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justjulia
June 26th, 2015, 09:35 PM
Hi,
I'm a 15 year old female.
Recently I've been questioning my sexuality. I've considered myself straight up until last year. The past year I've really have been thinking that I'm not exclusively straight. I am attracted to both boys and girls. I find both girls and boys hot. I can see myself in a relationship with either a guy or a girl (I've havent been in a relationship yet). What's really confusing me is that since elementary school I only had male crushes, but recently I've started to be attracted to girls. Is this just part of being a teen or do you think I might be bi?
ImCoolBeans
June 26th, 2015, 09:41 PM
It's possible that you could be bisexual, although it is very common for teens to become more curious about sex, even with the same sex, during puberty. Teenagers' brains have tons of hormones influencing your thought processes and sometimes that results in sexual curiosity. Whatever it is, I wouldn't worry about it and I'm sure you'll figure everything out in time :)
Microcosm
June 27th, 2015, 12:08 AM
The good thing is that there is no need to rush your decision. :)
Sexuality can be very confusing during your teen years. Luckily, you have plenty of time to figure it out. The best thing you can do is wait until you're absolutely certain before you start telling people about what sexuality you have decided on.
lukene
June 27th, 2015, 03:26 AM
Most importantly:
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Abhorrence
June 27th, 2015, 06:43 AM
Most importantly:
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I wish there was a way to favourite posts on here. :P
justjulia
June 27th, 2015, 08:35 AM
Thanks Luke, I really needed that.
lukene
June 28th, 2015, 04:59 AM
Thanks Luke, I really needed that.
My pleasure, I am here to spread love through gifs.
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Ps. Great signature, Lorde is the bomb.com.
TessaBear
July 1st, 2015, 04:54 AM
Absolutely, I was the same when I was around 13. But just know, there is no reason to put a label on yourself! Just follow your heart and see what comes of it.
SethfromMI
July 1st, 2015, 07:49 AM
it honestly could be both. it is going to take time, there is no rush and it is not like you can never change your mind again if you figure something new out
Jaffe
July 1st, 2015, 09:36 AM
When your hormones skyrocket, anything that walks on two legs is attractive. (Well, ok, not quite everything) Gender is suddenly not important at all. But give it time, don't really even try to make any decision. Ride it out and be patient, and you'll figure it out. Besides, you don't need a social label, you just need to be you.
Laibachd
July 3rd, 2015, 05:11 AM
You might be bisexual ^^
Iam-Marie
July 3rd, 2015, 06:03 AM
I am sure you are bi.
Mark2000
July 3rd, 2015, 07:57 AM
Sometimes I think I am bi, but I cannot accept it, parents want me to do all male stuff. Sports and so on
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