u like it, cause ull never know unles u try it
I wouldn't beat urself up over it either, no reason to, weather u like guys or girls don't really matter it's just what u like,or don't

[SethfromMI]

before you meet any strangers, which is very risky, meet them somewhere in public first

[UTurn]

I'm not going to his house, we'd meet at like a mall nearby or something and even though its not classy at all haha it would probly just be like bj's in a backseat lol

[SethfromMI]

I'm not going to his house, we'd meet at like a mall nearby or something and even though its not classy at all haha it would probly just be like bj's in a backseat lol

yea, I am just saying, the first time you see him, make it a public place with people around . you go in that car, you may never be seen again

[UTurn]

yea, I am just saying, the first time you see him, make it a public place with people around . you go in that car, you may never be seen again

oh no i completely agree, meeting up with people like this can be really dangerous, but the thing is, i dont wanna get romantically involved with a guy and i dont want my friends or family to know im curious maybe bi unless im 100% positive, so anon like this seems the only way

[Cognizant]

I've hooked up with grindr guys before. There's no shame in doing it.

Just use your internet safety smarts. If you suspect their profile might not be accurate of who they are, then step away. Also, meet in a public place - not their house, not their car, not in a dark alley. If you get an odd vibe from them, you're allowed to leave. If not, then there's no shame in having fun and exploring your sexuality.

oh no i completely agree, meeting up with people like this can be really dangerous, but the thing is, i dont wanna get romantically involved with a guy and i dont want my friends or family to know im curious maybe bi unless im 100% positive, so anon like this seems the only way

It's not that hard to cover up what you're doing. Just say you're going to the mall with friends or something.

[UTurn]

I've hooked up with grindr guys before. There's no shame in doing it.

Just use your internet safety smarts. If you suspect their profile might not be accurate of who they are, then step away. Also, meet in a public place - not their house, not their car, not in a dark alley. If you get an odd vibe from them, you're allowed to leave. If not, then there's no shame in having fun and exploring your sexuality.



It's not that hard to cover up what you're doing. Just say you're going to the mall with friends or something.

going to hook up with him isnt hard to cover at all im not worried about that, i meant i dont wanna like go meet gay guys and take a chance at my friends finding out cause what if i decide im not even bi but they would still always think i was gay or bi cause i got involved with guys so i just dont want that which is why grindr seemed the best way to experiment

[Abhorrence]

Hooking up is fine as long as you're safe which everyone has said and definitely make sure the person is who they say they are, get their snapchat or something. You need a live picture of them because so many people on apps just use other people's pictures.

[Cognizant]

going to hook up with him isnt hard to cover at all im not worried about that, i meant i dont wanna like go meet gay guys and take a chance at my friends finding out cause what if i decide im not even bi but they would still always think i was gay or bi cause i got involved with guys so i just dont want that which is why grindr seemed the best way to experiment

Now I don't know how homophobic your community is, but if you're concerned about what your friends might say, you're hanging around the wrong people. It's OK to experiment anyways. Everyone does or has curious thoughts about it I'm sure. Don't let anyone hold that against you.

But if you don't tell anyone, how would others find out? I'm confused as to why you couldn't just meet at a coffee shop or smoothie bar and chat a little bit first, to make sure he's not going to murder you and then rape your dead body. :P

[UTurn]

Now I don't know how homophobic your community is, but if you're concerned about what your friends might say, you're hanging around the wrong people. It's OK to experiment anyways. Everyone does or has curious thoughts about it I'm sure. Don't let anyone hold that against you.

But if you don't tell anyone, how would others find out? I'm confused as to why you couldn't just meet at a coffee shop or smoothie bar and chat a little bit first, to make sure he's not going to murder you and then rape your dead body. :P

We actually ended up not hanging out because I suggested we meet at a hookah bar or walk around at a mall that's in between where we both live and he got all weird and said that he didn't wanna meet anywhere in public cause he's not out and said it would be weird and he just wanted to stand outside our cars in a parking lot or sit in them and talk and I was like umm fuck no so I blocked his number haha

[Jaffe]

We actually ended up not hanging out because I suggested we meet at a hookah bar or walk around at a mall that's in between where we both live and he got all weird and said that he didn't wanna meet anywhere in public cause he's not out and said it would be weird and he just wanted to stand outside our cars in a parking lot or sit in them and talk and I was like umm fuck no so I blocked his number haha

Smart move, I'm glad you didnt chance it when it got weird.

[James Dean]

OP has removed the first post, so I'm going to lock this.

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