I am bi

[daviddave]

Hi!

So recently I came out as bi. But I seem to lean towards having a boyfriend. But the guy I like is straight but I cannot get over this crush.

[SethfromMI]

well you could try talking to him, but I mean if he is straight then there is nothing you really can do but move on . hate to say it but if he is straight then that's all there is to it

[Abhorrence]

Congrats on coming out as bisexual. Like I've said to other people regarding straight crushes, is just try very hard to get them out of your head. It will hardly ever go in favour of you because you cannot change someone's sexuality.

[Dalton504]

Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do. You can't change someone's sexuality. Its hard, but try to move on.

[Just JT]

like all the amsweres given, can't do much about someone else's sexuality, but if ya tell him, he might be open for exploring, r u sure he's straight??

[northy]

Well done on coming out. Not sure if I can help much more with the crush. Look what other people said, they are right.

[ashdaniel]

Well, I am bi but I haven't come out to my family or friend. This is the problem. With gay and bi we struggle with our crush. If our crush is gay or bi . We have a chance but if not it is hard.

[TessaBear]

I am the same! I am a bisexual female who leans more toward other females, but I am still attracted to guys. You may have to just let the feelings pass. It's happened to me more than once. I promise it gets better.

[Sports Boy]

I'm new here, so hopefully this isn't too graphic but when I have had crushes on friends I think it's because I masturbated thinking about them and having sex with them. That just made it so much worse. I've learned not to do that anymore and I've avoided crushes on friends that I know I could have developed if I fantasized about them.

[Laibachd]

Are you sure he is straight, or is he simply straight-passing? In the latter case, you may try to ask him :0