Getting friend to experiment

[Trinidad_boii_]

I'm i the only one that finds it hard to find a person that is just as curios as you are.... I thinks it's especially in Florida ( anyone from Florida that knows how I feel comments are appreciated).

[NZPerson]

Everyone is curious just no one has the guys to ask or try anything im sure if you found someone you age and intrests and straight up asked it wouldnt be to hard to find someone.

[LoveDat]

i feel ya! i wouldnt try too hard.. A lot of times it just happens and if it doesnt then it doesn't.. I mean you could openly ask but i dont think that really helps you because who goes around asking someone to jerk off with them :D at least that would take a lot of courage!

[patsfan925]

I'm from Florida and i found it hard to find someone to experiment with. Its not easy but you just need to slowly work on it and hint at it. Most people aren't going to come right out and ask you to jerk off with them. It took me a long while to talk to one of my best friends about it and to get to that level. I'm pretty curious but him not so much. Nevertheless it ended up working out =)

[Jtyler]

I can't find anyone I know at all, except for people on here

[The37thElement]

I don't think geography has anything to do with this. I think it's who is willing to experiment and whether or not they choose to go around making it obvious.

[Dalton504]

I think more people are wanting to experiment than you think. A lot of people probably just don't admit it making it harder to figure out who and who doesn't want to experiment.

[broskalif13]

Most people are curious.

[TalenD]

I think more people are wanting to experiment than you think. A lot of people probably just don't admit it making it harder to figure out who and who doesn't want to experiment.

yeah i agree

[Canadian Dream]

I think many people are curious they're just shy about it. At least in Canada when I talk to friends in private they say they're curious.

[CuriousConner]

Most hetero guys will act like it's against man code but if you're alone with one they will be open to doing it.

[jjjohnson248]

i feel ya! i wouldnt try too hard.. A lot of times it just happens and if it doesnt then it doesn't.. I mean you could openly ask but i dont think that really helps you because who goes around asking someone to jerk off with them :D at least that would take a lot of courage!

This is kind of true. I think it is hard to find people comfortable being naked. I play lacrosse and since we are all good friends and see each other naked all the time, it isn't a big deal and I think we're more open about everything. We never "experimented" but being naked isn't an awkward thing if you're used to it

[pjones]

I live in Florida. the experimenting i've done is with boys i've known almost all my life. i've had my best friend since we were 6 and when we spent the night at each others house we would take baths together, then showers. my other friends i've known almost as long so we've grown up seeing each other naked at times. easy to move to experimenting from there as we entered puberty.

[RunnerRunner]

I kinda have noticed, it is difficult but I cracked the egg a few times. But its not easy. It takes work, and mental skills too, what I do is like play out how you want the scenario to be if he said yes and if he said no. Thinking twice is something I do alot.

[Dane00]

Here's a thought. Show your friend this site. Come on as a visitor and click on some posts to see his reactions. Might be a good way to work up some discussion and maybe more. If it doesn't work, then follow his reactions and back away.

[Bluebyrd]

I've only experimented a few times with my best friend

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[ashdaniel]

Well, I am bisexual. Other than doing stuff with girl, I pretty much done everything. When I was younger before I done anything, I am curious, very curious but I am afraid. I guess that why I am bisexual.

[GoGoDiego]

Most of my friends find experimenting as an homosexual act. That is why, even I want to badly, I cant. Unless if I had a gay friend, he may be open to it.

[Liii]

Most of my friends find experimenting as an homosexual act. That is why, even I want to badly, I cant. Unless if I had a gay friend, he may be open to it.

Yup same here.

[Snydergate]

Yeah, I feel the same. I feel like I am the only one of my friends that would be willing to do anything, but I feel like they are just too scared to admit they would try stuff too. Everyone gets curious

[SethfromMI]

I am sure there are more people in your area. you just got to get to know them better and in a position you can actually ask about doing that type of stuff

[ImTrickster]

i've been curious for a while now, but i know how you feel there isnt anyone i feel like that i can go up to and try something with. i have a close mate who i talk to and joke about with but i dont want to try something which could change our friendship by that i dont want to fall out with him at all.

[jacshamy]

This is a tough one. You don't want to push someone into anything sexual, but you want to have fun with someone. Always struggled with that. I'm lucky now it's not an issue for me.

Best advice is don't force the issue. I think that would be bad.

[Conor_x]

I wish I could find someone to have some fun with:) x

[Innuendo]

I'm i the only one that finds it hard to find a person that is just as curios as you are.... I thinks it's especially in Florida ( anyone from Florida that knows how I feel comments are appreciated).

Well everyone's curious I mean I have seen two of my friends penisis but yeah it's kind of hard to find a curious person because they probably are but they don't want people to think their gay (not that theirs something wrong with being gay)

[sysrq]

Yup same here.

Well everyone's curious I mean I have seen two of my friends penisis but yeah it's kind of hard to find a curious person because they probably are but they don't want people to think their gay (not that theirs something wrong with being gay)

Same here none of my few friends want to do it. I always get negative vibes from them.

[football matt]

anytime i've done anything it has started with watching porn try that

[ejpete]

I want a buddy to Jerk off with so bad. I wish there was someone that wasn't so scared like most boys are in this society. I would recommend talking about girls and just increase from there.

[GeorgeBoy]

its hard to find someone and try something .. I feel like im the only one curious

[sysrq]

Yeah I wish teenage years would end faster, maybe in 20's it will be easier.

[Urban]

Yeah I wish teenage years would end faster, maybe in 20's it will be easier.

Haha you're gonna want the only time of your life without real responsibilities to last a bit mate!

Also its a bit of a double standard on males when society encourages experimenting with chicks, but with guys its all "no homo"

[Turtl3]

Just drop hints around your friends, you'll find someone eventually. I did aha!

[sysrq]

Haha you're gonna want the only time of your life without real responsibilities to last a bit mate!

Also its a bit of a double standard on males when society encourages experimenting with chicks, but with guys its all "no homo"

Yeah it's the safest way to experiment with your friends but no one want's to, everyone seems like asexual among my friends.
I'm afraid of doing it mainly due to STD's and all sorts of things, that's the last thing I want now.

I have enough responsibilities as I live alone with my sister now.

[EddieHoward96]

I think you need to let it happen naturally. You can't force it. If it happens it happens.

[Harrier]

Ok this is my rant but I hate it when I read posts like this basically asking "how do I trick or convince my friend into having fun with my dick".

Ok so this actual thread is not as bad as most others but I basically feel that if your friends want to experiment with you then you both will know.

Rant over. Didn't rant too bad either.

[BDNick]

I live in Miami and most guys are curious including myself but they are not just going to say oh hey let's go jack off or something like that. You have to know the right guy, I would say that the guy who are more open about talking about sex and stuff or the guys who flashes people in the locker room or something like that might be more willing to experiment, if you know what I mean (it's hard to explain). I was lucky and one of my friends was willing and we jacked off together.

[Peter737277]

I haven't experimented with anyone before

[Colton8]

I agree

[Zerg]

Maybe just like hint at it, but don't force them. If they say no then quit. Everybody is curious, maybe your friend is curious too

[Gokingsgo12345]

Its challenging

[JustinG]

Yes, I find it hard to find someone too.
But once you do, it's amazing!!

[ReallyGoodUsername]

A good idea would probably to build up to that, once you know their interests and have switched to that subject

[Mike Wazowski]

Yeah I've never experimented with anybody I feel you

[iChrisbtv96]

It is hard, but maybe just ease on the topic

[Henri-K]

I mess around with my two best friends very often. since we're really close, we're not really shy with anything. we're very straight forward with each other

[dysterian]

Most hetero guys will act like it's against man code but if you're alone with one they will be open to doing it.

Yeah. I think most guys want to, but nobody has the courage to ask.

[crazyBoyjJ]

Im also curious too but I also find it hard to find friends who are curious too : /

[Justlance]

I'm i the only one that finds it hard to find a person that is just as curios as you are.... I thinks it's especially in Florida ( anyone from Florida that knows how I feel comments are appreciated).
I feel you. I really want to experiment with friends but at sleep overs never get to aks or have the guts. I live in Connecticut btw, really hard to find someone who is willing to experiment. (Anyone know someone in CT who is willing to experiment?)

[Gayjack20]

Ive experiment with friends the farthest we gone thos r bjs

[just-in]

I would just ask them in private... like at a sleepover or something

[RiHouse]

I feel you. It's hard to find someone. i think it's best too as well because once you start to get older it becomes much more awkward.

[hairy balls]

I mess around with my friends very often. since we're opened minded and really close, we're not really shy with anything. we're very straight forward with each other

[Jacob12]

Very hard to do it where I'm from also