crush on my straight friend I think...

[htx.dre]

I have a good friend that I am always with and we smoke together often ... although he does not know I secrectly have a crush on him. I really do think he is also bi when we didnt see each other for a couple of days he gave me a tight hug THIS HAPPEND TWICE. One time when he said goodbye he said "bye baby". He is really playful so im confused. He even slapped my butt once. I recently came out to him because I wanted to see his reaction so I could try and make my move. When I came out to him he found it unbelievable. But was totally accepting and didnt really care. He kept asking am I telling the truth. I really like him and I think he is lying to me. What straight guys slaps his friend ass hugs him affectionately twice and tells him bye baby? What would you guys do?

[lukene]

From what you have described he could be interested in you, however he also may just be comfortable around you and a physically affectionate guy. It's best not to make assumptions as this can make things worse later on. The only way you can be sure is if you talk to him about it, you don't have to necessarily tell him about your crush but maybe just bring up the concept of a guy hitting on him or something similar and work from there.

[htx.dre]

Thank you so much for your help!!

[Steve Jobs]

I wouldn't take into too much account just the actions he's done to you, but only you know your friend and know how comfortable you can be around him.

If he's someone you can trust, and knows will stick beside you, then take some time and be honest. A true friend will stick by you, and as long as you respect his decision on how he wants to proceed with a relationship then I don't see anything that could go wrong. What's the most you can lose?

Having said that, I've seen straight guys kiss each other and do much more than a slap in the butt, even I do that type of thing and I'm not by any means one of those 'physically affectionate' guys.

[Jaffe]

If he knows you are bi, then it shouldnt be too uncomfortable, next time sex comes up, to ask him if he's ever thought of doing anything with a guy. Just a generic question. Check his reaction, watch his face.

[htx.dre]

Ugh guys im over him now im just like fuck it

[htx.dre]

Ill just keep him as a smoke buddy im sure later on it will change to more than that.

[Zachary G]

From what you have described he could be interested in you, however he also may just be comfortable around you and a physically affectionate guy. It's best not to make assumptions as this can make things worse later on. The only way you can be sure is if you talk to him about it, you don't have to necessarily tell him about your crush but maybe just bring up the concept of a guy hitting on him or something similar and work from there.

This is pretty good advice, the best course of action here is to talk with him openly about sexuality in general and see where his mind is.

[DoodleSnap]

I don't think that you should over-analyse his past actions too much. It very well could be that he is bi, but you can never know for sure unless you ask him. He also could very well not know for himself; again, you should speak to him. Speak to him about your experience in finding your sexuality, and the way in which you realised that the way you felt about guys was an attraction too, but that you had to find that despite the barriers society instils against non-heterosexuality. Try to communicate with him, and have a proper discussion, and you will work out what needs to happen next.
Good luck.