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Jakeremix
June 27th, 2015, 05:38 AM
I'm 15 years old (I'll be turning 16 in a few weeks) and I just started masturbating a few months ago. I'm a little late, I know. The problem is that I have yet to orgasm, let alone ejaculate. At one point, I felt something, but I don't think it was an orgasm seeing as it didn't strike me as feeling really good.

I usually masturbate for five minutes in my bedroom before I give up. I have no problem getting hard. I go with the basic technique—putting my entire hand around it and going up and down. I don't watch porn, and I usually just stand or sit when I'm doing it. I do notice tiny little bubbles emerging at the tip of my penis, however, but I'm not sure if it's cum or not.

My question is what's holding me back? Is my technique wrong? Do I need to be watching porn or having sexy thoughts in my mind? Or does it have to do with my health?

Do you guys have suggestions for better ways to masturbate?

EDIT: I should also mention that I have had wet dreams before.
Vermilion
June 27th, 2015, 05:45 AM
The bubbles sound like pre cum I'd just keep going at it
AceofSpades97
June 27th, 2015, 08:16 AM
You gotta keep doing it but idk what the prob is maybe your fanatasies just don't get you off. Idk or maybe cause you just started who knows. It will be fine most of the time though and if you really have a prob with it you can always go to a doctor.
Walton The Dankest
June 27th, 2015, 08:35 AM
My first times jacking it would take a LONG time.
FameMonster
June 27th, 2015, 09:18 AM
Just be patient. You are giving up too soon. Reaching orgasm is as much physical as mental. Just don't masturbate because you should, but enjoy it also. Take the time and relax and enjoy the feeling of it. You probably can ejaculate if you have had wet dreams. good luck!
SethfromMI
June 27th, 2015, 09:57 AM
Just be patient. You are giving up too soon. Reaching orgasm is as much physical as mental. Just don't masturbate because you should, but enjoy it also. Take the time and relax and enjoy the feeling of it. You probably can ejaculate if you have had wet dreams. good luck!

very good advice. it is something you enjoy, it is not something to be over thought
Jaffe
June 27th, 2015, 10:10 AM
We really cant give you techniques on this forum. But more than technique is involved here. So, lay down on your bed (instead of stand or sit), use lube, think about what you are doing, or whatever you get off on. And 5 minutes is not long enough, be patient.
Bluebyrd
July 10th, 2015, 03:15 PM
The bubbles you are experiencing are probably the pre cum so just keep jerking for a little longer.
Lost in the Echo
July 10th, 2015, 03:52 PM
Technique sharing is not allowed, sorry. :locked: